{"id":24543,"date":"2023-02-16T10:45:12","date_gmt":"2023-02-16T07:45:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24543"},"modified":"2023-02-16T10:59:44","modified_gmt":"2023-02-16T07:59:44","slug":"cliseul-femeia-nu-trebuie-sa-aiba-casa-si-cariera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cliseul-femeia-nu-trebuie-sa-aiba-casa-si-cariera\/","title":{"rendered":"Cli\u015feul &#8220;femeia nu trebuie s\u0103 aib\u0103 cas\u0103 \u015fi carier\u0103&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dac\u0103 e\u015fti blogger femeie de succes, siteul t\u0103u devine, \u00een oarecare m\u0103sur\u0103, targetul incelilor &#8220;forumurilor de masculinitate&#8221; \u00een stilul lui Andrew Tate \u015fi ai altor guru autointitula\u0163i care le umplu capul acestor rata\u0163i cu diverse cretinisme pe care trebuie s\u0103 le pretind\u0103 de la femei, pentru c\u0103, \u00een mintea lor bolnav\u0103, rela\u0163ia cu o femeie e un contract de sclavie moca, unde el vine doar cu preten\u0163ii, iar ea doar cu obliga\u0163ii, slug\u0103real\u0103 \u015fi munc\u0103 de diminea\u0163a p\u00e2n\u0103 seara. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un astfel de mugitor care revine agasant pe acest blog s\u0103-\u015fi reverse rahaturi luate cu copy paste de la &#8220;alfamaskulii lui&#8221; e \u0103sta. I-am r\u0103spuns la fiecare inep\u0163ie \u00een parte, paragraf cu paragraf, \u015fi asta pentru c\u0103 nimeni nu-i pune pe dobitocii \u0103\u015ftia la locul lor, &#8220;doamnele&#8221; sunt educate \u00een mod gre\u015fit s\u0103-i &#8220;ignore&#8221;, iar \u0103\u015ftia, cu mentalitatea lor de jigodii misecuveniste \u015fi pr\u0103d\u0103toare, iau t\u0103cerea drept submisiune. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unele inep\u0163ii pe care le afirm\u0103 sunt doar iritante, \u015fi b\u0103nuiesc c\u0103 le-a postat special pentru a t\u00e2rfi aten\u0163ie de la mine, \u015fi a \u015fi sp\u00e2rc\u00e2it pe faian\u0163\u0103 de fericire c\u00e2nd a ob\u0163inut-o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar altele sunt idei cu care Tate \u015fi similarii infecteaz\u0103 min\u0163ile a sute de mii de b\u0103rba\u0163i tineri \u015fi pro\u015fti, care nu au deprinderea de a privi femeia ca pe un om de sine st\u0103t\u0103tor, cu nevoi \u015fi priorit\u0103\u0163i proprii, \u015fi de aceea trebuie s\u0103 tragem un semnal de alarm\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"957\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi3.jpg?resize=700%2C957&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24544\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi3.jpg?w=715&amp;ssl=1 715w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi3.jpg?resize=219%2C300&amp;ssl=1 219w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi3.jpg?resize=110%2C150&amp;ssl=1 110w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"863\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi2.jpg?resize=700%2C863&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi2.jpg?w=718&amp;ssl=1 718w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi2.jpg?resize=243%2C300&amp;ssl=1 243w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi2.jpg?resize=122%2C150&amp;ssl=1 122w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"622\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi1.jpg?resize=622%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24546\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi1.jpg?resize=622%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 622w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi1.jpg?resize=182%2C300&amp;ssl=1 182w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi1.jpg?resize=91%2C150&amp;ssl=1 91w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gunoi1.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 622px) 100vw, 622px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu o s\u0103 intru \u00een rahaturile iritante \u015fi inepte, le-am r\u0103spuns deja pe m\u0103sur\u0103 \u00een \u00eensu\u015fi comentariul cretinului. M\u0103 voi rezuma strict la ceea ce mi se pare o idee extrem de periculoas\u0103, pe care, dac\u0103 un gunoi din \u0103sta o spune suficient de conving\u0103tor unei fete tinere \u015fi naive, eventual uneia \u00eendr\u0103gostite de el \u015fi dornice s\u0103-i fac\u0103 pe plac, \u00eei poate distruge via\u0163a cu totul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Nu e important s\u0103 ai bani \u015fi o carier\u0103&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-am uitat pe siteuri de inceli \u015fi de alfalabagii, \u015fi v\u0103d mizeria asta repetat\u0103 iar \u015fi iar, apoi discipolii lor vin s\u0103 te h\u0103r\u0163uiasc\u0103 pe tine c\u0103 nu e important s\u0103 ai bani \u015fi o carier\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E cazul s\u0103 tragem un semnal public de alarm\u0103 legat de aceast\u0103 sp\u0103lare a creierelor. Ce ob\u0163in raha\u0163i ca \u0103\u015ftia cu acest slogan? Vulnerabilizarea economic\u0103 \u015fi social\u0103 a respectivelor femei. F\u0103r\u0103 bani, f\u0103r\u0103 o carier\u0103, e\u015fti complet la cheremul lui, poate face (\u015fi \u00ee\u0163i poate face) tot ce vrea, iar tu nu ai cum s\u0103 te aperi, pentru c\u0103 nu ai unde s\u0103 te refugiezi \u015fi nu ai din ce bani s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti dac\u0103 pleci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015ei cum prostul te poate p\u0103r\u0103si oric\u00e2nd, te pomene\u015fti c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 o iei de la zero absolut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen genera\u0163iile mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103, au fost multe situa\u0163ii de genul. Femei care s-au