{"id":24251,"date":"2022-12-28T04:57:23","date_gmt":"2022-12-28T01:57:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24251"},"modified":"2022-12-28T04:57:26","modified_gmt":"2022-12-28T01:57:26","slug":"despre-femei-si-motivatie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-femei-si-motivatie\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre femei \u015fi motiva\u0163ie"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Mi se pare interesant s\u0103 vorbim despre motiva\u0163ie. Mai ales c\u0103 urmeaz\u0103 un an nou, \u015fi trebuie s\u0103 avem motiva\u0163ii noi pentru experien\u0163ele pe care vrem s\u0103 le construim pentru noi \u015fi pentru al\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Intru eu ieri seara live pe TikTok, a\u015fa cum fac cam din dou\u0103 \u00een dou\u0103 seri, pentru c\u0103 acum lupt s\u0103 ajung la 7.000 de followeri \u015fi sunt undeva la 6.800. Iar dac\u0103 cineva are ceva de comentat pe subiect, am de spus doar at\u00e2t: sunt unii dintre voi care joac\u0103 cinci – \u015fase ore pe zi c\u00e2te un joc, \u00een care tot ce au de c\u00e2\u015ftigat e glorie \u015fi au de b\u0103gat bani pentru diverse chestii care s\u0103 te ajute s\u0103 cre\u015fti \u00een joc. Sunt unii dintre voi care joac\u0103 jocuri de noroc \u015fi pierd banii de p\u00e2ine \u015fi de chirie. Eu joc un joc cu cheltuial\u0103 zero, care \u00eemi cre\u015fte comunitatea online \u015fi implicit \u00eemi aduce mai multe contracte. E jocul meu of choice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bun, \u015fi ieri sear\u0103 a \u00eenceput o discu\u0163ie. Precizez, din varii motive, pe TikTok am o audien\u0163\u0103 format\u0103 predominant din b\u0103ie\u0163i. Unii straight, unii gay, irelevant. C\u00e2t timp nu se dau la mine, we’re good. Eu sunt la fel de onest\u0103 cum sunt \u015fi pe Facebook: nu sunt aici s\u0103 \u00eemi g\u0103sesc iubirea vie\u0163ii mele, vreau s\u0103 creez un public nou, de alt\u0103 genera\u0163ie dec\u00e2t cea de pe Facebook sau Instagram, pentru c\u0103 \u00een calitatea mea de content creator, vreau comunicare cu toate v\u00e2rstele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei \u00eencepe o discu\u0163ie despre motiva\u0163ie. Unul dintre pu\u015fti \u00eemi spune c\u0103 eu par mereu at\u00e2t de motivat\u0103 c\u00e2nd intru \u00eentr-un live. \u00cei r\u0103spund c\u0103 mi se pare normal s\u0103 apar \u00een fa\u0163a unui public doar atunci c\u00e2nd sunt \u00een form\u0103, s\u0103 transmit pozitivitate \u015fi bun\u0103 dispozi\u0163ie, pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 am un moment prost, aleg s\u0103 nu \u00eencarc ter\u0163i nevinova\u0163i cu asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei altul \u00eemi spune c\u0103 el nu face nimic \u00een prezent, dar sigur, dac\u0103 ar g\u0103si o femeie, ar g\u0103si motiva\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ideea asta am auzit-o de c\u00e2teva ori \u015fi la femei cu care am vorbit. Vai, acum m\u0103 simt a\u015fa inutil\u0103 \u015fi degeaba, dar dac\u0103 a\u015f g\u0103si un b\u0103rbat, a\u015f avea motiva\u0163ie \/ solu\u0163ii la probleme \/ soare pe cer \/ plafonarea pre\u0163urilor la curent \/ nemurirea sufletului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei am \u0163inut un mic rant, ale c\u0103ror idei vi le povestesc \u015fi vou\u0103 acum: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Motiva\u0163ia vine din interior. Nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 dac\u0103 sunte\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i, femei sau orice alt gen, dac\u0103 v\u0103 atrag b\u0103rba\u0163i, femei sau orice alt gen, motiva\u0163ia vine mereu dinl\u0103untru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei e treaba voastr\u0103, numai a voastr\u0103, la modul: munc\u0103 de unul singur cu propria persoan\u0103, s\u0103 v\u0103 cunoa\u015fte\u0163i, s\u0103 v\u0103 defini\u0163i idealurile, bucuriile, momentele de satisfac\u0163ie, \u015fi s\u0103 v\u0103 stabili\u0163i \u0163eluri clare, dar tangibile, \u015fi s\u0103 construi\u0163i pa\u015fi consecven\u0163i, munc\u0103 de zi cu zi, spre ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 voi sta\u0163i ca mom\u00e2ile, ca ni\u015fte cochilii goale, \u015fi v\u0103 min\u0163i\u0163i de unii singuri c\u0103 la un moment dat o s\u0103 apar\u0103 un f\u0103t-frumos sau o ilean\u0103 cos\u00e2nzean\u0103 care v\u0103 va umple de motiva\u0163ie, nu face\u0163i dec\u00e2t s\u0103 refuza\u0163i responsabilitatea pentru propriul destin \u015fi v\u0103 irosi\u0163i via\u0163a. