{"id":24975,"date":"2023-05-26T17:14:21","date_gmt":"2023-05-26T14:14:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24975"},"modified":"2023-05-26T17:15:05","modified_gmt":"2023-05-26T14:15:05","slug":"si-totusi-de-ce-nu-putem-avea-casatorii-de-acelasi-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/si-totusi-de-ce-nu-putem-avea-casatorii-de-acelasi-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0218i totu\u0219i, de ce nu putem avea c\u0103s\u0103torii de acela\u0219i sex?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015etirea despre care n-am apucat \u00eenc\u0103 s\u0103 scriu, dar repar asta chiar acum, este c\u0103, pe 23 mai,  CEDO a condamnat Rom\u00e2nia de \u00eenc\u0103lc\u0103ri ale drepturilor omului, \u00een procesele intentate de 21 de familii de acela\u0219i sex a c\u0103ror uniune nu a fost recunoscut\u0103 \u00een fa\u021ba legii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aici, retorica auri\u015ftilor \u015fi a tradi\u0163ionali\u015ftilor e: vaai, cum s\u0103 lup\u0163i \u00eempotriva \u0163\u0103rii tale, ce rom\u00e2n e\u015fti tu blabla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Faptul c\u0103 sunt rom\u00e2n nu m\u0103 face s\u0103 \u00eenchid ochii c\u00e2nd \u0163ara &#8211; \u015fi nu toat\u0103 \u0163ara, ci politicienii momentului, sau   institu\u0163iile locale &#8211; \u00eencalc\u0103 drepturile unor oameni. Preten\u0163ia c\u0103 aceste specimene ar alc\u0103tui \u0163ara e o insult\u0103 la adresa inteligen\u0163ei cititorului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pe aceea\u015fi retoric\u0103, securi\u015ftii lui Ceau\u015fescu \u00eei for\u0163au pe cet\u0103\u0163eni s\u0103 \u00eenchid\u0103 ochii la abuzuri repetate la adresa &#8220;du\u015fmanilor sistemului&#8221;, &#8220;chiaburilor&#8221; \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe, \u00een ideea c\u0103 cine-i critic\u0103 pe ei e antirom\u00e2n \u015fi alte bull$h!turi. Uhm, nu \u0163ine. Faptul c\u0103 nu aprob politica homofob\u0103 \u015fi transfob\u0103 a unui grup de oameni NU \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 sunt antirom\u00e2n. \u00censeamn\u0103 doar c\u0103 respectivul grup de oameni e obligat s\u0103-\u015fi schimbe politica. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To\u0163i cet\u0103\u0163enii Rom\u00e2niei, indiferent de orientare sexual\u0103, pl\u0103tesc acelea\u015fi impozite \u015fi contribu\u0163ii la stat, \u015fi prin urmare, ar fi corect, at\u00e2t legal, c\u00e2t \u015fi moral, s\u0103 beneficieze de acelea\u015fi drepturi. Nu exist\u0103 scutiri de taxe pentru gay, lesbiene, transgenderi sau bisexuali, s\u0103 se justifice refuzul dreptului la c\u0103s\u0103torie \u015fi al tuturor drepturilor derivate de aici: proprietate comun\u0103, mo\u0219tenire, obliga\u021bie de sus\u021binere reciproc\u0103, de \u00eentre\u021binere, de vizit\u0103 la terapie intensiv\u0103, etc. Orice \u00eencercare a unui cuplu de acela\u015fi sex de a se \u00eenregistra la Oficiul St\u0103rii Civile are parte \u00een prezent de un refuz. Iar acesta este o \u00eenc\u0103lcare a dreptului la via\u0163\u0103 privat\u0103 \u015fi de familie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Procesul familiilor LGBT este, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een prezent, <strong>cel mai mare proces colectiv pentru recunoa\u0219terea dreptului la via\u021b\u0103 privat\u0103 \u0219i de familie din Europa<\/strong>. Un class action ini\u0163iat \u00een prim\u0103 faz\u0103 de unul dintre fondatorii asocia\u0163iei ACCEPT, Florin Buhuceanu, \u015fi de partenerul s\u0103u, pentru c\u0103 statul rom\u00e2n refuza s\u0103 recunoasc\u0103 rela\u0163ia de familie dintre ei. Pe parcurs, li s-au al\u0103turat treisprezece cupluri de femei \u015fi alte \u015fapte cupluri de b\u0103rba\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Publica\u0163ia G\u00e2ndul a realizat<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gandul.ro\/actualitate\/exclusiv-marturia-avocatei-care-a-castigat-la-cedo-recunoasterea-familiilor-gay-in-cele-mai-grele-momente-oamenilor-le-lipseste-protectia-statului-19984871?fbclid=IwAR2R8IyWBWr957FjguhRT6Z49RWfvN0Y7D08jHdag1g445CylYTqvsuiyoI\"> un interviu<\/a> <\/strong>cu Iustina Ionescu, avocatul care i-a reprezentat pe cei 42 de reclaman\u0163i \u00een acest proces. Iustina spune: &#8220;Sunt situa\u021bii de via\u021b\u0103 de care te love\u0219ti pas cu pas. \u00centr-adev\u0103r, \u00een cele mai grele momente oamenilor le lipse\u0219te protec\u021bia statului \u0219i realizeaz\u0103 ce pierd prin faptul c\u0103 pe ei statul nu \u00eei recunoa\u0219te. \u0218i cel mai adesea vorbim despre situa\u021bii \u00een care unul dintre parteneri este \u00een spital, bolnav, are o interven\u021bie chirurgical\u0103, de exemplu. La Terapie Intensiv\u0103 nu poate s\u0103 intre dec\u00e2t so\u021bul sau rud\u0103 de gradul I. Aceste familii nu se \u00eencadreaz\u0103 \u00een niciuna dintre aceste variante \u00een acest moment, conform legii. Deci e vorba de oameni care \u0219i-au stat al\u0103turi zi de zi, ani de zile, poate zeci de ani, cum e cazul unuia dintre cuplurile din acest caz de la CEDO.