{"id":25027,"date":"2023-06-09T09:45:29","date_gmt":"2023-06-09T06:45:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25027"},"modified":"2023-06-09T09:45:32","modified_gmt":"2023-06-09T06:45:32","slug":"adio-stephan-pelger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/adio-stephan-pelger\/","title":{"rendered":"Adio, Stephan Pelger!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ieri, c\u00e2nd am auzit c\u0103 Stephan Pelger a ales s\u0103 ne p\u0103r\u0103seasc\u0103, inima mi s-a f\u0103cut mic\u0103 \u0219i pustie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu, nu am fost prieteni apropia\u021bi. Sunt un blogger prea m\u0103runt, comparativ cu vedetele pe care le \u00eembr\u0103ca el. Sunt o prezen\u021b\u0103 prea b\u0103ie\u021beasc\u0103, comparativ cu zei\u021bele hiperfeminine \u0219i ultrasenzuale care-i erau muze. Iar eu, c\u00e2nd respect un om, am o form\u0103 de discre\u021bie. Nu m\u0103 bag aiurea \u00een seam\u0103, \u0219i nu insist lung, stupid \u0219i iritant, ca un cer\u0219etor de aten\u021bie de pe Facebook \u00een sec\u021biunea de comentarii a unei dudui care nu-i r\u0103spunde, pentru c\u0103 nu are ce s\u0103-i r\u0103spund\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar realitatea e c\u0103 Stephan Pelger a fost un izvor de frumuse\u021be \u0219i creativitate, un artist al culorilor, al texturilor, al unduirii irezistibile a valurilor de material, \u0219i, odat\u0103 cu plecarea lui, se stinge o lum\u00e2nare a artei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A fost comentat mereu r\u0103ut\u0103cios de homofobi, care s-au legat de feminitatea lui vizibil\u0103, flamboaiant\u0103 – ghinion, b\u0103ie\u021bii mei, arta presupune feminitate, iar feminitatea nu e totuna cu a avea un vagin. De aceea profit mereu de faptul c\u0103 e pride month, s\u0103 o repet din nou \u0219i din nou: oamenii, indiferent de orientarea lor sexual\u0103, SUNT OAMENI. Oamenii, indiferent de identitatea lor de gen, SUNT OAMENI. Oamenii, indiferent de disponibilitatea lor de a se conforma la preconcep\u021biile noastre legate de un sex sau cel\u0103lalt, SUNT OAMENI. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar un artist trebuie judecat dup\u0103 frumuse\u021bea \u0219i complexitatea crea\u021biei. Nu dup\u0103 cum corespunde – sau nu corespunde – nevoilor noastre de a tufe ceva. C\u00e2nd o vom \u00een\u021belege pe asta, vom dep\u0103\u0219i mentalitatea asta sinistr\u0103 de ev mediu, care ne face s\u0103 ne persecut\u0103m semenii pe criterii care NU au leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu ceea ce \u0219tiu s\u0103 fac\u0103, cu caracterul \u0219i cu inteligen\u021ba lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stephan Pelger a fost un creator \u0219i un vizionar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i acest om a ales s\u0103-\u0219i pun\u0103 cap\u0103t zilelor. Nu \u0219tim de ce, \u0219i mai mult ca sigur nu vom afla. Probabil c\u0103 a fost o pic\u0103tur\u0103 care a umplut \u00een cele din urm\u0103 paharul. Aleg s\u0103 nu-i \u00eentreb pe cunoscu\u021bii comuni ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat, pentru c\u0103 e perfect ok s\u0103 admi\u021bi c\u0103 nu te privesc treburile altora \u0219i, chit c\u0103 social media ne \u00eendeamn\u0103 s\u0103 ne d\u0103m cu impresia mai mult sau mai pu\u021bin pertinent\u0103 despre absolut orice, uneori e bine s\u0103 nu ratezi extraordinara oportunitate de a nu o face. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spun doar c\u0103 pl\u00e2ng din toat\u0103 inima plecarea unui om care a contribuit la frumuse\u021bea lumii cu fiecare \u00eempuns\u0103tur\u0103 de ac. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i v\u0103 \u00eendemn pe to\u021bi cititorii mei s\u0103 nu v\u0103 re\u021bine\u021bi din a fi \u0219i din a crea arta care v\u0103 pulseaz\u0103 prin vene, \u0219i pe care o tot am\u00e2na\u021bi din cauza greut\u0103\u021bilor vie\u021bii. Lua\u021bi orele alea de canto. Merge\u021bi s\u0103 da\u021bi la actorie. Face\u021bi cursul \u0103la de scriere creativ\u0103. Explora\u021bi frumuse\u021bea din voi. Ea v\u0103 conduce spre lumin\u0103, spre inspira\u021bie. V\u0103 \u021bine departe de ur\u0103, de invidie, de ranchiun\u0103, de toate tr\u0103irile negative care v\u0103 \u00eemping spre abis. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u0103 datora\u021bi vou\u0103 \u00een\u0219iv\u0103 frumuse\u021be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 via\u021ba e scurt\u0103 \u0219i merit\u0103 tr\u0103it\u0103 autentic. Nu \u0219tii niciodat\u0103 c\u00e2nd vine o secund\u0103 de ira\u021bional, c\u0103reia nu-i po\u021bi rezista. Iar dac\u0103 vine – ni se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla tuturor – m\u0103car \u0219tii c\u0103 ai tr\u0103it \u0219i ai creat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ieri, c\u00e2nd am auzit c\u0103 Stephan Pelger a ales s\u0103 ne p\u0103r\u0103seasc\u0103, inima mi s-a f\u0103cut mic\u0103 \u0219i pustie. Nu, nu am fost prieteni...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":25028,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25027","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/stephan-pelger.jpg?fit=768%2C960&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25027","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25027"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25027\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25030,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25027\/revisions\/25030"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25028"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25027"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25027"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25027"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}