{"id":24996,"date":"2023-05-29T01:10:40","date_gmt":"2023-05-28T22:10:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=24996"},"modified":"2023-05-29T01:10:43","modified_gmt":"2023-05-28T22:10:43","slug":"perioada-de-glorie-si-zidul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/perioada-de-glorie-si-zidul\/","title":{"rendered":"Perioada de glorie \u015fi zidul"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Vin periodic gigei \u00eendoctrina\u0163i de Tate \u015fi similarii s\u0103 m\u0103 plictiseasc\u0103 masiv cu dou\u0103 inep\u0163ii: perioada de glorie a femeii, adic\u0103, v\u00e2rsta c\u00e2t timp o fug\u0103resc masculii \u015fi vor s\u0103 i-o strecoare, \u015fi zidul, adic\u0103 momentul \u00een care \u00eenceteaz\u0103 masculii s\u0103 te fug\u0103reasc\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 vrea s\u0103 \u0163i-o strecoare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unii abordeaz\u0103 problema la modul “fear mongering”, adic\u0103, pentru gigelul care \u0163ip\u0103 c\u0103 nu \u015ftie englez\u0103, instigare la team\u0103. \u015etii c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi o s\u0103 fii b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi ur\u00e2t\u0103, \u015fi atunci s\u0103 vezi c\u0103 nu o s\u0103 vrem s\u0103 te fug\u0103rim \u015fi s\u0103 \u0163i-o strecur\u0103m, \u015fi ce na\u015fpa o s\u0103 fie. Dar de ce o s\u0103 fie na\u015fpa? P\u0103i cum, dac\u0103 nu vrem s\u0103 te f, o s\u0103 fie na\u015fpa. Na\u015fpa pentru cine? Pentru tine. Nu vrei tu s\u0103 m\u0103 la\u015fi pe mine s\u0103 decid ce e na\u015fpa pentru mine \u015fi ce nu? Nu, c\u0103 noi \u015ftim mai bine ce vor femeile \u015fi nu recunosc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu, nu \u015fti\u0163i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dintre toate minciunile pe care le propag\u0103 Tate \u015fi similarii s\u0103-i mulg\u0103 pe frustra\u0163i pe bani, asta e cea mai toxic\u0103. Cea \u00een care te minte c\u0103 femeia nu \u015ftie ce vrea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau c\u0103 femeia pune interesul b\u0103rbatului pe locul I, \u015fi perioada de glorie pentru ea e cea \u00een care vor mul\u0163i, apoi oops, vine zidul \u015fi pleac\u0103 gloria. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sincer, ca s\u0103 ajung\u0103 cineva pe acel loc I pentru mine, trebuie s\u0103 munceasc\u0103 muuuuuuuuuuuuuuult, s\u0103-mi dovedeasc\u0103 faptul c\u0103 merit\u0103. \u00cen rest, I’m good. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al\u0163ii vin cu tonul nihilist – fatalist, tsss, \u0163i-a trecut perioada de glorie, ai trecut zidul, de azi nu mai vrem s\u0103 te f. Dar pentru mine, vestea e superb\u0103. Z\u0103u? Nu mai vre\u0163i? Asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu-mi mai trimite\u0163i mesaje private inepte, c\u0103-mi comenta\u0163i on topic articolele \u015fi c\u0103 nu mai face\u0163i pe coco\u015fii chiar \u015fi \u00een domenii la care nu v\u0103 pricepe\u0163i? Sign me up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu nici c\u00e2nd m\u0103 \u00eembrac, nici c\u00e2nd m\u0103 machiez nu o fac cu g\u00e2ndul la b\u0103rba\u0163i. \u015etiu deja c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii sunt fiin\u0163e simple, care taxeaz\u0103 orice tunsoare mai inventiv\u0103 cu “Ce m\u0103celar te-a masacrat”, orice machiaj mai creativ cu “Cine te-a b\u0103tut?” \u015fi orice outfit mai ie\u015fit din tipare cu “De unde a ap\u0103rut nebuna asta”. De aceea nici nu m\u0103 prea atrag b\u0103rba\u0163ii. Mul\u0163i dintre ei au o g\u00e2ndire simplist\u0103 \u015fi reductiv\u0103, care \u00eemi face clitorisul s\u0103 moar\u0103 pe loc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd m\u0103 \u00eembrac, m\u0103 machiez \u015fi m\u0103 tund neconven\u0163ional o fac 1) pentru mine, s\u0103 m\u0103 excite ce v\u0103d \u00een oglind\u0103 \u015fi 2) pentru femeile inteligente din jurul meu, care apreciaz\u0103 stilul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perioada mea de glorie a \u00eenceput \u00een jur de 30 de ani, c\u00e2nd am \u00eencetat definitiv s\u0103-mi fac griji legat de ceea ce spun gigeii \u015fi societatea \u015fi mi-am clarificat ce e important pentru mine. Iar zidul e un mit. Cunosc femei de 60 \u015fi de 70 de ani care \u00eenc\u0103 sunt \u00een form\u0103 maxim\u0103, pentru c\u0103 li se rupe p\u0103s\u0103rica legat de ceea ce cred frustra\u0163ii \u015fi se desf\u0103\u015foar\u0103 cum vor ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A, c\u0103 nu vine gigel s\u0103 te cheme \u00eentr-o croazier\u0103 prin Mediterana pe banii lui dac\u0103 ai 37 de ani? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

OK. Dar dac\u0103-\u0163i folose\u015fti timpul \u00een mod smart, te duci tu \u00eentr-o croazier\u0103 prin Mediterana pe banii t\u0103i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Diferen\u0163a c\u00e2nd pl\u0103te\u015fti tu este c\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 te supraveghezi perpetuu, s\u0103 fii mereu cu autocontrolul pornit, s\u0103 nu te dezaprobe gigel c\u0103 hei, el pl\u0103te\u015fte \u015fi dac\u0103 \u00eel enervezi, te treze\u015fti debarcat\u0103 pe o insul\u0103 pustie, doar cu hainele de pe tine. Diferen\u0163a c\u00e2nd pl\u0103te\u015fti tu este c\u0103 faci fix ce vrea mu\u015fchiul t\u0103u, cum vrea mu\u015fchiul t\u0103u, \u015fi aia e adev\u0103rata libertate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei faptul c\u0103 dup\u0103 “zid” nu m\u0103 mai agaseaz\u0103 gigei cu mesaje private insistente \u015fi iritante? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu mai vin gigei s\u0103 fac\u0103 pe b\u0103rb\u0103tu\u015fii \u00eenfoia\u0163i, \u00een speran\u0163a c\u0103 m\u0103 impresioneaz\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

SIGN ME UP. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unde plm e zidul \u0103la, s\u0103-l sar naibii o dat\u0103. S\u0103 m\u0103 trateze \u015fi pe mine oamenii ca pe o fiin\u0163\u0103 uman\u0103, nu ca pe o bucat\u0103 de carne. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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