{"id":24153,"date":"2022-12-03T11:07:50","date_gmt":"2022-12-03T08:07:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24153"},"modified":"2022-12-03T11:07:52","modified_gmt":"2022-12-03T08:07:52","slug":"cum-scapam-de-hartuire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cum-scapam-de-hartuire\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum sc\u0103p\u0103m de h\u0103r\u0163uire"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Femeile au parte de multe tipuri de h\u0103r\u0163uire. Exist\u0103, desigur, bullyingul agresiv, cel \u00een care gigel \u00ee\u0163i inventeaz\u0103 cele mai aberante repro\u015furi, \u015fi modul \u00een care te-ai uitat tu nu \u015ftiu cum la el \u00eentr-o sear\u0103, din care a \u00een\u0163eles altceva, \u015fi numai tu e\u015fti de vin\u0103 c\u0103 l-ai indus \u00een eroare, \u015fi-\u0163i trimite 56790 de mesaje cu repro\u015furi fantasmagorice, care te fac s\u0103 te ba\u0163i pe um\u0103r c\u0103 nu te-ai combinat cu nebunul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exist\u0103 bullyingul psihopat (sigur, \u015fi \u0103la de dinainte e psihopat), \u00een care gigel \u00ee\u0163i sun\u0103 \u015fi-\u0163i amenin\u0163\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii, veri\u015forii, cei mai buni prieteni, colegii de munc\u0103 de pe minimum cinci numere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei exist\u0103 h\u0103r\u0163uirea aparent binevoitoare: cea \u00een care individul nu \u00eenjur\u0103, nu jigne\u015fte, nu amenin\u0163\u0103, doar terorizeaz\u0103 cu 532 de telefoane \u015fi 579 de mesaje \u015fi nu vrea s\u0103 proceseze informa\u0163ia c\u0103 tipa nu se f. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau, m\u0103 rog, se f, dar nu cu el. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De\u015fi nu e scary \u015fi horror ca versiunea cu amenin\u0163\u0103ri \u015fi blesteme, stresul zilnic, c\u00e2nd ajungi s\u0103 blochezi pe telefon sute de numere de pe care sun\u0103 \u0103la s\u0103 te mai frece la icre, pentru c\u0103 al lui e blocat de mult, sute de conturi de Facebook, Instagram, TikTok pentru c\u0103 stresul t\u0103u produce conturi fake cu o vitez\u0103 \u015fi o h\u0103rnicie de propagandist rus, p\u0103cat c\u0103 nu \u015ftiu \u0103ia de el c\u0103 ar face un ban cinstit… plm, mi-au zis to\u0163i profii de scriere creativ\u0103 c\u0103 am o predilec\u0163ie spre propozi\u0163ii prea lungi \u015fi \u00eenc\u00e2lcite. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei tot o am, c\u0103 de-aia-i predilec\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mbun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deci, \u0103la nu latr\u0103, nu \u00eenjur\u0103. Dar faptul c\u0103 te freac\u0103 extrem de mult \u015fi de insistent la cap e la fel de enervant. Nu la fel de scary, dar la fel de enervant. Faptul c\u0103 e creativ \u015fi face tz\u015fpe conturi fake e \u015fi mai enervant. Faptul c\u0103 exact acum, \u00een timp ce vorbim, \u0103la e la col\u0163 \u015fi-\u015fi ia o cartel\u0103 SIM cu 5 dolari de pe care s\u0103 te sune pe tine e \u015fi mai enervant. Aceea\u015fi idee, propozi\u0163ii scurte \u015fi clare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La un moment dat, o prieten\u0103 a mea avea un pis\u0103log enervant din \u0103sta. Toat\u0103 ziua cu f**iul pe capul ei. Fata, disperat\u0103, nu \u015ftia ce s\u0103 fac\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 a b\u0103ut o cafea cu sora voastr\u0103 aici de fa\u0163\u0103 \u015fi sora voastr\u0103 i-a zis: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-B\u0103i, am o idee. Stupid\u0103 idee, dar ar putea s\u0103 \u0163in\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Orice, nu conteaz\u0103, spune. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Tot voiai tu s\u0103-\u0163i faci canal de YouTube, dac\u0103 mai \u0163ii minte, \u015fi tot am\u00e2ni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Da, \u015fi ce leg\u0103… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Ascult\u0103, f\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t, nu mai \u00eentrerupe omul. Mbun. Dac\u0103 \u0103sta sufer\u0103 de at\u00e2ta exces de zel, \u00eei spui: Gigele, din secunda asta, investe\u015fti energia asta suplimentar\u0103 \u00een proiectele mele \u015fi te faci util, dac\u0103 tot \u00eemi consumi at\u00e2ta timp. Te iau partener la youtube, \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 filmezi \u015fi s\u0103 editezi, cump\u0103r\u0103 un GoPro \u015fi f\u0103-mi rost de sponsori pentru canal. Iar dac\u0103 te sun\u0103, \u00eel iei instant la \u00eentreb\u0103ri pe un ton de soacr\u0103 terorist\u0103 procuror bol\u015fevic: Cum merg lec\u0163iile de filmat? Cum merg lec\u0163iile de editat? Sponsorii? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Nu \u015ftiu, fat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-\u00cencearc\u0103, oricum n-ai nimic de pierdut. Dac\u0103 \u0163ine, dai un vin, dac\u0103 nu \u0163ine, dau eu un vin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne vedem peste vreo lun\u0103, fata cu vinul \u00een bra\u0163e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Nu mai spune, \u00een\u0163eleg c\u0103 a mers? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-P\u0103i da, a zis c\u0103 nu suport\u0103 s\u0103 se simt\u0103 at\u00e2t de exploatat \u015fi c\u0103 are nevoie de o pauz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i plac aceste texte, po\u0163i oferi o cafea autorului lor. Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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