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Hello, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am o perioad\u0103 dificil\u0103 din punct de vedere emo\u0163ional, trec prin ni\u015fte faze destul de nasoale. Am a\u015fteptat ceea ce credeam eu c\u0103 merit din punct de vedere amoros, i-am refuzat pe mul\u0163i fiindc\u0103 nu-mi pl\u0103ceau \u015fi am ales s\u0103 nu m\u0103 complac. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar acum, c\u00e2nd mi-e clar c\u0103 cel pe care-l a\u015ftept nu va veni, nu \u015ftiu \u00eencotro s\u0103 o apuc. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Job-ul la care visam \u00eent\u00e2rzie s\u0103 apar\u0103 \u015fi m\u0103 tem c\u0103 va trebui s\u0103 \u00eencep cu un job de casier \u00een retail, din nou. Am schimbat traiectoria voca\u0163iei \u015fi \u00eenc\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 am f\u0103cut ce trebuia. Nu \u015ftiu \u00eencotro s\u0103 o apuc, nu \u015ftiu ce s\u0103 fac \u015fi dac\u0103 s\u0103 mai am \u00eencredere \u00een mine sau nu. Cum o scot la cap\u0103t? C\u0103 am impresia c\u0103 la final, indiferent de alegeri, totul se duce naibii. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n Mi-e extrem de greu s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i dau idei cum s\u0103 o sco\u0163i la cap\u0103t, c\u00e2nd tu \u00eemi livrezi doar ambiguit\u0103\u0163i generice \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 niciun detaliu care s\u0103 clarifice lucrurile. S\u0103 \u015ftii c\u0103 oamenii nu citesc g\u00e2nduri \u015fi nu am baterie la globul de cristal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Prin urmare, la genul \u0103sta de mail eu pot da doar pove\u0163e generice de Osho, gen “Z\u00e2mbe\u015fte, c\u0103 m\u00e2ine va fi mai bine” sau “Transform\u0103-te prin puterea medita\u0163iei”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Bun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n O s\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103 lucrez cu ceea ce mi-ai dat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Faptul c\u0103 i-ai refuzat pe mul\u0163i pentru c\u0103 nu-\u0163i pl\u0103ceau mi se pare un lucru bun \u015fi nu \u00een\u0163eleg de ce te pl\u00e2ngi \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu asta. Cred c\u0103 e absolut sc\u00e2rbos \u015fi umilitor s\u0103 prime\u015fti \u00een corpul t\u0103u un b\u0103rbat care nu-\u0163i place, prin urmare, good job. M\u0103car nu e\u015fti doamna de la \u015ftiri care \u015fi-a pierdut copilul pentru c\u0103 t\u0103ticul divor\u0163at a decis s\u0103 se r\u0103zbune sp\u00e2nzur\u00e2ndu-l. Sau cealalt\u0103 doamn\u0103 de la \u015ftiri, g\u0103sit\u0103 moart\u0103 \u00een urma unor mici conflicte domestice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce mi-e oarecum neclar e faza cu “am a\u015fteptat ceea ce credeam eu c\u0103 merit din punct de vedere amoros”, respectiv “cel pe care-l a\u015ftept nu va veni”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu \u00een\u0163eleg dac\u0103 ai \u00een minte un anumit tip, care te-a tot plimbat cu vorba. Sau, pur \u015fi simplu, cau\u0163i un poten\u0163ial iubit \u015fi nu-\u0163i place de mai nimeni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 ai \u00een minte un anumit tip, iar \u0103la nu-\u0163i ofer\u0103 tratamentul pe care-l dore\u015fti, r\u0103spunsul scurt e: a\u015ftep\u0163i degeaba, iar \u0103sta nu e tipul. Dac\u0103 avea chef s\u0103 te trateze ca pe regina inimii lui, nimic nu-l \u00eempiedica s-o fac\u0103. Trece-l la catastiful de “was not meant to happen”, cheam\u0103 