Am banat extrem de mult\u0103 lume \u00een ultima vreme. Deja s-a luat smal\u0163ul de pe butonul de BAN.<\/p>\n
Se pare c\u0103, asemenea valului de alergii de prim\u0103var\u0103 sau de guturai de noiembrie, ocazional se abate asupra blogului meu valul de l\u0103tr\u0103i b\u0103tu\u0163i \u00een cap. \u015ei se impun preciz\u0103ri:<\/p>\n
1) Ai dreptul la opinie separat\u0103. Dar nu ai dreptul s\u0103 \u00eemi scrii m\u00e2rl\u0103nii gratuite. Mai mult ca sigur, dac\u0103 o arzi aiurea pe net \u015fi \u00eempar\u0163i coc\u0103l\u0103reli \u00een st\u00e2nga \u015fi \u00een dreapta, e\u015fti un loser cu nevoi exacerbate de compensa\u0163ie. Nu sunt eu de vin\u0103 c\u0103 munce\u015fti zece ore \u015fi \u015fefii \u00ee\u015fi bat joc de tine, nu sunt eu de vin\u0103 c\u0103 femeia te-a p\u0103r\u0103sit pentru altul mai potent financiar, nu sunt eu de vin\u0103 pentru c\u0103 ai 35 de ani \u015fi \u00eenc\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i alege m\u0103-ta hainele pentru ziua \u00een curs. Deci, nu te r\u0103zbuna pe mine dac\u0103 ai o via\u0163\u0103 de c\u0103cat. E problema ta personal\u0103.<\/p>\n
2) Po\u0163i s\u0103 \u00eemi ceri o explica\u0163ie dac\u0103 nu ai \u00een\u0163eles de ce am f\u0103cut un anume lucru. Dar dac\u0103 mi-o ceri mitoc\u0103ne\u015fte, de parc\u0103 \u0163i s-ar cuveni, o s\u0103 \u00eemi piar\u0103 pe loc cheful s\u0103 \u0163i-o dau \u015fi nu vei c\u0103p\u0103ta dec\u00e2t o c\u0103lduroas\u0103 muie. Pentru c\u0103 nu e\u015fti tu, un nimeni de pe net, \u00een postura de a-mi cere mie explica\u0163ii \u00eentr-un stil tupeist \u015fi obraznic. (C\u00e2t timp nu semnezi cu nume\/prenume\/educa\u0163ie\/func\u0163ie – asta e\u015fti, un nimeni de pe net.) Nu datorez nici respect, nici aten\u0163ie, nici amabilitate dec\u00e2t oamenilor care deschid discu\u0163ia \u00eentr-un stil respectuos \u015fi amabil. Restul – la gunoi.<\/p>\n
3) Cu unii oameni sunt mai permisiv\u0103 dec\u00e2t cu al\u0163ii. Logic. \u015ei voi le da\u0163i de b\u0103ut unora \u015fi cu al\u0163ii n-a\u0163i ie\u015fi nici dac\u0103 v-ar pl\u0103ti cu ora. Fiecare om are afinit\u0103\u0163i \u015fi simpatii. Dar dac\u0103 eu sunt tolerant\u0103 cu X., nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 voi fi tolerant\u0103 \u015fi cu tine. M\u0103soar\u0103-\u0163i (\u00eendelung) cuvintele.<\/p>\n
4) C\u00e2nd am un punct de vedere, \u00eel explic clar, f\u0103r\u0103 echivoc. Dar dac\u0103 tu insi\u015fti s\u0103 faci pe idiotul care nu a \u00een\u0163eles \u015fi m\u0103 freci la icre cu 40 de comentarii \u00eentreb\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 de 40 de ori aceea\u015fi chestie \u015fi abuz\u00e2nd de timpul meu, e semn c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 \u00eemi afi\u015fez contul de Paypal. Dac\u0103 tot \u00eemi m\u0103n\u00e2nci timpul, m\u0103car s\u0103 \u015ftiu \u015fi eu de ce.<\/p>\n
5) Te-ai r\u0103\u0163oit la mine f\u0103r\u0103 motiv, ca la m\u0103-ta-n b\u0103t\u0103tur\u0103, prin urmare te-am banat. Nu banez \u00een a\u015fa fel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu mai po\u0163i vedea blogul – sunt con\u015ftient\u0103 c\u0103 minim 30% dintre cititorii zilnici sunt bana\u0163ii care spumeg\u0103 \u00een sinea lor. A\u015fa v\u0103 trebuie, loserilor.<\/p>\n
Dac\u0103 e\u015fti cu adev\u0103rat un c\u0103cat cu ochi, ai dou\u0103 alternative simple \u015fi la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103:
\n-te duci la tine pe blog \u015fi m\u0103 \u00eenjuri copios
\n-m\u0103 trollezi c\u00e2nd comentez pe alte bloguri, c\u0103ut\u00e2nd s\u0103 ar\u0103\u0163i \u015fi \u0103lora ce coios e\u015fti tu.<\/p>\n
Ambele cazuri arat\u0103 c\u00e2t e\u015fti de trist \u00een \u0163op\u00e2rl\u0103nia ta \u015fi m\u0103 fac s\u0103 m\u0103 felicit c\u0103 am economisit timpul pe care l-a\u015f fi pierdut dialog\u00e2nd cu tine. Dimpotriv\u0103, c\u00e2nd oamenii au avut for\u0163a de a recunoa\u015fte c\u0103 au gre\u015fit \u015fi \u015fi-au cerut scuze, i-am scos de pe lista neagr\u0103 \u015fi am reluat comunicarea.<\/p>\n
At\u00e2t am avut de spus pe aceast\u0103 tem\u0103. Sper ca s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na viitoare s\u0103 banez mai pu\u0163in\u0103 lume. Sau nu. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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