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen plus, dac\u0103 apar f\u0103t-frumos sau ileana – cos\u00e2nzeana, peste ce dau? Ce te face pe tine f\u0103t-frumosul sau ileana – cos\u00e2nzeana lor? ce ai tu special? momentan nimic, pentru c\u0103 vegetezi \u00een suc propriu \u015fi te min\u0163i c\u0103 motiva\u0163ia e \u00een al\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Motiva\u0163ia e NUMAI \u00een tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu trebuie s\u0103 te treze\u015fti m\u00e2ine diminea\u0163a, s\u0103 bei o cafea, c\u0103 nimeni nu e motivat \u00eenainte de prima cafea, \u015fi s\u0103 spui: OK, ce plm \u00eemi doresc de la via\u0163a mea \u015fi cum fac s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu mai \u00eenc\u0103rca\u0163i un ipotetic cel\u0103lalt cu obliga\u0163ia de a v\u0103 c\u0103ra sacul de oseminte inert prin via\u0163\u0103. Nimeni, \u015fi v\u0103 spun, nimeni nu are chef de asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu e u\u015for s\u0103 g\u0103se\u015fti motiva\u0163ia \u00een tine. Presupune s\u0103 te cuno\u015fti, s\u0103 te asumi, s\u0103 lup\u0163i cu propriile defecte \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i s\u0103 construie\u015fti \u015fi s\u0103 te construie\u015fti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar motiva\u0163ia plasat\u0103 \u00een al\u0163ii e doar o scuz\u0103 s\u0103 nu faci nimic \u015fi s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti la minim\u0103 rezisten\u0163\u0103 o via\u0163\u0103 de cacao. Apoi, \u00eenvinuie\u015fti femeile, cum \u00eenvinuiesc tipele de care am zis b\u0103rba\u0163ii, c\u0103 nu vin s\u0103 v\u0103 ridice din kkt a\u015fa, just like that, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103 datoreze nimic, doar pentru c\u0103 crede\u0163i voi c\u0103 cineva are vreo obliga\u0163ie divin\u0103 s\u0103 fie solu\u0163ia problemelor noastre. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Din kkt te ridici \u00een primul r\u00e2nd tu, prin for\u0163e proprii, iar dac\u0103 persi\u015fti, vei g\u0103si doar lipitori care te vor trage mai ad\u00e2nc \u00een kkt \u015fi te vor parazita, pentru c\u0103 \u0163ine figura. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015eti\u0163i poezia aia cu “Ridic\u0103-te, Gheorghe, ridic\u0103-te, Ioane?” <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aplica\u0163i-o, dar pentru a v\u0103 elibera din propriile scuze ieftine \u015fi din propria del\u0103sare. Pentru c\u0103 \u00een cazul vostru, boierul asupritor sunte\u0163i chiar voi \u00een\u015fiv\u0103 \u015fi modul \u00een care v\u0103 limita\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd am terminat, un pu\u015fti: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fat\u0103, tu e\u015fti prea de\u015fteapt\u0103 pentru TikTok. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei eu: Nu, fr\u0103\u0163iorule. Voi ave\u0163i numai modele gre\u015fite \u015fi mul\u0163i andrew tate care v\u0103 spun c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i ob\u0163ii b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ia asuprind femei. Pentru c\u0103 femeile sunt mai vulnerabile fizic \u015fi mai u\u015for de b\u0103tut. Dar adev\u0103rata b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ie se ob\u0163ine lupt\u00e2ndu-te cu tine \u015fi motiv\u00e2ndu-te s\u0103 devii mai bun \u00een fiecare zi, \u00een via\u0163a de zi cu zi \u015fi \u00een domeniul \u00een care excelezi. Acel gen de b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ie presupune at\u00e2ta implicare \u015fi at\u00e2ta responsabilitate, \u00eenc\u00e2t \u00ee\u0163i piere orice nevoie penibil\u0103 de a mai intra pe cont la Maricica \u015fi s\u0103-i comentezi c\u0103 are \u0163\u00e2\u0163e l\u0103sate. Asta fac loserii, care vor s-o reduc\u0103 pe Maricica la nivelul lor. Iar dac\u0103 Maricica e sigur\u0103 pe ea, \u00eei \u00eentreab\u0103 c\u00e2nd au v\u0103zut vreodat\u0103 \u0163\u00e2\u0163e \u00een fa\u0163a ochilor, dup\u0103 ultima al\u0103ptare de la mami lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Motiva\u0163ia e \u00een tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hop, un pu\u015fti nou-intrat: Care e secretul femeilor independente \u015fi pline de bani? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nasolu\u0163, fr\u0103\u0163iorul meu mic, tocmai l-am zis acum o secund\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i plac sfaturile simple, practice \u015fi la obiect, po\u0163i s\u0103 \u015fi sus\u0163ii blogul Popii au cutia milei, noi avem cutia onestit\u0103\u0163ii.\u00a0Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei pentru c\u0103 v-a\u0163i s\u0103turat de imaginea cu cafeaua, uite, v\u0103 dau o distins\u0103 doamn\u0103 cu m\u0103rgele, poate c\u0103 v\u0103 g\u00e2dil\u0103 s\u0103 dona\u0163i mai generos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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