o prieten\u0103 la tine cu o g\u0103letu\u015f\u0103 de \u00eenghe\u0163at\u0103 la un kilogram \u015fi un binge de seriale, boci\u0163i \u00eempreun\u0103 c\u0103 iubirea nu prime\u015fte niciodat\u0103 r\u0103spuns \u015fi MOVE ON. <\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u0103rba\u0163ii nu te trateaz\u0103 ca pe regina inimii lor pentru c\u0103 at\u00e2rni dup\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163i care nu te trateaz\u0103 ca pe regina inimii lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 nu at\u00e2rni dup\u0103 cineva anume, ci pur \u015fi simplu e\u015fti nemul\u0163umit\u0103 de pia\u0163a de dating: da, ok. Mult\u0103 lume, pu\u0163ini oameni. Partea pozitiv\u0103 e c\u0103 nu \u00eempar\u0163i linguri\u0163e la partaj \u015fi nu zaci moart\u0103 \u00eentr-un \u015fan\u0163, deci, standardele tale \u00eenalte te-au ferit de necazuri. Kudos to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu exist\u0103 “n-o s\u0103 apar\u0103 niciodat\u0103 etc”. Cunosc o femeie care s-a m\u0103ritat la 60 de ani cu un b\u0103rbat cunoscut \u00een timpul unei plimb\u0103ri prin parc. Nu e cazul s\u0103 disperi; la un moment dat, va ap\u0103rea ceva bun pentru tine. Relax and grab a beer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u0103 trecem la partea profesional\u0103, unde, din nou, nu \u00eemi spui la ce voca\u0163ie ai renun\u0163at, ce voca\u0163ie ai decis s\u0103 urmezi, ce job \u00ee\u0163i dore\u015fti, ci o arzi ambiguu \u015fi se presupune c\u0103 eu trebuie s\u0103 fill in the dots cu globul meu de cristal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Treaba e \u00een felul urm\u0103tor: NU sari niciodat\u0103 cu capul \u00een neant, din punct de vedere profesional. <\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 decizi, cum am decis eu, c\u0103 te pasioneaz\u0103 muzica trap. OK, dar pia\u0163a trap e plin\u0103 de arti\u015fti care au ani de eperien\u0163\u0103 \u015fi un fanbase larg \u00een domeniu. Nu te la\u015fi de jobul care-\u0163i asigur\u0103 un paycheck \u015fi o asigurare de s\u0103n\u0103tate, ci \u00ee\u0163i dedici timpul liber beaturilor \u015fi exers\u0103rii flowului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Valabil pentru orice fel de schimbare \u00een carier\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0162ine-te de un job safe, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd apare alt\u0103 oportunitate pe linia pe care \u0163i-o dore\u015fti, lucreaz\u0103 \u00een timpul liber la voca\u0163ia pe care \u015ftii c\u0103 o ai \u015fi construie\u015fte-\u0163i un portofoliu pe care s\u0103-l po\u0163i ar\u0103ta angajatorilor din domeniul dorit de tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Da, angajeaz\u0103-te casier \u00een retail p\u00e2n\u0103 apar oportunit\u0103\u0163ile pe care le dore\u015fti. Sau f\u0103 o plimbare pe strad\u0103. Cinci din zece firme au \u00een vitrin\u0103 pancarta “angaj\u0103m personal”. Intr\u0103, \u00eentreab\u0103 care-s condi\u0163iile de lucru \u015fi bucur\u0103-te de vrabia din m\u00e2n\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd you work yourself up to cioara de pe gard. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u015ei dup\u0103 ce-\u0163i iei primul salariu, bag\u0103 ni\u015fte terapie, pentru c\u0103 tonul mailului t\u0103u \u00eemi d\u0103 un vibe de depresie \u015fi dracul \u00een mod sigur nu e at\u00e2t de negru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Acest site \u00ee\u015fi poate continua activitatea doar cu sus\u0163inerea cititorilor. 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