{"id":24726,"date":"2023-03-28T09:32:43","date_gmt":"2023-03-28T06:32:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24726"},"modified":"2023-03-28T09:32:46","modified_gmt":"2023-03-28T06:32:46","slug":"lucruri-pentru-care-nu-ai-nevoie-de-bani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/lucruri-pentru-care-nu-ai-nevoie-de-bani\/","title":{"rendered":"Lucruri pentru care nu ai nevoie de bani"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Aceast\u0103 postare a fost inspirat\u0103 de o discu\u0163ie care s-a n\u0103scut pe pagina mea, dup\u0103 ce am postat clipul despre problemele lui Puya: c\u0103 nu poate s\u0103 le spun\u0103 femeilor cu gabarit mai solid &#8220;grase&#8221; \u015fi femeilor care muncesc \u00een domenii adulte termenul cu &#8220;c&#8221;. La care explicam c\u0103 o via\u0163\u0103 tr\u0103it\u0103 pentru a jigni gratuit oameni care nu ne afecteaz\u0103 \u00een mod real cu nimic \u015fi care nu ne datoreaz\u0103 raport e o via\u0163\u0103 tr\u0103it\u0103 gre\u015fit, iar versiunea corect\u0103 e s\u0103 te orientezi spre lucrurile \u015fi oamenii care te bucur\u0103 (gen, nevast\u0103-ta), \u015fi s\u0103 nu mai arunci termeni violen\u0163i spre cei \u015fi cele care au o list\u0103 de priorit\u0103\u0163i diferit\u0103 de a ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Desigur, ploaie de jigniri de la discipolii Andrew Tate \u015fi, printre ei, un p\u0103rerolog: p\u0103i, pentru civiliza\u0163ie, \u00ee\u0163i trebuie bani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bani? Pentru a nu fi \u0163\u0103r\u0103nete prost degeaba? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sigur, \u00ee\u0163i trebuie bani pentru a tr\u0103i confortabil, \u00ee\u0163i trebuie bani pentru a sus\u0163ine un proiect ca acest blog (dona\u0163ii <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\">aici<\/a><\/strong>) dar pentru decen\u0163\u0103 uman\u0103 elementar\u0103 NU \u00ee\u0163i trebuie bani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar acesta e  primul subpunct al post\u0103rii de azi:  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>a) Nu, pentru un comportament de bun sim\u0163 NU \u00ee\u0163i trebuie bani.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A-i trata pe oameni cu decen\u0163\u0103 uman\u0103 elementar\u0103, a spune ce-\u0163i st\u0103 pe suflet \u00eentr-un mod care s\u0103 nu \u00eencalce demnitatea altuia e gratis. E un proverb vechi care spune c\u0103 &#8220;Polite\u0163ea nu cost\u0103 nimic, dar face to\u0163i banii.&#8221; Pentru c\u0103, spre deosebire de greutatea \u015fi moravurile unor doamne (care obiectiv NU te privesc \u015fi NU te afecteaz\u0103), vorbele ur\u00e2te, atitudinea agresiv\u0103, termenii insult\u0103tori r\u0103nesc \u015fi traumatizeaz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O recunoa\u015fte automat \u015fi coc\u0103l\u0103retele infect, c\u00e2nd posteaz\u0103 o \u00eenjur\u0103tur\u0103, tu \u00eei r\u0103spunzi pe m\u0103sur\u0103, apoi groh\u0103ie c\u0103 a fost jignit \u015fi se d\u0103 victim\u0103, de\u015fi tonul agresiv a fost ini\u0163iat de el \u015fi tu nu ai f\u0103cut dec\u00e2t s\u0103-l serve\u015fti cu atitudinea pe care ai \u00eencasat-o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sigur, pentru a \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 un lucru care nu-\u0163i place \u0163ie nu le place nici altora trebuie s\u0103 ai un anumit nivel de inteligen\u0163\u0103. Genul de inteligen\u0163\u0103 de care nu se fac vinova\u0163i nici Puya, nici sus\u0163in\u0103torii lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0103 ai un minimum de polite\u0163e e total gratuit. S\u0103 ai nivelul de civiliza\u0163ie \u00een care, dac\u0103 