{"id":24322,"date":"2023-01-09T10:41:01","date_gmt":"2023-01-09T07:41:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24322"},"modified":"2023-01-09T10:41:04","modified_gmt":"2023-01-09T07:41:04","slug":"focsa-o-suceste-ca-la-ploiesti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/focsa-o-suceste-ca-la-ploiesti\/","title":{"rendered":"Foc\u015fa o suce\u015fte ca la Ploie\u015fti"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

M-am luat cu altele \u015fi n-am apucat s\u0103 scriu nimic despre cazul fostului AURist Dumitru Viorel Foc\u015fa, care \u015fi-a b\u0103tut nevasta p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd aceasta a ajuns la urgen\u0163e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cazul e relativ clasic pentru abuzul tradi\u0163ional rom\u00e2nesc, a\u015fa cum ni-l amintim de c\u00e2nd eram copii \u015fi auzeam prin pere\u0163i b\u0103t\u0103i prin vecini. Iar mamele noastre divor\u0163ate erau prea ad\u00e2ncite \u00een v\u0103ic\u0103reli c\u0103 aoloooo, m-a \u00een\u015felat \u015fi m-a p\u0103r\u0103sit, \u00een loc s\u0103 aprecieze libertatea de mi\u015fcare \u015fi faptul c\u0103 puteau veni acas\u0103 lini\u015ftite, \u00eentr-o cas\u0103 \u00een care nu le a\u015ftepta niciun pericol \u015fi puteau s\u0103 se relaxeze dup\u0103 pofta inimii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mic\u0103 parantez\u0103: Voi m\u0103 \u00eentreba\u0163i de ce nu mi-am dorit niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 m\u0103rit. Ei, exact \u0103sta e motivul. \u00cen vecini, serile era scandal, cu urlete, pocnete \u015fi b\u0103taie. La noi \u00een cas\u0103, unde nu era un b\u0103rbat, scandalul era doar cel pe care mi-l f\u0103cea maic\u0103-mea mie, c\u0103 venea crizat\u0103 de la munc\u0103 \u015fi pe cine s\u0103-\u015fi descarce nervii, dac\u0103 nu pe copil, c\u0103 \u0103la e mic \u015fi nu are resurse s\u0103 ias\u0103 din situa\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dincolo de crizele ei \u015fi de v\u0103ic\u0103relile ei de vaaai, biata sedus\u0103 \u015fi abandonat\u0103, mie mi se p\u0103rea c\u0103 mai de comp\u0103timit erau vecinele. Noi aveam lini\u015fte (minus crizele de isterie ale maic\u0103-mii.) Dar acele biete femei aveau slug\u0103real\u0103 \u015fi cafteal\u0103 acas\u0103, \u015fi pe atunci, statul \u015fi poli\u0163ia NU aveau NICI O TREAB\u0102. Dac\u0103 nu te mutila sau nu te omora, nimeni nu se b\u0103ga: era conflictul vostru domestic, v\u0103 privea direct \u015fi “nu \u015ftiu, Mari\u0163o, poate te-ai uitat tu ur\u00e2t la el”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era paradoxal: toat\u0103 lumea era curioas\u0103 s\u0103 \u015ftie ce ai \u00een cas\u0103, ce ai m\u00e2ncat, unde mergi, ce \u00eenv\u00e2r\u0163i, dar c\u00e2nd era vorba de b\u0103t\u0103i, subit to\u0163i descopereau no\u0163iunea de respect pentru via\u0163a privat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei ce am auzit prin pere\u0163i face ca at\u00e2tea femei din genera\u0163ia mea s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 chef s\u0103 se m\u0103rite. S\u0103 renun\u0163e la libertate pentru sclavie \u015fi abuz. Eu scriu acest text \u00een seara de dinaintea public\u0103rii, cu ni\u015fte vinu\u0163 de S\u00e2mbure\u015fti \u00een pahar, motan pufos cuib\u0103rit pe genunchiul meu \u015fi o muzic\u0103 suav\u0103 \u00een surdin\u0103 pe fundal. E momentul meu de relaxare divin\u0103, pe care nu-l stric\u0103 nimeni. Singurul lucru care NU lipse\u015fte din peisaj e vocea ridicat\u0103 \u015fi pumnul \u00een aer al unui \u0163\u0103r\u0103noi ca Dumitru Viorel Foc\u015fa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu ne \u00eenvinui\u0163i pe noi c\u0103 nu avem nici un chef s\u0103 ne m\u0103rit\u0103m. \u00cenvinui\u0163i-i pe nenum\u0103ra\u0163ii Dumitri Viorei Foc\u015fa pe care i-am v\u0103zut \u015fi auzit pe c\u00e2nd eram feti\u0163e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenchis paranteza. A slujit doar pentru a explica de ce cazurile ca al lui Dumitru Viorel Foc\u015fa m\u0103 trimit \u00eentr-o spiral\u0103 a amintirilor oribile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bun. Dup\u0103 ce a \u00eencercat manevra clasic\u0103 cu “da’ n-am dat, boss, toanta s-a lovit singur\u0103 de u\u015f\u0103, d\u0103-o naibii” (contrazis\u0103 de raportul IML), Dumitru Viorel Foc\u015fa a \u00eenceput o alt\u0103 idio\u0163enie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103 vai, el ar vrea o discu\u0163ie pe tema violen\u0163ei domestice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne putem doar imagina cum ar ar\u0103ta o astfel de discu\u0163ie, din gura lui Dumitru Viorel Foc\u015fa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“B\u0103ie\u0163i, violen\u0163\u0103 domestic\u0103 e doar dac\u0103 presupune chirurgie de reconstituire sau autopsie. \u00cen rest, e doar tandre\u0163e conjugal\u0103 cu n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103i”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei, desigur, desigur, a trebuit s\u0103 aduc\u0103 \u00een discu\u0163ie ideologia de gen. C\u0103, zice el, ideologia de gen are a\u015ftept\u0103ri prea radicale de la violen\u0163a domestic\u0103. <\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aici, mie \u00eemi vine s\u0103 pun \u00eentrebarea pe care o pun de c\u00e2te ori eu postez despre mere \u015fi vine gigel \u00een sec\u0163iunea de comentarii s\u0103 elucubreze despre cazane pe propan-butan: CARE PLM E LEG\u0102TURA CU SUBIECTUL, B\u0102, P*\/\u0102??? