{"id":24085,"date":"2022-11-20T14:44:48","date_gmt":"2022-11-20T11:44:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24085"},"modified":"2022-11-20T14:44:50","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T11:44:50","slug":"despre-internet-si-copii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-internet-si-copii\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre internet \u015fi copii"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ieri a fost ziua interna\u0163ional\u0103 a b\u0103rbatului, pentru care am f\u0103cut un clipule\u0163 pe restul re\u0163elelor sociale \u015fi un live pe TikTok. Scurt\u0103 parantez\u0103 de umflat \u00een pene: Nu pot s\u0103 cred c\u00e2t am ezitat s\u0103-mi fac TikTok \u015fi c\u00e2t de bine \u00eemi merge de fapt acolo. Am crescut la 4.500 de followeri, am live-uri excelente, dinamice, conversa\u0163ii amuzante \u015fi o comunitate de tineri foarte prietenoas\u0103. Amuzant cum pe Facebook, demografica mea sunt femei de 35+, iar pe Tiktok, pu\u015ftani \u00een jur de 20 – 25, dar am remarcat deja c\u0103 modul de a scrie \u015fi cel de a vorbi public sunt arme diferite \u015fi te prezint\u0103 \u00een mod diferit. Ajut\u0103 \u015fi faptul c\u0103, pe TikTok, genera\u0163ia asta t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 \u00een\u0163elege altfel conceptul de creator de content \u015fi nu vine nimeni \u00een mesajele tale private s\u0103 te tuf\u0103 la icre aiurea cu nevoi de acuplare care nu au de ce s\u0103 te priveasc\u0103, de vreme ce nu \u0163i-ai propus ever s\u0103 fii nevasta universal\u0103 care le face o lab\u0103 milostiv\u0103 \u015fi caritabil\u0103 tuturor nef… p\u0103m\u00e2ntului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenchis paranteza. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ieri, stam la pove\u015fti cu vreo 40 de b\u0103ie\u0163i \u015fi le uram eu cele bune, \u015fi le explicam s\u0103 respecte femeile, c\u00e2nd, deodat\u0103, intr\u0103 \u00een live o tip\u0103. \u015ei \u00eencepe s\u0103 m\u0103 certe. C\u0103 eu am o prezen\u0163\u0103 public\u0103 “provocatoare”, \u015fi c\u0103 ea e mam\u0103, \u015fi nu vrea s\u0103 m\u0103 vad\u0103 copiii ei sau ai altora. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, eu ca artist \u015fi ca creator de content, nu am absolut nici o obliga\u0163ie s\u0103 m\u0103 transform \u00een ga\u015fca zurli, s\u0103 fiu r\u0103spunsul pentru copiii altuia. Nu e treaba mea s\u0103 fiu bona gratuit\u0103 a internetului. Nu e obliga\u0163ia mea s\u0103 m\u0103 cenzurez eu \u015fi s\u0103 creez ciuntit \u015fi crispat, cu g\u00e2ndul la copiii Maricic\u0103i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Copiii Maricic\u0103i sunt responsabilitatea Maricic\u0103i, nu a mea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce pot eu s\u0103 fac pentru copiii Maricic\u0103i este: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-s\u0103 nu \u00eei contactez \u00een nici un fel \u015fi s\u0103 evit comunicarea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-s\u0103 \u00eei rog s\u0103 nu acceseze contentul meu care presupune expresivitate provocatoare \u015fi limbaj licen\u0163ios <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-s\u0103 le spun c\u0103 munca mea nu e adecvat\u0103 pentru ei \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eei rog s\u0103 revin\u0103 dup\u0103 majorat, dac\u0103 mai g\u0103sesc ceva interesant \u00een ceea ce fac eu \u00een acel punct al vie\u0163ii lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bonus, dac\u0103 v\u0103d o situa\u0163ie de bullying, pot s\u0103 intervin \u015fi s\u0103-i scot din ghearele h\u0103r\u0163uitorului, \u015fi s\u0103 le spun s\u0103 se duc\u0103 la un p\u0103rinte sau un profesor pentru ajutor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar aici, obliga\u0163ia mea fa\u0163\u0103 de copilul Maricic\u0103i ia sf\u00e2r\u015fit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maricica i-a cump\u0103rat copilului smartphone, tablet\u0103, laptop, \u015fi restul minunilor tehnologiei. Ea are posibilitatea, ba chiar obliga\u0163ia, s\u0103 verifice unde intr\u0103 junior, s\u0103 seteze control parental peste contentul c\u00e2h, dirty, \u015fi s\u0103-l \u00eenve\u0163e c\u0103 toate astea sunt INADECVATE pentru ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu mai obliga societatea s\u0103 fie d\u0103daca copilului t\u0103u. Nu e treaba str\u0103inilor s\u0103 se nege pe ei \u00een\u015fi\u015fi, de team\u0103 c\u0103 intr\u0103 \u015fi copilul t\u0103u acolo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, eu sunt un artist rebel, androgin, cu o preferin\u0163\u0103 pentru anarhie artistic\u0103. Vestea bun\u0103 e c\u0103, dac\u0103 pui parental control pe tot ce e “lorena lupu”, copilul t\u0103u nu va mai intra aici. Sau \u00een alt\u0103 parte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu-mi mai cere mie s\u0103 renun\u0163 la a fi eu \u015fi asum\u0103-\u0163i responsabilitatea de protector al copilului, care pic\u0103 exclusiv \u00een curtea ta. \u015ei pe telefon, \u015fi pe tablet\u0103, \u015fi pe laptop, ai toate instrumentele pentru asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oricum, internetul a contribuit mult la comunicarea liber\u0103. Imagina\u0163i-v\u0103, chiar \u015fi \u00een anii 2000, cum ar fi fost s\u0103 se duc\u0103 Getu\u0163a din Apahida la Jenna Jameson: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Doamna Jenna, nu mai devora\u0163i coco\u015felul cu at\u00e2ta poft\u0103, c\u0103, uite, se uit\u0103 Mirciulic\u0103 la dumneavoastr\u0103 cu o b\u0103lu\u0163\u0103 \u00een col\u0163ul gurii \u015fi m\u0103 tem c\u0103 iese violator sau ceva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E treaba TA de p\u0103rinte s\u0103 \u0163ii caseta aia de VHS ascuns\u0103. Nu a performerului s\u0103 se alinieze la lumea ta artificial\u0103, unde apa e “api\u0163\u0103” \u015fi m\u00e2ncarea “p\u0103pic\u0103”. Peste zece ani, \u015fi copilul va protesta zgomotos la “api\u0163\u0103” \u015fi “p\u0103pic\u0103”. Apoi se va \u00eenchide la el \u00een camer\u0103 cu cheia, s\u0103 nu-l vezi tu, s\u0103 dea o viguroas\u0103 \u015fi sacadat\u0103 pe un clip vintage cu doamna Jenna. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Povestea ta de amor cu acest blog poate continua oferind autorului o cafea. Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe Tiktok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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