nu-\u0163i place num\u0103rul de kilograme al cuiva, te ui\u0163i \u00een direc\u0163ia opus\u0103 \u015fi te ab\u0163ii de la urlat incoerent ca maimu\u0163a e total gratuit. S\u0103 \u0163ii o u\u015f\u0103 pentru tanti Mi\u0163a de la tine din bloc e total gratuit. S\u0103 aju\u0163i un b\u0103tr\u00e2n s\u0103-i dai conserva de pe raftul de sus \u00een care nu ajunge la magazin e total gratuit. S\u0103 nu jigne\u015fti oameni care nu-\u0163i datoreaz\u0103 nimic pentru alegerile lor care nu te privesc e total gratuit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>b) S\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i lucruri noi. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Evident, pentru o educa\u0163ie formal\u0103, finalizat\u0103 cu o diplom\u0103, \u00ee\u0163i trebuie bani dac\u0103 facultatea e cu plat\u0103, nemaivorbind de costul vie\u0163ii dac\u0103 facultatea e \u00een alt ora\u015f. Dar pentru a \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a lucruri noi nu \u00ee\u0163i trebuie bani. Internetul ofer\u0103 oportunit\u0103\u0163i de studiu ca niciodat\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 acum, fie c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i o limb\u0103 rar\u0103, sau cau\u0163i s\u0103 afli <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cum-schimbi-neonul\/\">cum se schimb\u0103 un neon<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunt nenum\u0103rate articole online pe orice subiect \u015fi nenum\u0103rate tutoriale, filmate sau scrise, explicate \u00een detaliu, legate de orice activitate. Azi, po\u0163i \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a cum s\u0103 faci m\u00e2ncare din Malaezia \u015fi tot ce ai de pl\u0103tit e co\u015ful de ingrediente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu ai nici o scuz\u0103 pentru ignoran\u0163\u0103. Informa\u0163ia e disponibil\u0103 \u015fi motoarele de c\u0103utare sunt gratuite. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>c) S\u0103 te binedispui <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, dac\u0103 nu suferi de o boal\u0103 incurabil\u0103, restul problemelor se rezolv\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod sau altul. Stresul \u015fi necazurile de diverse tipuri sunt inevitabile, pentru c\u0103 suntem oameni \u015fi tr\u0103im vie\u0163i imperfecte \u00een condi\u0163ii imperfecte. Dar e alegerea ta dac\u0103 te la\u015fi cople\u015fit sau cau\u0163i s\u0103 te calmezi, s\u0103 faci haz de necaz, s\u0103 te concentrezi pe solu\u0163ii \u015fi s\u0103 decantezi umorul din fiecare situa\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015ei nu, nu spun s\u0103 fii iresponsabil, spun s\u0103 vezi jum\u0103tatea plin\u0103 a paharului \u015fi s\u0103 cau\u0163i moduri \u00een care po\u0163i s\u0103 adaugi la jum\u0103tatea plin\u0103. Iar genul acesta de optimism atrage \u00een via\u0163a ta oameni mai agreabili \u015fi situa\u0163ii mai pl\u0103cute. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>d) S\u0103 fii recunosc\u0103tor \u00een fiecare zi pentru c\u00e2te ceva. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acum dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, am lansat noua mea pies\u0103, Mul\u0163umesc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/KpbGBtrJ-E8?