{"id":24873,"date":"2023-04-25T06:51:26","date_gmt":"2023-04-25T03:51:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24873"},"modified":"2023-04-25T06:51:28","modified_gmt":"2023-04-25T03:51:28","slug":"de-ce-iei-teapa-recidivanta-in-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ce-iei-teapa-recidivanta-in-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce iei \u021beap\u0103 recidivant\u0103 \u00een amor"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Aveam pe una \u00een list\u0103. Acum n-o mai am, pentru c\u0103 avea un obicei uber iritant: chit c\u0103 postarea X nu avea absolut nici o leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu ea, se \u00eenfiin\u021ba \u00een subsol \u0219i \u00eencepea s\u0103 fac\u0103 circ, \u0219i uhhmmm, nu. Poate dac\u0103 donezi minimum 3.000 de euro pe lun\u0103, s\u0103 tolerez acest tip de hachi\u021be care s\u0103-mi consume timp \u0219i nervi, dar s\u0103 fii Madam Moca \u0219i s\u0103 ai preten\u021bia s\u0103-\u021bi suporte cineva care nu-\u021bi datoreaz\u0103 nimic crizele de nervi? HELL no. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tipa asta \u00ee\u0219i dorea teribil de mult un boufriend. Prin urmare, de cum o invita unul \u00een ora\u0219, \u00ee\u0219i umplea social media cu poze cu el, noi doi egal inim\u0103, lovelovelove. \u0218i, cum se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 pe pia\u021ba contemporan\u0103 de dating, tot ce voia \u0103la era s\u0103 tuf\u0103 \u0219i el de c\u00e2teva ori, apoi sentimentul de noutate se evapora \u0219i n-o mai suna. Jale mare, to\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bii sunt la fel, smiorc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi, o scotea altul la un suc \u0219i din nou. Iubire, noi doi forever, eternitatea e prea pu\u021bin, corason espinado. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i din nou, situa\u021bia se repeta la virgul\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu sunt un om empatic \u0219i mie nu-mi venea s\u0103 r\u00e2d de zbuciumul unui suflet sensibil de femeie. Dar mam\u0103\u0103, ce mi\u0219touri \u00ee\u0219i lua de la cocalarii care remarcaser\u0103 \u0219i ei patternul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prin urmare, iat\u0103 de ce iei iar \u0219i iar \u021beap\u0103 \u00een amor: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. Pui botul la vr\u0103jeal\u0103 <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Aici o s\u0103 apar\u0103 vreo patru fuflete sensibile s\u0103 \u021bipe tare c\u00e2t de vulgar sun\u0103 enun\u021bul de mai sus, dar parc\u0103 e de preferat s\u0103 fiu eu vulgar\u0103 dec\u00e2t tu p\u0103c\u0103lit\u0103, right? Ce se vorbe\u0219te \u00een timpul primelor c\u00e2teva dates e versiunea promo, \u0219i adev\u0103rul iese la iveal\u0103 dup\u0103 ce apuci s\u0103 cuno\u0219ti omul mai bine. Ce e important de re\u021binut din primele dates nu e volumul impresionant de dulceg\u0103rii cu care \u00eencearc\u0103 \u0103la s\u0103 \u021bi se strecoare \u00een chilo\u021bi, ci detaliile de via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i preferin\u021be personale, pe care, dac\u0103 nu te concentrezi pe dulceg\u0103rii, po\u021bi s\u0103 le extragi treptat, cu diploma\u021bie \u0219i r\u0103bdare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Da, evident c\u0103 e\u0219ti frumoas\u0103, superb\u0103 \u0219i restul chestiilor, c\u0103 de-aia e acolo. Altfel, juca pe xbox acas\u0103. Get to know him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    2. Te agi\u021bi prea mult<\/strong>, prea repede <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Probabil c\u0103 tu nu te apuci s\u0103 postezi 57890 de poze cu tipul, cu iubire etern\u0103, inimioare, amora\u0219i \u00een p\u0103tu\u021b \u0219i alte varia\u021biuni pe tem\u0103 fix\u0103, dar dac\u0103 \u00eencepi brusc s\u0103 te por\u021bi ca \u0219i cum erai ultima fl\u0103m\u00e2nd\u0103 \u0219i a venit el \u00een marea lui mil\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi ofere ni\u0219te f\u0103r\u00e2mituri, chiar o s\u0103 te considere ultima fl\u0103m\u00e2nd\u0103 care ar fi murit de foame f\u0103r\u0103 f\u0103r\u00e2miturile lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Not cute. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Chiar dac\u0103, sub influen\u021ba lui Tate, b\u0103rba\u021bii abereaz\u0103 c\u0103 vor femei submisive, de cum dau de una, o rup la fug\u0103 m\u00e2nc\u00e2nd p\u0103m\u00e2ntul, pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i dau seama c\u0103 submisivitatea ei vine la pachet cu un uria\u0219 vampirism energetic \u0219i c\u0103 ain’t nobody got time for this. R\u0103bd\u0103ric\u0103. Cunoa\u0219te-l mai bine. Faptul c\u0103 te scoate undeva la patru stele nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu e dator la b\u0103nci \u0219i cu pantalonii de pe el. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    3. \u00cel la\u0219i s\u0103 \u021bi se urce \u00een cap <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Mul\u021bi gigei – \u0219i da, \u0219i gigele, nu neg – au fost crescu\u021bi c\u0103 li se cuvine tot timpul, efortul \u0219i aten\u021bia cuiva. Prin urmare, le solicit\u0103 cu impertinen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i tupeu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Dac\u0103 te apuci s\u0103 faci chestii pentru ei, n-o vor lua drept un semn de devotament \u0219i afec\u021biune din partea ta, ci ca pe o chestie care li se cuvine lor, c\u0103 a\u0219a sunt ei buricii p\u0103m\u00e2ntului. Taman de aceea, finalitatea va fi c\u0103 tu \u00ee\u021bi vei lua o imens\u0103 \u021beap\u0103, c\u0103 nimic din ce ai f\u0103cut nu te calific\u0103 s\u0103 te a\u0219tep\u021bi s\u0103 fii sus\u021binut\u0103 la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u, iar gigel AVEA DREPTUL s\u0103 fie slug\u0103rit de tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Evi\u021bi acest gen de \u021bepe dac\u0103 le dai ferm peste bot gigeilor \u0219i gigelelor c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103tori la belciuge \u0219i le comunici clar \u00een ce condi\u021bii AVANTAJOASE \u0218I PENTRU TINE pot beneficia de ceea ce doresc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    4. Nu comunici clar ce vrei. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Asta e cumva prelungirea punctului 3. Fiecare om vine \u00eentr-o interac\u021biune cu o list\u0103 de a\u0219tept\u0103ri. Cea mai mare eroare a unor femei e s\u0103 se a\u0219tepte ca \u0103ia s\u0103 ghiceasc\u0103 \u00een bobi ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc ele. Evident c\u0103 nu se va \u00eent\u00e2mpla nici \u00een o sut\u0103 de ani, odat\u0103 pentru c\u0103 majoritatea masculilor nu sunt foarte aten\u021bi la indicii subtile \u0219i, colac peste pup\u0103z\u0103, tind s\u0103 te judece mai mult pe baza experien\u021belor lor precedente legate de femei dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 afle care e treaba cu tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Prin urmare, spune clar ce vrei \u0219i ce nu vrei, demonstreaz\u0103 prin ac\u021biunile tale c\u0103 e\u0219ti 100% pe bune \u0219i, chiar dac\u0103 pleac\u0103 \u00een acest stadiu, n-ai pierdut prea mult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    5. Vrei s\u0103-l faci altceva dec\u00e2t e <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    E un b\u0103iat at\u00e2t de bun, numai s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 un job potrivit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Un b\u0103iat care vrea s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 un job potrivit, \u00eel g\u0103se\u0219te. Un b\u0103iat care vrea venituri mai mari face pe dracu-n patru \u0219i le ob\u021bine. Un b\u0103iat care vrea s\u0103 se \u00eentoarc\u0103 spre Isus se \u00eentoarce spre Isus \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-l freci tu la cap. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Iar dac\u0103 nu le face pe astea acum, nu le va face nici dac\u0103 \u00eencepi tu s\u0103-l pistonezi lung \u0219i agasant. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    C\u00e2nd intri \u00een rela\u021bii sper\u00e2nd c\u0103 \u00eel salvezi pe gigel de el \u00eensu\u0219i, nu vei face dec\u00e2t s\u0103-\u021bi iei o mare \u021beap\u0103, pentru c\u0103 gigel se simte extrem de bine s\u0103 fie el \u00eensu\u0219i \u0219i tu e\u0219ti doar zgomotul de fond iritant care vrea s\u0103-i strice karma, zenul \u0219i feng \u0219uiul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u0218tii c\u00e2nd se schimb\u0103 un om? C\u00e2nd ia el pentru sine, din ini\u021biativ\u0103 proprie, decizia s\u0103 se schimbe. P\u00e2n\u0103 atunci, ia-l drept ceea ce este, nu ceea ce crezi tu c\u0103 ar putea s\u0103 fie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u00cemi scrisese una acum c\u00e2teva luni la po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Cum \u00eel fac s\u0103 nu mai fie zg\u00e2rcit? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    R\u0103spuns: Nu \u00eel faci. Remarc\u0103 zg\u00e2rcenia de la primele simptome \u0219i caut\u0103 direct pe unul care nu e zg\u00e2rcit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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