Scrisorica de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Bun\u0103, Lorena,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am mai avut eu tentative s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i scriu, dar m-am g\u00e2ndit c\u0103 sunt slabe \u015fanse s\u0103 ajungi la mesajul meu. <\/strong>(Citesc toate mailurile, la unele nu r\u0103spund pentru c\u0103 sunt b\u0103g\u0103ri \u00een seam\u0103 aiurea. Asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu ajung la mine, doar c\u0103 nu mi se par interesante. – not\u0103 Lorena.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n Acum sunt \u00eentr-o situa\u0163ie neprev\u0103zut\u0103, nepl\u0103cut\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103reia \u00eencerc s\u0103 \u00eei fac fa\u0163\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Pe scurt: am doi copii superbi, minori, am divor\u0163at c\u00e2nd erau mici, am crescut singuri \u00eempreun\u0103, m-am rec\u0103s\u0103torit recent. Avem to\u0163i patru o rela\u0163ie frumoas\u0103, cumva atipic\u0103, dar important e s\u0103 c\u0103ut\u0103m \u015fi s\u0103 g\u0103sim solu\u0163ii s\u0103 fim to\u0163i confortabili. Poate \u00een viitor o s\u0103 revin cu o scrisoric\u0103 pentru sfaturi pe aceast\u0103 tem\u0103 :).<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Acum, \u00eens\u0103, \u00ee\u0163i scriu pentru c\u0103 am nevoie de \u00eencuraj\u0103ri. Noi suntem persoane foarte active, job solicitant, c\u0103l\u0103torii, voluntariate etc., \u00eens\u0103 acum m-am trezit brusc cu o problem\u0103 de s\u0103n\u0103tate, \u00een spital de o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, problem\u0103 tratabil\u0103, dar destul de grav\u0103, cu posibil tratament pe via\u0163\u0103. Acum, \u00eenc\u0103 a\u015ftept s\u0103 v\u0103d dac\u0103 func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 tratamentul ini\u0163iat.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Starea asta de a\u015fteptare \u015fi incertitudine e foarte greu de suportat. Copiii se descurc\u0103, \u00eei ajut\u0103 so\u0163ul, so\u0163 care face ture copii-spital-job, cump\u0103r\u0103turi \u015fi comisioane, simt c\u0103 \u00eel exploatez exagerat. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu m\u0103 simt t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103, simt c\u0103 am at\u00e2tea de f\u0103cut, copiii au mare nevoie de mine. Cum fac s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n bine cu capul \u015fi cu moralul, s\u0103 fac rost de r\u0103bdarea asta pe care o cer medicii? To\u0163i \u00eemi spun s\u0103 am r\u0103bdare \u015fi nu am niciun reper legat de c\u00e2t mai stau aici.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen \u00eencheiere, vreau s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i spun c\u0103 te apreciez sincer, \u00eemi place ce scrii \u015fi cum g\u00e2nde\u015fti, de-asta mi-am \u015fi permis s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i scriu. De obicei suntem pe aceea\u015fi lungime de und\u0103, dar tu parc\u0103 spui mai clar lucrurilor pe nume \u015fi m\u0103 aju\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103d nuan\u0163e pe care eu nu le prind din prima.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Thank you,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n\n\n\n Primul lucru pe care trebuie s\u0103-l faci e s\u0103 nu te mai \u00eenvinov\u0103\u0163e\u015fti tu pe tine c\u0103 e\u015fti la spital \u015fi c\u0103 so\u0163ul se ocup\u0103 de copii. Nu e ca \u015fi cum ai ales s\u0103 cazi la pat, nenorociri de acest tip se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, \u015fi dac\u0103 so\u0163ul era cel bolnav, \u00eei rezolvai tu problemele. Asta fac doi parteneri \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Al doilea lucru pe care trebuie s\u0103-l faci e s\u0103 te concentrezi pe vestea bun\u0103: boala e tratabil\u0103. Deci, nu e\u015fti condamnat\u0103 pe vecie, vei fi bine. Iar legat de tratamente pe via\u0163\u0103, \u015fi eu voi lua medicamente \u015fi inhalatori c\u00e2te zile voi mai tr\u0103i, pentru c\u0103 am astm sever. Asta e situa\u0163ia, o \u0163in sub control