{"id":24391,"date":"2023-01-21T14:41:46","date_gmt":"2023-01-21T11:41:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24391"},"modified":"2023-01-21T19:56:17","modified_gmt":"2023-01-21T16:56:17","slug":"victimele-minore-ale-activistului-alexandru-marcu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/victimele-minore-ale-activistului-alexandru-marcu\/","title":{"rendered":"Victimele minore ale activistului Alexandru Marcu"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Stau zilele astea cu ochii pe Libertatea, s\u0103 urm\u0103resc investiga\u0163ia legat\u0103 de Alexandru Marcu \u015fi de c\u00e2teva dintre copilele pe care le ademenea, oferindu-le \u00eentr-o prim\u0103 faz\u0103 aten\u0163ie, bani, iubirea de care nu aveau parte acas\u0103 \u015fi, dup\u0103 ce crea o rela\u0163ie de izolare \u015fi de dependen\u0163\u0103 complet\u0103 de el, le supunea la varii abuzuri psihologice, fizice, munc\u0103 la negru, munc\u0103 domestic\u0103 pe care o f\u0103ceau numai ele \u015fi un control la s\u00e2nge. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Individul e un jeg funest \u015fi odios, \u015fi o dovad\u0103 c\u0103 idealul de control \u015fi abuz asupra fetelor \u015fi femeilor predicat de Andrew Tate nu se \u00eent\u00e2lne\u015fte doar la marii alt-rights care fac parad\u0103 cu astfel de content pe reddit, pe 4Chan, pe Gap \u015fi pe alte col\u0163i\u015foare triste \u015fi duhnind a sperm\u0103 st\u0103tut\u0103. Ci, iat\u0103, este aplicat\u0103 practic \u015fi de indivizi care fac pe marii filantropi altrui\u015fti vegani spirite libere etc. O dovad\u0103 c\u0103 niciodat\u0103 nu e cazul s\u0103 ne uit\u0103m la ceea ce spune individul, ci la ceea ce face. S\u0103 fim circumspec\u0163i, s\u0103 punem sub semnul \u00eentreb\u0103rii ceea ce ni se pare dubios, iar dac\u0103 vedem copii abuza\u0163i, s\u0103 intervenim. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 citi\u0163i textul din Libertatea (\u015fi nu, I won’t google that for you, cei care ave\u0163i bunul obicei de a tot \u00eentreba lucruri care se g\u0103sesc online, dar considera\u0163i c\u0103 vi se cuvine gratis timpul altuia s\u0103 caute el pentru voi), ve\u0163i constata cu oroare modul \u00een care individul a abuzat de acele fete, de timpul, corpul, munca \u015fi via\u0163a lor, dar mie mi-a atras aten\u0163ia mai mult un alt am\u0103nunt: C\u00c2T DE U\u015eOR AU C\u0102ZUT ELE \u00ceN CAPCAN\u0102 \u015eI C\u00c2T DE NEPREG\u0102TITE ERAU S\u0102 \u00ceNFRUNTE UN GUNOI ABUZIV. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar de vin\u0103, dragi prieteni, sunt exclusiv p\u0103rin\u0163ii fetelor. P\u0103rin\u0163i reci, absen\u0163i, indiferen\u0163i, care le ofer\u0103 copil\u0103rii s\u0103race, lipsite de iubire, dar doldora de acel abuz rom\u00e2nesc tradi\u0163ional cu un impact crunt asupra stimei de sine. Abuzul unor astfel de p\u0103rin\u0163i desensibilizeaz\u0103 copiii la abuzul gunoaielor ca Marcu \u015fi \u00eei face victime u\u015foare, sigure \u015fi mas\u0103 de manevr\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei exact acesta este motivul pentru care sunt pro choice. Acest tip de p\u0103rin\u0163i ar fi trebuit s\u0103 nu fac\u0103 copii niciodat\u0103. Copil\u0103ria al\u0103turi de astfel de p\u0103rin\u0163i este absolut oribil\u0103 \u015fi sinistr\u0103, iar eu le mul\u0163umesc cerurilor c\u0103 nu mi-a ie\u015fit un Tate sau un Marcu \u00een cale c\u00e2nd aveam 12 ani, scandal acas\u0103 \u00een fiecare zi \u015fi o gaur\u0103 imens\u0103 \u00een talpa bocancilor, pentru c\u0103 maic\u0103-mea nu putea fi deranjat\u0103 s\u0103-mi cumpere unii noi. A\u015f fi fost victima perfect\u0103, \u015fi abia acum, la maturitate, realizez c\u00e2t noroc am avut s\u0103 ajung un adult func\u0163ional, \u00een control peste propria lui via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi care nu se las\u0103 intimidat sau subminat de niciun fel de tactici psihologice jegoase. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Educa\u0163ia tradi\u0163ional\u0103, aia care \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 feti\u0163ele c\u0103 b\u0103rbatul “e capul familiei” \u015fi c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 joace cum fluier\u0103 acesta creeaz\u0103 astfel de situa\u0163ii \u015fi astfel de victime. Nu po\u0163i s\u0103-i spui unei copile s\u0103 fie “ascult\u0103toare” \u015fi “submisiv\u0103”, apoi s\u0103 faci circ \u015fi panaram\u0103 tot tu c\u00e2nd submisivitatea o pr\u0103bu\u015fe\u015fte direct \u00een capcana unui pr\u0103d\u0103tor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 ba\u0163i copilul \u015fi urli la el ca apucatul, \u00eei nimice\u015fti stima de sine, \u015fi-l faci s\u0103 cer\u015feasc\u0103 umil cele mai de jos forme de aten\u0163ie, tratamentul sub orice critic\u0103 \u015fi japca pe fa\u0163\u0103 de la jigodiile care simt vulnerabilitatea emo\u0163ional\u0103 real\u0103 cam cum simte o hait\u0103 de lupi mirosul de s\u00e2nge proasp\u0103t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103 oferi educa\u0163ia sexual\u0103 at\u00e2t de important\u0103 copilului, tu \u0163ipi la el s\u0103 stea virgin p\u00e2n\u0103 la c\u0103s\u0103torie \u015fi punct, faci din el o \u0163int\u0103 u\u015foar\u0103 pentru toate aceste animale lihnite. \u00cenc\u0103 \u00eemi amintesc cum maic\u0103-mea \u0163ipa la mine s\u0103 fiu cuminte \u015fi modest\u0103, dar, de pe la 12 – 13 ani, deja vedeam masculi care se holbau la mine, care se b\u0103gau \u00een seam\u0103 libidinos cu mine \u015fi care se comportau ca ni\u015fte pot\u0103i \u00een c\u0103lduri. \u00cen loc s\u0103-\u0163i asumi c\u0103, cel pu\u0163in fizic, feti\u0163a ta arat\u0103 deja a femeie \u015fi c\u0103 nu i-ai dat armele necesare s\u0103-i pun\u0103 la punct pe to\u0163i ace\u015fti b\u0103g\u0103tori \u00een seam\u0103, tu o \u0163ii a la longue cu virginitatea \u015fi cu modestia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exact rahatul \u0103la de modestie a f\u0103cut din aceste copile \u0163inte at\u00e2t de u\u015foare pentru acest gunoi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen loc s\u0103-\u0163i freci copiii la cap cu modestia, cum ar fi s\u0103-i \u00eenve\u0163i s\u0103 aib\u0103 respect de sine \u015fi s\u0103 \u015ftie s\u0103 combat\u0103 corect tentativele de grooming? Hei, dar asta deja presupune educa\u0163ie sexual\u0103 \u00een \u015fcoli. Adic\u0103 exact ceea ce \u0163ip\u0103 politicieni corup\u0163i ca Funeriu \u015fi Neam\u0163u c\u0103 nu vor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce nu vor? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu ar fi avut carisma unui picior cu platfus, at\u00e2t Neam\u0163u c\u00e2t \u015fi Funeriu \u015fi-ar fi dorit ipostaza lui Marcu, adic\u0103 harem de feti\u0163e sp\u0103late pe creier care s\u0103 le fac\u0103 toate mofturile, inclusiv cele sexuale, \u015fi s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 la schimb niciun fel de preten\u0163ii de la ei. Asta \u00eei \u015fi m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een lupta lor \u00eempotriva educa\u0163iei sexuale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen loc s\u0103-i protejeze pe copii \u00eempotriva pedofililor \u015fi tic\u0103lo\u015filor de toate tipurile, ei vor s\u0103-i “protejeze” de propriile lor drepturi: cele la demnitate, la self-awareness \u015fi la autoap\u0103rare. Cu c\u00e2t femeile sunt \u0163inte mai u\u015foare, cu o stim\u0103 de sine mai mic\u0103; cu c\u00e2t \u0163ine gaslightingul \u0103la tic\u0103los cu “ispita”, unde tu, care nu i-ai acordat unui dobitoc nici m\u0103car o secund\u0103 real\u0103 de aten\u0163ie, e\u015fti \u00eenvinuit\u0103 c\u0103 \u0103la e “ispitit”, cu c\u00e2t vina pe delicte sexuale F\u0102PTUITE DE B\u0102RBA\u0162I e transferat\u0103 fals peste fete \u015fi femei, cu at\u00e2t paradisul pr\u0103d\u0103torilor poate continua. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A spus-o \u015fi Tate c\u00e2nd a venit \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. A venit aici pentru c\u0103 \u0163ara permite unui tip cu bani s\u0103 fac\u0103 tot ce vrea (adic\u0103 e extrem de permisiv\u0103 \u00een privin\u0163a abuzurilor la adresa femeilor). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Investiga\u0163ia Libertatea e un lucru minunat. La mai multe. \u015ei sper ca aceste copile s\u0103-\u015fi primeasc\u0103 dreptatea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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