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>As expected, nu are elemente de controvers\u0103, \u00eenjur\u0103turi, protest, rebeliune, e doar o dezv\u0103luire a iubirii fa\u0163\u0103 de via\u0163\u0103, prin urmare, face cu greu 3.000 de views, pentru c\u0103 ipocrizia rom\u00e2neasc\u0103 e a\u015fa: \u0163ip\u0103m la oameni c\u0103 se degradeaz\u0103 dac\u0103 fac lucruri care ni se par imorale, \u00een schimb \u00eei ignor\u0103m \u015fi nu-i sus\u0163inem c\u00e2nd propun lucruri cu adev\u0103rat frumoase. Clipul lipsit de dislikes nu intereseaz\u0103 pe mai nimeni. E bun, e mi\u015fto, nu avem ce \u00eenjura, deci ne facem c\u0103 nu exist\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar odat\u0103 cu lansarea melodiei, am postat zi de zi c\u00e2te un motiv de recuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103 pentru ziua \u00een curs pe social media. O cafea bun\u0103. Ceva dulce. Un ghiocel \u00een parc. M\u00e2\u0163\u0103 juc\u0103u\u015f\u0103. Ni\u015fte fructe. Genul \u0103sta de detalii ne fac s\u0103 ne d\u0103m seama c\u00e2t de frumoas\u0103 e de fapt via\u0163a noastr\u0103, imperfect\u0103 cum e ea. Mai ales comparat\u0103 cu via\u0163a vecinilor no\u015ftri afla\u0163i \u00een r\u0103zboi. Dac\u0103 ai un acoperi\u015f deasupra capului, ceva de pus pe mas\u0103, oameni cu care s\u0103 schimbi c\u00e2teva vorbe afectuoase \u015fi o m\u00e2ng\u00e2iere, o hain\u0103 curat\u0103 \u015fi ap\u0103 la robinet, ai mai multe motive de fericire dec\u00e2t milioane de al\u0163ii de pe aceast\u0103 planet\u0103. Bucur\u0103-te de ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>e) S\u0103 faci periodic un declutter. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gre\u015fim adun\u00e2nd MULT \u00een jurul nostru. Mul\u0163i oameni, unii care exercit\u0103 influen\u0163e dubioase. Multe haine, multe obiecte, multe vorbe, mult\u0103 maculatur\u0103 inutil\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 sortezi balastul din jur \u015fi s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i cu ceea ce \u00ee\u0163i d\u0103 periodic bucurie e imperios necesar \u015fi, din nou, e 100% gratuit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar care ragi la mine c\u0103 declutter nu e \u00een rom\u00e2ne\u015fte \u015fi tu vrei rom\u00e2ne\u015fte la mine pe site, \u00ee\u0163i mai dau o dat\u0103 linkul de dona\u0163ii. <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\">Iat\u0103-<\/a><\/strong>l. Vreau s\u0103-i v\u0103d pe \u0103\u015ftia care m\u0103 tot freac\u0103 la icre cu preten\u0163ii aiurea c\u0103 \u00eencep s\u0103 \u015fi ofere ceva la schimb pentru preten\u0163iile lor. Spre deosebire de donatorii adev\u0103ra\u0163i, c\u0103rora le scriu eu s\u0103-i rog s\u0103 propun\u0103 un subiect \u015fi-mi r\u0103spund: A, nu, nu, f\u0103 ceea ce faci, c\u0103 e foarte bine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>f) S\u0103 refuzi s\u0103 \u00eencasezi rahat de la c\u00e2te un idiot care-\u0163i otr\u0103ve\u015fte via\u0163a <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 idiotul e ca \u0103\u015ftia din paragraful precedent, 100% preten\u0163ii \u015fi nimic de oferit, #mar\u015f\u00eenplm e de la sine \u015fi nu are nevoie de prea multe formalit\u0103\u0163i. Dar dac\u0103 idiotul e \u015feful, p\u0103rintele sau partenerul toxic de care depinzi financiar, recomand eforturi de a ie\u015fi din situa\u0163ie, un job mai bun, care s\u0103-\u0163i ofere autonomie \u015fi condi\u0163ii decente, s\u0103 realizezi \u015fi pe plan uman declutterul de la punctul 5. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015ei da, s\u0103 renun\u0163i la bani presupune s\u0103 ai tu bani, dar \u015fi p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci: s\u0103 c\u00e2n\u0163i \u00een minte &#8220;D\u0103-te-n sloboz cu m\u0103-ta&#8221; \u00een timp ce vorbe\u015fte ipochimenul e gratis. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acest site \u00ee\u015fi poate continua activitatea doar cu sus\u0163inerea cititorilor.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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