&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ACCEPT a ini\u0163iat \u015fi o peti\u0163ie <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/campaniamea.declic.ro\/petitions\/protejati-toate-familiile-din-romania\">aici<\/a><\/strong>, prin care ofer\u0103 oamenilor posibilitatea s\u0103-\u015fi exprime sus\u0163inerea fa\u0163\u0103 de cauza celor 42, mai ales c\u0103 principalul argument invocat de Rom\u00e2nia \u00een ap\u0103rare este atitudinea ostil\u0103 a majorit\u0103\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Numai c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd vine vorba de via\u0163a personal\u0103 \u015fi de familie a doi adul\u0163i care decid de comun acord s\u0103-\u015fi uneasc\u0103 destinele, nu prea e treaba nim\u0103nui altcuiva s\u0103 se bage. Ionel obi\u015fnuit nu cere p\u0103rerea na\u0163iunii \u00eenainte s\u0103 decid\u0103 c\u0103 se \u00eensoar\u0103 cu M\u0103rioara obi\u015fnuit\u0103, \u015fi nici nu e cazul s-o cear\u0103. E strict decizia celor doi, \u015fi cam at\u00e2t. C\u00e2t timp ambii sunt eligibili legal pentru c\u0103s\u0103torie, parteneriat civil sau whatever nume decide legea c\u0103 merit\u0103 aceast\u0103 uniune, \u015fi ambii vor, cam asta conteaz\u0103 \u015fi nimic altceva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Preten\u0163ia unor gigei sau gigele c\u0103 le spun altora pe cine s\u0103 iubeasc\u0103 \u015fi cum s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 e o intruziune pe care n-o justific\u0103 absolut nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prin urmare: a\u015ftept cu mare emo\u0163ie s\u0103 avem \u015fi noi dreptul de a ne c\u0103s\u0103tori cu persoane de acela\u015fi sex, dac\u0103 asta e fericirea noastr\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Q &amp; A: <strong>P\u0103i da, dar eu sunt dac verde \u015fi nu sunt de acord.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Asta am explicat mai sus, c\u0103 e irelevant dac\u0103 e\u015fti sau nu de acord, de vreme ce nu faci parte din respectivul cuplu \u015fi nu e vorba de treaba ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>P\u0103i da, dar eu cum explic copiilor? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Exact cum le explici \u015fi c\u0103s\u0103toria straight. X \u015fi Y se iubesc \u015fi au decis s\u0103-\u015fi construiasc\u0103 o via\u0163\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>P\u0103i da, dar o s\u0103 avem vecini de acela\u015fi sex. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei? Sunt at\u00e2\u0163ia vecini de sexe opuse cu care nu comunici. Nu te oblig\u0103 nimeni s\u0103 interac\u0163ionezi cu oameni cu care nu vrei s\u0103 interac\u0163ionezi. Ideea de baz\u0103 e c\u0103 ei au dreptul la fericirea lor, a\u015fa cum ai \u015fi tu dreptul la a ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>P\u0103i da, dar Dumnezeu&#8230; <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai vorbit tu personal cu Dumnezeu, s\u0103 \u015ftii ce p\u0103rere are? C\u0103 dac\u0103 nu, intermediarii mai abereaz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>P\u0103i da, dar Sodoma \u015fi Gomora&#8230; <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen acel text, era vorba de ni\u015fte desfr\u00e2na\u0163i care inten\u0163ionau s\u0103-l VIOLEZE pe Lot \u015eI pe fiicele lui. Sex cu for\u0163a. \u015ei gay \u015fi straight. Ideea care l-a sup\u0103rat pe Dumnezeu era aspectul de viol. \u015ei gay \u015fi straight. Dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 crede\u0163i, citi\u0163i pasajul \u0103la din Biblie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>P\u0103i da, dar e anormal. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anormal e s\u0103 umile\u015fti \u015fi s\u0103 discriminezi oameni. \u00cen rest, atrac\u0163ia fa\u0163\u0103 de acela\u015fi sex e prezent\u0103 la majoritatea speciilor de animale. \u00cen rest, ce \u0163i-e \u0163ie normal te prive\u015fte strict pe tine \u015fi nu are de ce s\u0103 afecteze vie\u0163ile altora. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau dac\u0103 o serie de drepturi sunt negate pe baz\u0103 de orientare sexual\u0103, propun \u015fi ajustarea obliga\u0163iilor. De ce s\u0103 pl\u0103te\u015fti acelea\u015fi impozite, c\u00e2nd nu ai acelea\u015fi drepturi? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acest site \u00ee\u015fi poate continua activitatea doar cu sus\u0163inerea cititorilor.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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