{"id":24573,"date":"2023-02-22T11:18:08","date_gmt":"2023-02-22T08:18:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24573"},"modified":"2023-02-22T11:18:11","modified_gmt":"2023-02-22T08:18:11","slug":"ce-avem-de-invatat-de-la-barbati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/ce-avem-de-invatat-de-la-barbati\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce avem de \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at de la b\u0103rba\u0163i"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stai \u015fi te \u00eentrebi de ce, chit c\u0103 legile ne asigur\u0103 \u00een linii mari egalitatea (modul \u00een care sunt aplicate este un subiect pentru o alt\u0103 discu\u0163ie), cum se face c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii au parte de mult mai mult respect \u015fi de condi\u0163ii mai bune, pe orice plan al vie\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Azi vom analiza unul dintre motive, care mi s-a revelat \u00een ultimele zile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Context: scrollam eu pe Facebook, c\u00e2nd am remarcat cum Vi\u0163a de Vie \u00ee\u015fi promova ultimul album cu o mem\u0103 misogin\u0103 \u015fi absolut gre\u0163oas\u0103. Asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"697\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/vitadevie.jpg?resize=700%2C697&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24559\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/vitadevie.jpg?w=786&amp;ssl=1 786w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/vitadevie.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/vitadevie.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/vitadevie.jpg?resize=768%2C765&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/vitadevie.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/vitadevie.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ce am scris \u00een acea postare e ceva evident pentru orice om cu o brum\u0103 de bun\u0103 credin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi logic\u0103:  acest mod de a trata o femeie e abuziv, iresponsabil \u015fi abject. S\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103se\u015fti o femeie pe autostrad\u0103, doar cu hainele de pe ea, \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103-i pui \u00een pericol via\u0163a \u015fi integritatea fizic\u0103 \u015fi emo\u0163ional\u0103, s\u0103 o expui pericolelor de toate tipurile, \u015fi e aberant c\u0103 o trup\u0103 cu preten\u0163ii de &#8220;intelectuali&#8221; are un astfel de discurs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen secunda imediat urm\u0103toare, au venit b\u0103rba\u0163i de pe toate col\u0163urile internetului. S\u0103 \u0163ipe to\u0163i tare la mine. Unii c\u0103 nu v\u0103d eu bine. Unii c\u0103 sunt proast\u0103. Unii c\u0103 desp\u0103r\u0163irea e ceva normal. (Desigur, desp\u0103r\u0163irea \u00een siguran\u0163\u0103 e ceva normal.) Unii, c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii pot s\u0103 ne lase unde vor ei, c\u00e2nd vor ei, iar pe \u0103\u015ftia recomand s\u0103-i evita\u0163i din toate punctele de vedere, pentru c\u0103 nu vre\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103 arunce iubi undeva pe transf\u0103g\u0103r\u0103\u015fan, la botul ur\u015filor, doar pentru c\u0103 nu v\u0103 place te miri ce muzic\u0103 decide el c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 v\u0103 plac\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"279\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/image-1.png?resize=700%2C279&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24574\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/image-1.png?w=996&amp;ssl=1 996w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/image-1.png?resize=300%2C120&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/image-1.png?resize=150%2C60&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/image-1.png?resize=768%2C306&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remarc\u0103m cum gigelul \u0103sta nici nu \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 spun\u0103 c\u0103 am \u00een\u0163eles gre\u015fit mema, \u015fi remarc\u0103m c\u0103 alt gigel \u00eei d\u0103 cu inimioar\u0103. E decizia femeilor dac\u0103 vor vreodat\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103 de-a face cu astfel de specimene, eu una recomand s\u0103 nu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar v\u0103z\u00e2nd cum veneau buluc purt\u0103tori de cromozomi Y, s\u0103 apere Vi\u0163a de Vie \u015fi atitudinea fa\u0163\u0103 de femei pe care o promoveaz\u0103 contentul lor, mi-am dat seama de altceva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei anume: orice ar face un b\u0103rbat, oric\u00e2t de josnic, oric\u00e2t de inept, oric\u00e2t de lipsit de empatie \u015fi de iresponsabil, al\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i se vor coaliza str\u00e2ns \u00een jurul lui s\u0103 \u00eel sus\u0163in\u0103, s\u0103 \u00eel apere \u015fi s\u0103 nege c\u0103 v\u0103d ceva \u00een neregul\u0103. Cam cum se n\u0103puste\u015fte un c\u00e2rd de g\u00e2\u015fte peste tine la \u0163ar\u0103, dac\u0103 din gre\u015feal\u0103 te apropii de bobocii uneia dintre ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nici m\u0103car nu e nevoie ca ace\u015fti b\u0103rba\u0163i s\u0103 se cunoasc\u0103, s\u0103 fie fani Vi\u0163a de Vie sau s\u0103 se plac\u0103 reciproc. E vorba doar de faptul c\u0103 sunt b\u0103rba\u0163i, \u015fi ur\u0103sc \u00een egal\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103 ideea de femeie, ideea de drepturile femeii \u015fi ideea c\u0103 femeia e mai mult dec\u00e2t o unealt\u0103 domestic-sexual-reproductiv\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prin urmare, sunt mereu gata s\u0103 fac\u0103 hait\u0103, s\u0103 mu\u015fte la unison, s\u0103 latre la unison, s\u0103 atace la unison \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi ling\u0103 reciproc r\u0103nile \u015fi zona dorsal\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Obiectiv: abilitatea de a face asta le creeaz\u0103 tuturor un trai mai bun, pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 unul face ceva bine, restul o s\u0103-l sufle \u00een p***, iar dac\u0103 unul face ceva nasol, exist\u0103 mult mai multe \u015fanse s\u0103 scape basma curat\u0103 pentru c\u0103 vine confreria s\u0103-l apere \u015fi s\u0103-l spele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 noi, femeile, am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a s\u0103 nu ne mai autosabot\u0103m cu perpetue \u00eendoieli de sine, pe de o parte, \u015fi s\u0103 nu ne mai sabot\u0103m una pe alta, \u00een ideea c\u0103 avans\u0103m doar f\u0103c\u00e2nd r\u0103u altor femei, am putea s\u0103 ne cre\u0103m propriile privilegii. De care nu legea ne priveaz\u0103, ci lipsa solidarit\u0103\u0163ii \u015fi a fraternit\u0103\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u0103rba\u0163ii se justific\u0103, se acoper\u0103, &#8220;se scot&#8221; unii pe al\u0163ii \u015fi fac tot ce vor s\u0103 fac\u0103. Femeile \u00ee\u015fi caut\u0103 perpetuu defecte unele altora \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi pun perpetuu be\u0163e \u00een roate. Asta pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 be\u0163ele \u00een roate pe care le pune gigel, care, cum am zis, ur\u0103\u015fte ideea c\u0103 ai ie\u015fit din buc\u0103t\u0103rie \u015fi e obligat s\u0103-\u015fi fac\u0103 singur sandvi\u015ful \u00een ultima vreme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd vom deveni capabile de aceast\u0103 fraternitate, vom cuceri ceea ce numim privilegiul masculin. Pe care nu li-l d\u0103 un ter\u0163 misterios din afar\u0103. \u015ei-l dau ei unii altora, pentru c\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleg c\u0103 haita \u00eenseamn\u0103 putere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acest site \u00ee\u015fi poate continua activitatea doar cu sus\u0163inerea cititorilor.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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