{"id":24438,"date":"2023-01-28T13:04:32","date_gmt":"2023-01-28T10:04:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24438"},"modified":"2023-01-28T14:04:23","modified_gmt":"2023-01-28T11:04:23","slug":"statul-danez-isi-recunoaste-greseala-in-cazul-familieii-rotundu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/statul-danez-isi-recunoaste-greseala-in-cazul-familieii-rotundu\/","title":{"rendered":"Statul danez \u00ee\u015fi recunoa\u015fte gre\u015feala \u00een cazul familiei Rotundu"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Acum o jum\u0103tate de an, social media era cuprins\u0103 de un flame interminabil, legat de cazul unor tineri rom\u00e2ni muta\u0163i \u00een Danemarca, Ionu\u0163 \u015fi Sorana Rotundu. Ace\u015ftia au ajuns de urgen\u0163\u0103 la spital cu bebelu\u015ful care avea o s\u00e2ngerare cerebral\u0103, \u00eentr-o stare extrem de grav\u0103, \u015fi medicii de la urgen\u0163e au ajuns atunci la concluzia c\u0103 mititelul ar avea sindromul bebelu\u015fului scuturat. Ce e sindromul bebelu\u015fului scuturat? Dac\u0103 mama exasperat\u0103 de \u0163ipete \u015fi urlete cedeaz\u0103 nervos \u015fi scutur\u0103 copila\u015ful nou-n\u0103scut, care are capul \u00eenc\u0103 moale \u015fi e extrem de vulnerabil, poate chiar s\u0103-l omoare sau s\u0103-i provoace traumatisme extrem de grave. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, exist\u0103 dou\u0103 modus operandi. Cel rom\u00e2nesc \u015fi \u00een general est-european, unde \u00eei crezi pe p\u0103rin\u0163i c\u0103 da, nu am f\u0103cut mare lucru, s\u0103 tr\u0103i\u0163i, i-am dat \u015fi noi un dos de palm\u0103, \u015fi-i trimi\u0163i acas\u0103 cu copilul proasp\u0103t salvat de pe buza mor\u0163ii, risc\u00e2nd s\u0103 reapar\u0103 cu alt\u0103 hemoragie cerebral\u0103 \u00een trei s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unde \u00eel crezi pe b\u0103rbat c\u0103 femeia minte sau exagereaz\u0103 descriindu-i violen\u0163ele. \u015ei, next thing you know, se g\u0103se\u015fte cadavrul m\u0103cel\u0103rit al femeii \u00een fundul gr\u0103dinii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Modelul est-european merge pe “\u00eencredere”, \u015fi rezultatul “\u00eencrederii” e protec\u0163ia minim\u0103 sau inexistent\u0103 a victimei. Rezult\u00e2nd \u00een mii de femei \u015fi de copii mor\u0163i, desfigura\u0163i \u00een b\u0103taie sau traumatiza\u0163i pe via\u0163\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Modelul nordic pune accentul pe siguran\u0163a \u015fi protec\u0163ia elementului vulnerabil din ecua\u0163ie. Doi rom\u00e2ni \u00ee\u0163i vin noaptea cu un bebelu\u015f cu s\u00e2ngerare cranian\u0103. Ei \u00ee\u0163i jur\u0103 c\u0103 n-au f\u0103cut nimic, dar tu, ca institu\u0163ie, ai \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 un bebelu\u015f cu s\u00e2ngerare pe creier. Alegi s\u0103 protejezi copilul. \u015ei, desigur, acest modus operandi nu e nici el lipsit de erori, dar m\u0103car victimele r\u0103m\u00e2n \u00een via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi primesc cele mai bune \u00eengrijiri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ionu\u0163 \u015fi Sorana Rotundu au f\u0103cut \u015fase luni de \u00eenchisoare, dar copilul a fost salvat din starea extrem de grav\u0103 \u00een care se afla \u015fi s-a constatat c\u0103 familia Rotundu avea dreptate, cel mic