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce crucea m\u0103-tii leg\u0103tur\u0103 are ideologia de gen cu no\u0163iunea c\u0103 un bou ca tine nu trebuie s\u0103-\u015fi bat\u0103 nevasta? Care \u00eencepe\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103 identifica\u0163i drept nonbinari sau trans dac\u0103 idiotul de tine renun\u0163\u0103 s\u0103-\u015fi mai bat\u0103 nevasta?? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu \u015ftiu dac\u0103 a\u0163i remarcat, dar \u00een ultima vreme ideologia de gen e un fel de bau-bau pentru orice tentativ\u0103 de modernizare de orice tip. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Hai s\u0103 b\u0103g\u0103m educa\u0163ie sexual\u0103 \u00een \u015fcoli, s\u0103 \u015ftie copiii s\u0103 evite pedofilii \u015fi adolescen\u0163ii, sarcinile sub 18 ani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-IDeoloGiE dE gEeN!!!!! VRe\u0162i S\u0103-I coNviNGe\u0163I C\u0103 sunT tO\u0162i TranNSgENdeRI!!!!!!!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Salarii egale pentru femei \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-iDeOLOgiE De geN!!! DAC\u0102 FEMEIA ARE ACEIA\u015eI BANI CU MINE, AUTOMAT O S\u0102 VREA \u015eI O P*\/\u0102\u0102\u0102. \u015eI F\u0102 M\u0102 FOOT\u0102 \u00ceN CUR CU EA. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Topirea ghe\u0163arilor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-ideOLoGIE dE GEn!!!! GHE\u0162ARII SUNT TO\u0162I TRANSGENDERI SAU CEVA. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe scurt, orice ai \u00eencerca s\u0103 discu\u0163i civilizat \u015fi ra\u0163ional, s\u0103 ob\u0163ii ni\u015fte drepturi pentru femei, ob\u0163ii zbierete dezarticulate \u015fi ipocrite: “IDeOLoGieEE dE gEN!!!!” <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sigur c\u0103 ideologia de gen nu se transmite ca r\u0103ceala. C\u0103 un b\u0103iat convins de faptul c\u0103 e b\u0103iat nu se va identifica niciodat\u0103 drept altceva, iar o fat\u0103 care se identific\u0103 drept fat\u0103 va fi sigur\u0103 de identitatea ei de fat\u0103. Ce ob\u0163ii cu ideologia de gen e un pic de lini\u015fte \u015fi \u00een\u0163elegere pentru copiii diferi\u0163i, abuza\u0163i \u015fi h\u0103r\u0163ui\u0163i de restul \u00een stilul “F\u0103nele, e\u015fti un f\u0103t\u0103l\u0103u”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei evident c\u0103 ideologia de gen nu se aplic\u0103 pe toate chestiile pe care se chinuie retrograzii s-o lipeasc\u0103 cu sila. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce treab\u0103 are ideologia de gen cu violen\u0163a domestic\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 te ab\u0163ii s\u0103-\u0163i ba\u0163i nevasta, te identifici brusc drept femeie? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 \u0103sta e cazul, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 erai trans \u00een negare \u015fi, \u00een loc s-o abuzezi aiurea pe biata femeie, mai bine mergi la psihiatru s\u0103 vede\u0163i \u00eempreun\u0103 cum face\u0163i pace cu adev\u0103rata ta identitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 un b\u0103rbat sigur de masculinitatea lui \u00een mod cert nu are nevoie s\u0103 dea \u00eentr-o femeie s\u0103-\u015fi confirme c\u0103 e b\u0103rbat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar mai nou, orice revendicare, din orice domeniu, \u00eencaseaz\u0103 duma asta cu “ideologia de gen”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0103cat c\u0103 nu le-a venit pretextul cu ideologia de gen \u015fi pe 10 august 2018. Nu mai foloseau gaze, \u00eei asmu\u0163eau doar pe gigei peste protestatari: “Uite, \u0103ia sunt adep\u0163ii ideologiei de gen. Toate femeile pe care le vede\u0163i au de fapt p*l\u0103, \u015fi chiar \u015fi unii dintre b\u0103rba\u0163i.” <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pentru un final optimist: Da, Foc\u015fa a fost dat afar\u0103 de la AUR, iar demisia din Parlament e solicitat\u0103, dar pe hold. M\u0103car at\u00e2t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 dore\u015fti mai mult pamflet, po\u0163i s\u0103 \u015fi sus\u0163ii blogul. Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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