{"id":24942,"date":"2023-05-15T10:00:33","date_gmt":"2023-05-15T07:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24942"},"modified":"2023-05-15T10:02:24","modified_gmt":"2023-05-15T07:02:24","slug":"pai-cum-ilinca-vandici-a-fost-parasita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/pai-cum-ilinca-vandici-a-fost-parasita\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u0103i cum, Ilinca Vandici a fost p\u0103r\u0103sit\u0103?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u00cen 90% din cazuri \u0163in cu femeia. Pentru c\u0103 \u015ftiu c\u0103, \u00een \u0163ara asta, multe (nu toate, nu s\u0103ri \u00een sus, gigel) conflicte domestice deriv\u0103 din concep\u0163ia b\u0103rbatului c\u0103 femeia e o proprietate, c\u0103 odat\u0103 ce e a lui, trebuie s\u0103-l slug\u0103reasc\u0103 \u00een orice f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 comenteze, c\u0103 numai ea e cu munca \u015fi el cu beneficiile \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar nu pot \u0163ine cu Ilinca Vandici. \u00cenc\u0103 \u00eemi amintesc perora\u0163iile ei, \u00een care le \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a pe femei c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fie slugi, c\u0103 e perfect ok \u015fi normal ca b\u0103rbatul s\u0103 aib\u0103 pe altele pe l\u00e2ng\u0103, c\u0103 ea nu are preten\u0163ie de la b\u0103rbatul ei s\u0103 fac\u0103 cump\u0103r\u0103turi la Mega \u015fi multe pe aceea\u015fi linie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am mai scris pe subiect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am punctat c\u0103 faza cu treaba \u00een cas\u0103 e de fapt caz specific. \u015ei Ilinca, \u015fi fostul ei, au suficien\u0163i bani s\u0103 angajeze toat\u0103 Armata Rom\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 le fac\u0103 curat \u00een cas\u0103, m\u00e2ncare \u015fi aprovizionare, dac\u0103 vor. Ei se duc personal la Mega doar dac\u0103 au chef s\u0103 vad\u0103 ce e proasp\u0103t pe la legume \u015fi fructe, c\u0103 li s-a f\u0103cut lor a\u015fa din senin chef de un smoothie. \u00cen rest, pl\u0103tesc oameni care se ocup\u0103 de asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spuneam \u015fi atunci c\u0103 problema cea mare, c\u00e2nd o vedet\u0103 ca Ilinca spune c\u0103 ea nu se a\u015fteapt\u0103 ca b\u0103rbatul s\u0103 mi\u015fte nimic \u00een cas\u0103 el personal, omite convenabil faptul c\u0103 omul \u00eei las\u0103 toate sumele necesare pentru angaja\u0163ii care fac casa bec. \u015ei gicu s\u0103r\u0103kie din ferentari aude interviul \u015fi \u00eencepe s\u0103 se certe cu nevasta c\u0103 uite, f\u0103, n-am de ce s\u0103 pun osul la treburi nici eu, dac\u0103 b\u0103rbatul Ilinc\u0103i nu face nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, evident c\u0103 alfa macho pentru care \u0163inea Ilinca discursul \u0103la de inspira\u0163ie alt right la televizor a p\u0103r\u0103sit-o. Pentru c\u0103 asta p\u0103\u0163esc toate femeile care \u00eencep s\u0103 le c\u00e2nte \u00een strun\u0103 masculilor alt right, \u00een speran\u0163a c\u0103, dac\u0103 le demonstreaz\u0103 \u0103lora c\u0103 “sunt feminine”, vor avea pe unul care s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103 de ele. Pentru alfa macho, tu e\u015fti o proprietate. Ca un smartphone. O spune \u015fi el \u00een textele lui marca Tate \/ Peterson: tot ce vede la tine e tinere\u0163ea \u015fi frumuse\u0163ea. De cum dispar astea, schimb\u0103 modelul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103 