sufer\u0103 de ni\u015fte probleme complicate de s\u0103n\u0103tate, \u015fi acestea i-au provocat \u015fi respectiva s\u00e2ngerare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei atunci, statul danez \u015fi-a recunoscut gre\u015feala. Le-a trimis o scrisoare oficial\u0103 familiei Rotundu, \u00een care \u015fi-a cerut scuze pentru eroare \u015fi, mai mult ca sigur, urmeaz\u0103 s\u0103-i \u015fi compenseze material pentru prejudiciul \u00eendurat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S-au trezit unii s\u0103 \u0163ipe deja c\u0103 aoleu, uite ce de c\u0103cat e lumea corect\u0103 politic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar lumea aia corect\u0103 politic e lumea care \u015fi-a recunoscut oficial, public, gre\u015feala fa\u0163\u0103 de familia Rotundu. Imagina\u0163i-v\u0103 vreodat\u0103 statul rom\u00e2n sau pe cel rus cer\u00e2ndu-\u015fi scuze vreunui om de r\u00e2nd prejudiciat. Putin trimite noi \u015fi noi solda\u0163i lipsi\u0163i de experien\u0163\u0103 \u015fi slab \u00eenarma\u0163i pe front \u00een Ucraina \u015fi nu-i pas\u0103 c\u0103-\u015fi las\u0103 oasele pe acolo, d-ap\u0103i s\u0103-\u015fi cear\u0103 scuze pentru prejudiciul creat. Dac\u0103 nu te place Putin, ai un obicei s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i iei zborul de la fereastra unui imobil \u00eenalt – \u015fi Putin \u00eenc\u0103 nu \u015fi-a cerut scuze pentru prejudiciul creat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Danezii fac acest lucru \u015fi se revan\u015feaz\u0103 pentru eroare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eroare explicabil\u0103, cum am ar\u0103tat mai sus, prin procedurile lor. Cuv\u00e2ntul p\u0103rin\u0163ilor vs. un bebelu\u015f \u00een stare extrem de grav\u0103, cu s\u00e2ngerare \u00een interiorul cutiei craniene. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nici un modus operandi nu e 100% infailibil, dar m\u0103car \u00een acest caz, finalul e un bebelu\u015f s\u0103n\u0103tos. E adev\u0103rat, p\u0103rin\u0163ii au stat la \u00eenchisoare \u015fase luni, ceea ce e umilitor \u015fi dureros, dar, \u00een acest timp, m\u0103car copila\u015ful a primit \u00eengrijiri specializate \u015fi monitorizare ne\u00eentrerupt\u0103. A\u015fa a fost salvat de la moarte, a\u015fa i-au descoperit diagnosticul corect \u015fi a\u015fa au \u015fi ajuns s\u0103 realizeze c\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii nu min\u0163eau. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Compara\u0163i asta cu statul rom\u00e2n care l-ar fi aruncat \u00eentr-un orfelinat r\u0103p\u0103nos sau \u00eentr-un spital abominabil unde ar fi fost neglijat \u015fi l\u0103sat \u00een propriile fecale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deci, da, statul danez a gre\u015fit. Da, noi to\u0163i cei care am crezut c\u0103 so\u0163ii Rotundu sunt de vin\u0103 am gre\u015fit \u015fi noi. Da, \u00eenchisoarea pe nedrept, c\u00e2nd tu e\u015fti nevinovat, e un lucru oribil. Dar iat\u0103 c\u0103 dreptatea a triumfat. Parc\u0103 e mai bine a\u015fa dec\u00e2t s\u0103 trimi\u0163i p\u0103rin\u0163i acas\u0103 cu un bebelu\u015f cu s\u00e2ngerare cranian\u0103, pe \u00eencredere, apoi s\u0103 auzi \u00een dou\u0103 zile la \u015ftiri c\u0103 acesta a avut o moarte tragic\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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