m\u0103ritat de foarte tinere \u015fi au acceptat joburi prost pl\u0103tite, pentru c\u0103 au considerat c\u0103 adev\u0103rata lor surs\u0103 de venit \u015fi adev\u0103rata lor carier\u0103 e b\u0103rbatul. C\u00e2nd iei o astfel de decizie, riscul e ca tu s\u0103 depui efort din ce \u00een ce mai mare s\u0103-l ferice\u015fti pe individ, iar \u0103la s\u0103 considere c\u0103 i se cuvine tot ce faci, c\u0103 e\u015fti proprietatea lui, c\u0103 tot ce ai tu e al lui \u015fi c\u0103 nu meri\u0163i s\u0103 vrei nimic pentru tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen forma extrem\u0103, cea de factur\u0103 Andrew Tate, s\u0103 &#8220;nu ai bani&#8221; nu echivala cu a nu produce deloc bani. Le punea pe am\u0103r\u00e2tele pe care le racola s\u0103 fac\u0103 Onlyfans \u015fi videochat \u015fi s\u0103 genereze mald\u0103re de bani. S\u0103 nu ai bani \u00eensemna s\u0103 nu beneficiezi absolut deloc de banii pe care munca ta i-a generat, pentru c\u0103 alfamizeria, ca st\u0103p\u00e2n al t\u0103u, era posesorul de drept al respectivilor bani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu cine \u0163inea vr\u0103jeala? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Exact cu categoria de femei vulnerabile financiar \u015fi social. Instabilitatea economic\u0103 \u015fi social\u0103 era calea sigur\u0103 spre abuz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un b\u0103rbat normal cu capul VREA s\u0103 ai banii t\u0103i. \u015ei VREA s\u0103 ai o carier\u0103. Mai ales dac\u0103 e om de succes, antreprenor sau high-level manager, VREA s\u0103 ai o preocupare a ta, s\u0103 investe\u015fti \u015fi tu timp \u015fi munc\u0103 \u00een ceva, s\u0103 nu at\u00e2rni pe capul lui cu v\u0103ic\u0103real\u0103 plictisit\u0103 \u015fi mesaje de &#8220;mi-e dor de tine, c\u00e2nd vii acas\u0103&#8221; toat\u0103 ziua. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u0103 vor s\u0103 fxt\u0103 v\u00e2nz\u0103toare de 22 de ani de la Mega? Desigur. Alea sunt u\u015for de impresionat \u015fi, \u00een caz de desp\u0103r\u0163ire nasoal\u0103, nu au nici o autoritate s\u0103-l fac\u0103 de r\u00e2s \u00een societate. Pe c\u00e2nd, dac\u0103 te por\u0163i ca un porc cu  vreo \u015fef\u0103 a unei mari companii, aia poate oric\u00e2nd s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 patru ziare mari s\u0103 te expun\u0103, iar dac\u0103 faci ceva abuziv \u015fi ajunge s\u0103 te reclame la poli\u0163ie, poli\u0163i\u015ftii o vor lua mai \u00een serios dec\u00e2t pe feti\u0163a de 22 de ani de la Mega. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Always be choosing banii t\u0103i \u015fi o carier\u0103 de c\u00e2t mai mult succes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd un gigel \u00ee\u0163i spune c\u0103 banii \u015fi cariera ta nu conteaz\u0103, se aplic\u0103 trei ipoteze: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A) e papagal prost al lui Andrew Tate, nici nu g\u00e2nde\u015fte ce spune, drept care mar\u015f instant. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B) e un ratat fomist, se simte invidios \u015fi amenin\u0163at de cariera ta, \u015fi e un caz clasic de &#8220;f\u0103 tu pe proasta s\u0103 se simt\u0103 el b\u0103rbat&#8221;, ceea ce nu recomand niciodat\u0103. Stabilitatea, confortul, sentimentul t\u0103u de \u00eemplinire personal\u0103 \u015fi profesional\u0103 sunt mai importante dec\u00e2t orice gigel. \u015ei un b\u0103rbat fericit, satisf\u0103cut de via\u0163a lui, va fi confortabil cu tine la nivelul la care e\u015fti. Drept care, mar\u015f instant. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C) e un gunoi abuziv, care te vrea instabil\u0103 financiar \u015fi dependent\u0103, pentru a crea genul de rela\u0163ie de tip st\u0103p\u00e2n-sclav\u0103, formatul ideal pentru cei ca el. Drept care, mar\u015f instant. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po\u0163i tr\u0103i comod, civilizat \u015fi \u00een siguran\u0163\u0103 \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 un b\u0103rbat. Dar nu po\u0163i tr\u0103i comod, civilizat \u015fi \u00een siguran\u0163\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 bani \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 o munc\u0103 interesant\u0103, care s\u0103-\u0163i inspire pasiune, performan\u0163\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i stimuleze imagina\u0163ia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u0103rbatul potrivit pentru tine \u00ee\u0163i va respecta cariera \u015fi banii. Dac\u0103 nu o face, nu e b\u0103rbatul potrivit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acest site \u00ee\u015fi poate continua activitatea doar cu sus\u0163inerea cititorilor.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;Tiktok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dac\u0103 e\u015fti blogger femeie de succes, siteul t\u0103u devine, \u00een oarecare m\u0103sur\u0103, targetul incelilor &#8220;forumurilor de masculinitate&#8221; \u00een stilul lui Andrew Tate \u015fi ai&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9373,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24543","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/FACEPALM.png?fit=800%2C486&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24543","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24543"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24543\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24549,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24543\/revisions\/24549"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9373"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24543"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24543"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24543"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}