Nu \u015ftiu dac\u0103 mai \u0163ii rubrica po\u015fta redac\u0163iei, n-am v\u0103zut nimic pe blogul t\u0103u, dar cred c\u0103 merit\u0103 s\u0103-mi \u00eencerc norocul. Dac\u0103 te deranjez degeaba ca gigeii, te rog s\u0103 m\u0103 ier\u0163i. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n (Not\u0103 Lorena: Eu \u0163in rubrica, evident, dar am nevoie de mailuri de la voi s-o pot \u0163ine. N-ai v\u0103zut nimic pentru c\u0103 nu mi-a trimis nimeni nimic, \u015fi dac\u0103 nu mi-a trimis nimeni nimic, asta e.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n M-am combinat de ceva timp cu un b\u0103iat, e primul tip cu care m\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnesc mai des. \u00cemi place c\u0103 e foarte inteligent, c\u0103 ai subiecte interesante cu el, c\u0103 e funny de multe ori, c\u0103 mergem \u00een locuri dr\u0103gu\u0163e \u00eempreun\u0103, c\u0103 e fiecare date e super tare, dar \u00een ultima vreme au \u00eenceput ni\u015fte discu\u0163ii care m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Noi ne-am cunoscut pe Instagram, unde eu fac multe \u015fedin\u0163e foto pentru c\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 dau modest\u0103, ar\u0103t bine \u015fi o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de prieteni fotografi fac \u015fedin\u0163e foto, ei pentru portofoliu, eu pentru poze cool. \u015ei prietenul meu m\u0103 tot bate la cap c\u0103 acum, c\u00e2nd sunt cu el, s\u0103-mi pun Instagramul privat, c\u0103 eu de fapt cui vreau s\u0103 plac dac\u0103 sunt cu el. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am \u00eencercat s\u0103-i explic c\u0103 nu vreau s\u0103 plac nim\u0103nui \u00een mod special, c\u0103 pur \u015fi simplu \u00eemi face pl\u0103cere s\u0103 am poze frumoase \u00een care ar\u0103t bine \u015fi c\u0103 poate prind \u015fi eu o ofert\u0103 de la un brand, dar m\u0103 acuz\u0103 c\u0103 mint, c\u0103 nu recunosc c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 plac altor b\u0103ie\u0163i \u015fi c\u0103 numai onlyfanistele fac \u015fi posteaz\u0103 at\u00e2tea poze. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Mie \u00eemi place tot ce am experimentat cu tipul \u0103sta p\u00e2n\u0103 acum, m\u0103 \u015fi atrage, dar discu\u0163iile astea nu-mi plac deloc. \u015etiu c\u0103 \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie se fac sacrificii, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 te adaptezi la partener, dar nu-mi convine nicicum s\u0103 renun\u0163 la ceva ce iubesc, Instagramul, pentru c\u0103 el refuz\u0103 s\u0103-mi acorde \u00eencredere. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n What would Lorena do? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Te admir foarte tare, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu cred c\u0103 tu \u015ftii deja r\u0103spunsul meu, \u015fi \u00eemi scrii doar s\u0103-\u0163i confirmi \u0163ie ce ai de f\u0103cut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pentru c\u0103 \u015ftim \u015fi eu, \u015fi tu c\u0103 nu vei renun\u0163a la Instagramul care merge super bine pentru preten\u0163iile unui t\u00e2rliplici egoist, care \u00ee\u015fi pune tendin\u0163a patologic\u0103 de control mai presus de bucuriile tale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar hai s\u0103 lu\u0103m situa\u0163ia invers. S\u0103 fi fost el emergent pe Instagram, \u015fi tu, noua lui iubire f\u0103r\u0103 prezen\u0163\u0103 online. Ce ai fi f\u0103cut tu, ca iubit\u0103 bun\u0103 \u015fi supportive? I-ai fi \u0163inut umbrela de lumini la \u015fedin\u0163ele foto, l-ai fi dus cu ma\u015fina la adresele shootingurilor \u015fi l-ai fi pudrat \u00eentre cadre s\u0103 nu par\u0103 lucios. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Asta face un partener cu adev\u0103rat iubitor, care \u00ee\u0163i \u00een\u0163elege priorit\u0103\u0163ile \u015fi vrea s\u0103 te ajute s\u0103 cre\u015fti, nu s\u0103 te trag\u0103 \u00een jos \u015fi s\u0103 fac\u0103 din tine o unealt\u0103 util\u0103, un trofeu frumos \u015fi lipsit de idealuri personale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Apropo de onlyfanistele pe care le men\u0163ioneaz\u0103: cunosc unele al c\u0103ror iubit le e \u015fi produc\u0103tor, \u015fi fac o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de bani \u00eempreun\u0103. Ca parteneri care se sus\u0163in reciproc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar evident, nu e cazul t\u0103u, tu doar vrei s\u0103 cre\u015fti pe o re\u0163ea social\u0103 clean (\u00een linii mari), unde, de la un punct \u00een sus, po\u0163i ob\u0163ine sponsoriz\u0103ri \u015fi oferte de promovare de la branduri, \u015fi o identitate public\u0103 proprie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Gelozia asta maladiv\u0103 \u015fi absurd\u0103 nu face s\u0103 devin\u0103 mai acerb\u0103 \u00een timp, \u015fi mai agresiv\u0103 \u00een manifestare. Cu c\u00e2t tu renun\u0163i la diverse, cu at\u00e2t \u00ee\u0163i va face circ pe rahaturi mai mici. Ca o form\u0103 de control. Gen: te-ai uitat nu \u015ftiu cum la unul pe strad\u0103 sau i-ai z\u00e2mbit politicos po\u015fta\u015fului, sigur vrei s\u0103 \u0163i-o tragi \u015fi cu ei. Foarte mul\u0163i nervi, foarte mult\u0103 toxicitate \u015fi tot at\u00e2tea atacuri care \u00ee\u0163i vor otr\u0103vi via\u0163a. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Zi-i adio tipului \u015fi \u00een nici un caz nu-\u0163i \u00eenchide Instagramul. Dac\u0103 vrea o tip\u0103 cu Instagram privat, s\u0103-\u015fi caute direct una cu Instagramul privat. Dar hei, aia nu-i place, c\u0103 e nasoal\u0103, lol. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Cine vrea o femeie frumoas\u0103, s\u0103-\u015fi asume c\u0103 ea \u00ee\u015fi va valorifica frumuse\u0163ea. Punct. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i plac sfaturile simple, practice \u015fi la obiect, po\u0163i s\u0103 \u015fi sus\u0163ii rubrica. Popii au cutia milei, noi avem cutia onestit\u0103\u0163ii. 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