\u00cemi place mult po\u0219ta redac\u021biei. Mi se pare c\u0103 dai sfaturi foarte sincere \u0219i nu sunt mereu de acord, dar \u00ee\u021bi respect punctul de vedere. Se vede c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 aju\u021bi oamenii. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu am o rela\u021bie stabil\u0103 de c\u00e2\u021biva ani. Ne \u00een\u021belegem bine. Nu avem cine \u0219tie ce pasiune ca-n telenovele, dar nici nu am avut certuri serioase, p\u00e2n\u0103 acum c\u00e2teva luni. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi situa\u021bia, Lorena, \u0219i eu, \u0219i iubitul meu am venit \u00een rela\u021bie cu ni\u0219te economii puse deoparte. Planul era s\u0103 ne lu\u0103m un apartament \u00een comun \u0219i s\u0103 fim co-proprietari. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Momentul a fost am\u00e2nat, s\u0103 ne cunoa\u0219tem mai bine, s\u0103 nu ne arunc\u0103m \u00een investi\u021bii f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tim cu cine. Apoi a urmat pandemia, apoi am r\u0103mas \u0219omer\u0103 eu vreo dou\u0103 luni p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd mi-am g\u0103sit altceva. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Acum dou\u0103 luni a murit bunic\u0103-sa de la \u021bar\u0103. Eu \u00eei spun s\u0103 v\u00e2nd\u0103 terenul \u0219i casa, s\u0103 investim aici la ora\u0219, \u00een viitorul nostru, el \u00eemi spune c\u0103 acea cas\u0103 e copil\u0103ria lui \u0219i c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 investim bani \u00een ea, s-o renov\u0103m, s\u0103 ne mut\u0103m \u00een ea \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103im s\u0103n\u0103tos cu ce cultiv\u0103m \u00een gr\u0103din\u0103 \u0219i chestii de genul. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sincer, Lorena, mie nu-mi convine s\u0103 bag bani \u00eentr-o cas\u0103 care nu e a mea. Banii \u0103\u0219tia i-am str\u00e2ns pentru o garsonier\u0103 comod\u0103 \u00een Bucure\u0219ti, nu pentru o cas\u0103 la \u021bar\u0103. Eu nu a\u0219 g\u0103si un job potrivit pentru mine la \u021bar\u0103, deci ce fac? Culeg cartofi cu ziua? \u00cen plus, dac\u0103 ne desp\u0103r\u021bim dup\u0103, eu a\u0219 r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu banii lua\u021bi. Casa e pe numele lui, nu pe al meu. Dac\u0103 bag bani \u00een ea, pot s\u0103 le zic adio. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Tu ce ai face? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00centr-un fel, e bine c\u0103 a ap\u0103rut o situa\u021bie de acest gen, s\u0103 testeze c\u00e2t de stabil\u0103 e rela\u021bia \u0219i c\u00e2t de compatibili sunte\u021bi de fapt, \u00eenainte de vreun commitment. Da, s\u0103 cump\u0103ra\u021bi ceva \u0219i s\u0103 pune\u021bi fiecare jum\u0103tate din bani, s\u0103 fi\u021bi co-proprietari \u00een acte e rezonabil. S\u0103 bagi banii t\u0103i economisi\u021bi cu greu \u00eentr-o cas\u0103 \u00een care chiar nu ai nici un chef s\u0103 stai \u0219i s\u0103 adop\u021bi un stil de via\u021b\u0103 pe care nu \u021bi-l dore\u0219ti, cu \u0219ansa ca, \u00een caz c\u0103 se termin\u0103 totul, s\u0103 pierzi tot, e lose-lose-lose-lose-lose situation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n El are dreptul s\u0103-\u0219i doreasc\u0103 o via\u021b\u0103 simpl\u0103 la \u021bar\u0103, cu cartofi din gr\u0103din\u0103 \u0219i cu pui crescut \u00een curte. A\u0219a cum \u0219i tu ai dreptul s\u0103-\u021bi dore\u0219ti o via\u021b\u0103 simpl\u0103 \u00eentr-un apartament din Dristor, unde vine comanda de shaorma la zece minute dup\u0103 ce o plasezi. Dar dac\u0103 v\u0103 dori\u021bi lucruri at\u00e2t de diferite de la vie\u021bile voastre, \u00eentrebarea real\u0103 e dac\u0103 locul vostru e cu adev\u0103rat \u00eempreun\u0103 sau nu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n El ar putea s\u0103-\u0219i g\u0103seasc\u0103 pe una care s\u0103 iubeasc\u0103 via\u021ba la \u021bar\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 fie compatibil\u0103 natural cu el, iar tu, pe unul care se bucur\u0103 s\u0103 ie\u0219i\u021bi la un club seara \u0219i s\u0103 cump\u0103ra\u021bi cartofi congela\u021bi la pung\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi \u021bin\u0103 un speech despre glasul p\u0103m\u00e2ntului \u0219i glasul iubirii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i nu, nu bagi banii dec\u00e2t \u00een a) chestii pe care le vrei cu adev\u0103rat \u0219i b) chestii cu acte, gen acel apartament \u00een comun. Nu te cheam\u0103 Jeff Bezos, s\u0103 arunci c\u00e2teva zeci de mii de euro \u00een f\u00e2nt\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu sim\u021bi diferen\u021ba. A fost efortul t\u0103u s\u0103 economise\u0219ti, bucur\u0103-te de bani a\u0219a CUM VREI TU, nu cum vor al\u021bii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Cam asta a\u0219 face eu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Acest site \u00ee\u015fi poate continua activitatea doar cu sus\u0163inerea cititorilor. 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