fug\u0103re\u015fti genul \u0103sta de mascul \u015fi s\u0103-i c\u00e2n\u0163i \u00een strun\u0103 e at\u00e2t de josnic \u015fi de jalnic, s\u0103 predici pentru sute de mii de femei spectatoare de Kanal D c\u0103 atitudinea unui astfel de mascul e perfect \u00een regul\u0103 pentru tine, \u015fi c\u0103 nebune sunt doar cele care doresc respect \u015fi aten\u0163ie, e at\u00e2t de josnic \u015fi de jalnic, \u00eenc\u00e2t nu o pot comp\u0103timi pe Ilinca acum, c\u0103 a r\u0103mas singur\u0103 cu un copil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E doar un caz clasic de “cum \u00ee\u0163i a\u015fterni, a\u015fa dormi”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei discursul \u0103la oribil, c\u0103 e normal ca b\u0103rbatul, mai ales bogat, s\u0103 se tot dea la altele… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu am avut iubit cu bani. Nu l-am ag\u0103\u0163at cu aspectul fizic \u015fi cu “feminitatea”, ci cu personalitatea \u015fi cu umorul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tipul \u0103la, de\u015fi bogat, NU a avut nici o treab\u0103 cu altele, c\u00e2t timp a durat lan\u0163ul de iubire. Dimpotriv\u0103. C\u0103uta momente s\u0103 fie mai mult cu mine, s\u0103 facem c\u00e2t mai mult\u0103 dragoste, s\u0103 ne \u0163inem \u00een bra\u0163e, s\u0103 ne trimitem mesaje cu tot ce ne trecea prin cap, s\u0103 ne uit\u0103m la acelea\u015fi filme, s\u0103 ascult\u0103m aceea\u015fi muzic\u0103, s\u0103 descoperim noi c\u00e2rciumi mi\u015fto \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acesta, dragi prieteni, e comportamentul de b\u0103rbat \u00eendr\u0103gostit pe bune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un b\u0103rbat care te iube\u015fte VREA s\u0103 fie cu tine. Unul care se mesengere\u015fte cu muieret pe Tinder, pe Instagram \u015fi pe alte re\u0163ele e s\u0103tul de tine ca de mere p\u0103dure\u0163e \u015fi caut\u0103 excita\u0163ie \u00een alt\u0103 parte. Acesta este singurul adev\u0103r. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei dac\u0103 tot alegi s\u0103 \u00eenchizi ochii pentru c\u0103 ai copii \u015fi nu \u015ftiu c\u00e2te afaceri la comun, \u00een\u0163eleg. \u00cen\u0163eleg \u015fi empatizez. Ai muncit la afacerile alea \u015fi nu vrei partaj cu scandal \u015fi strig\u0103turi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Partea pe care NU o \u00een\u0163eleg e c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i faci titlu de glorie c\u0103 a\u015fa e\u015fti tu femeie cumsecade c\u0103-\u0163i la\u015fi b\u0103rbatul s\u0103 fug\u0103reasc\u0103 fuste \u015fi c\u0103 proaste sunt cele care nu fac ca tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei, \u00een cele din urm\u0103, alfa macho te p\u0103r\u0103se\u015fte oricum. Ai f\u0103cut at\u00e2tea concesii \u015fi compromisuri degeaba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tsss, nasolu\u0163, Ilinco, ce s\u0103 zic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, \u015fi tu, \u015fi eu suntem fete singure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu diferen\u0163a c\u0103 eu \u00een acest timp m-am distrat liber \u015fi am copil\u0103rit \u00een voie, iar tu ai \u00eendurat toate tr\u0103d\u0103rile \u015fi umilin\u0163ele din partea unui b\u0103rbat egocentric. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Avantaj eu. Avantaj pentru c\u0103 nu \u0163i-am ascultat lec\u0163ioarele de nevast\u0103 alt-right. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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