cu tratament \u015fi m\u0103 bucur c\u0103 duc o via\u0163\u0103 de adult perfect func\u0163ional. Nu suntem zei, organismul nostru e vulnerabil, trebuie s\u0103 fim con\u015ftien\u0163i de asta \u015fi trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegem c\u0103 bolile sunt parte din via\u0163\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu te concentra pe timpul pe care trebuie s\u0103-l petreci la spital, ci pe finalul fericit: la un moment dat, vei ie\u015fi. Acum, treaba ta e s\u0103 te recl\u0103de\u015fti p\u00e2n\u0103 acolo. M\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103, odihne\u015fte-te, f\u0103 plimb\u0103ri lini\u015ftitoare dac\u0103 boala \u0163i-o permite (era util s\u0103 spui ce boal\u0103, s\u0103 nu recomand prostii pe aici), \u015fi g\u00e2nde\u015fte-te c\u0103 investe\u015fti acest timp \u00een regenerarea organismului t\u0103u \u015fi \u00een rec\u0103p\u0103tarea for\u0163elor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sunt ni\u015fte tehnici excelente de medita\u0163ie pentru relaxare \u015fi energie pozitiv\u0103, \u015fi dac\u0103 omul are timp de medita\u0163ie vreodat\u0103, ei bine, e atunci c\u00e2nd st\u0103 \u00een pat toat\u0103 ziua. Ai diverse tehnici \u015fi tutoriale online, \u015fi po\u0163i alege ceva care s\u0103 te ajute cu adev\u0103rat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen rest, \u015ftiu c\u0103 partea cea mai chinuitoare a z\u0103cutului \u00een pat e plictiseala cronic\u0103. Am avut hepatit\u0103 \u00een clasa a \u015fasea, am stat dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni \u00een spital, am crezut c\u0103 urc pe pere\u0163i. Dar eram \u00een a \u015fasea. Acum, mi-a\u015f lua un laptop \u015fi un stick de internet, dac\u0103 n-are spitalul wi-fi gratis, \u015fi a\u015f vedea toate filmele de care nu m-am bucurat la timp, a\u015f citi online c\u0103r\u0163i pe care le am cump\u0103rate de luni \u00een \u015fir dar nu apuc s\u0103 le deschid, \u015fi poate c\u0103 a\u015f \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a limba german\u0103 la nivel avansat. Mi-ar pl\u0103cea s\u0103 fac \u015fi content \u00een german\u0103, respectiv s\u0103 vizitez Berlinul ca artist, nu ca turist, dar nu-mi ajunge “Das ist ein Apfel” pentru asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cenva\u0163\u0103 o limb\u0103 care \u0163i-ar putea fi util\u0103. Ai timp. Ai lini\u015fte. Eu aproape c\u0103 te invidiez din acest punct de vedere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lucrul de care nu are nevoie un organism sl\u0103bit e \u00eenc\u0103 ni\u015fte stres, generat de tripul de vinov\u0103\u0163ie c\u0103 e\u015fti bolnav\u0103. Dac\u0103 \u0163i se \u00eemboln\u0103ve\u015fte un copil, ce faci? Te umpli de nervi \u015fi \u00eel jigne\u015fti \u00een fel \u015fi chip c\u0103 e bolnav? Nu. \u00cei ar\u0103\u0163i mult\u0103 iubire, s\u0103 se fac\u0103 bine mai repede. Arat\u0103-\u0163i mult\u0103 iubire \u015fi \u0163ie, \u015fi nu uita s\u0103 vorbe\u015fti des cu so\u0163ul, s\u0103-i spui c\u0103 e un om minunat \u015fi \u00eel iube\u015fti. Afec\u0163iunea \u015fi tandre\u0163ea sunt un medicament \u00een sine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu lua o boal\u0103 ca pe un lucru r\u0103u. Ia-o ca pe momentul de reset \u015fi rewind de care aveai nevoie, \u015fi \u00een timp ce corpul t\u0103u e \u00een r\u0103zboi cu sine, ajut\u0103-\u0163i sufletul \u015fi mintea s\u0103 restabileasc\u0103 pacea. Cu bl\u00e2nde\u0163e \u015fi iubire. Fii tu propriul t\u0103u copil bolnav \u015fi \u00eengrije\u015fte-te ca atare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cei invit \u015fi pe cititori s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i lase g\u00e2ndurile lor bune, \u00een rubrica de comentarii, \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i doresc mult\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tate, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Cu prietenie, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Acest site \u00ee\u015fi poate continua activitatea doar cu sus\u0163inerea cititorilor. 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