{"id":25104,"date":"2023-07-03T07:56:41","date_gmt":"2023-07-03T04:56:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25104"},"modified":"2023-07-03T07:56:44","modified_gmt":"2023-07-03T04:56:44","slug":"cum-stii-daca-ai-o-nevasta-abuziva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cum-stii-daca-ai-o-nevasta-abuziva\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum \u0219tii dac\u0103 ai o nevast\u0103 abuziv\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ieri mi-a scris un domn. Uite care e faza, scrii numai despre b\u0103rba\u021bi abuzivi \u0219i nimic despre femei abuzive. Boss, e un  blog feminin, e  normal ca aria mea primordial\u0103 de subiecte s\u0103 fie problemele femeilor. Sunt jde bloguri de b\u0103rba\u0163i \u015fi nu v\u0103d pe nimeni pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd \u00een subsol c\u0103 nu se ocup\u0103 de nevoile femeilor. Dar, totodat\u0103, e un blog sus\u021binut de cititori. Bag\u0103 o dona\u021bie \u0219i m\u00e2ine ai subiectul. Next thing; jbang 100 de euro. Bravo, Bobi\u021b\u0103, apreciez c\u0103 nu cau\u021bi s\u0103 m\u0103 sclavage\u0219ti moca \u0219i s\u0103 te dai tot tu abuzat. C\u00e2nd tu e\u015fti corect, \u015fi eu sunt corect\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prin urmare, iat\u0103 cum st\u0103 treaba cu abuzul la feminin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Voi \u00eencepe prin a preciza c\u0103, de multe ori, ceea ce b\u0103rba\u021bii percep drept cic\u0103leal\u0103 e o problem\u0103 legitim\u0103 pe care n-au rezolvat-o. <\/strong>Exemplu. Ea face curat \u00een  toat\u0103 casa. \u00cei traseaz\u0103 \u0219i lui o sarcin\u0103 onorific\u0103. Complet irelevant\u0103 pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 efortul depus de ea, dar a\u0219a se simte \u0219i ea oarecum r\u0103spl\u0103tit\u0103. &#8220;Gogule, du \u0219i tu gunoiul&#8221;. El nu r\u0103spunde. &#8220;Gogule, am zis s\u0103 duci gunoiul&#8221;. Nimic. &#8220;Gogule, \u00een mor\u021bii m\u0103-tii de dobitoc sinistru, am zis s\u0103 duci gunoiul, f****te-n  bot de loaz\u0103 inutil\u0103&#8221;. &#8220;Vai, ce cic\u0103litoare e\u015fti.&#8221; Uhm, nu. Dac\u0103 evaluai situa\u0163ia din prima printr-o lentil\u0103 a corectitudinii: aia \u015fmotruie\u015fte de diminea\u0163\u0103, tot ce ai tu de f\u0103cut e s\u0103 duci gunoiul, prin urmare zici mersi zeilor c\u0103 ai al\u0103turi o femeie harnic\u0103 \u015fi \u00eel duci, nu se ajungea la mor\u0163i de mam\u0103. Dar mul\u0163i gigei nu au c\u00e2tu\u015fi de pu\u0163in sentimentul c\u0103 datoreaz\u0103 \u015fi ei s\u0103 pun\u0103 osul la treab\u0103 m\u0103car de form\u0103. S-au \u00eensurat s\u0103 fie slug\u0103ri\u0163i. Ceea ce e gre\u015fit. Vrei o femeie care s\u0103 nu te cic\u0103leasc\u0103 s\u0103 duci gunoiul? Ia-\u0163i menajer\u0103 pl\u0103tit\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mul\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i se vaiet\u0103 c\u0103 nu se simt aprecia\u0163i, dar nici nu fac nimic demn de apreciere. Pentru ce s\u0103 fii apreciat? Pentru c\u0103 exi\u015fti? \u015ei balega din drum exist\u0103, nu e meritul ei. E meritul calului care a trecut pe acolo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trec\u00e2nd peste astfel de situa\u0163ii, exist\u0103 droaie de femei abuzive \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163i vulnerabili. Numai c\u0103 abuzul feminin e ceva mai subtil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. Umilirea <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vasilica se m\u0103rit\u0103 cu Gigel nesilit\u0103 de nimeni. Apoi din idiot, prost \u015fi bou nu-l scoate, \u015fi-l compar\u0103 cu restul boifrenjilor ei, perfec\u0163i to\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Inclusiv c\u00e2nd Gigel nu face nimic gre\u015fit, dar simte Vasilica s\u0103 fie scorpie cu el, cam cum bate b\u0103rbatul abuziv: a\u015fa, preventiv. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 te crede at\u00e2t de idiot, prost \u015fi bou, de ce nu te p\u0103r\u0103se\u015fte?  Pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti un idiot util. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O femeie care iube\u015fte un b\u0103rbat nu va c\u0103uta s\u0103-l umileasc\u0103, iar dac\u0103 va avea obiec\u0163ii, se vor referi la fapte \u015fi situa\u0163ii concrete. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Manipularea <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centr-o rela\u0163ie normal\u0103, fiecare contribuie la decizii \u00eentr-o mai mic\u0103 sau mai mare m\u0103sur\u0103. \u00centr-o rela\u0163ie manipulatoare, \u0163i se dicteaz\u0103 pur \u015fi simplu ce s\u0103 crezi, ce s\u0103 g\u00e2nde\u015fti, cum s\u0103 procedezi. C\u0103 dac\u0103 nu, vei b3l! pwl4 \u00een moduri creative \u015fi ustur\u0103toare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sunt mul\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i toxici \u015fi manipulatori, \u015fi sunt multe femei toxice \u015fi manipulatoare. Cum \u00ee\u0163i dai seama c\u0103 e\u015fti manipulat? C\u00e2nd e\u015fti perpetuu for\u0163at s\u0103 faci lucruri care nu te reprezint\u0103 \u015fi care nu-\u0163i aduc bucurie, \u015fi le faci de gura nevestei, e\u015fti manipulat. C\u00e2nd te ui\u0163i tem\u0103tor la nevast\u0103, ca Will Smith la Jada, \u00eenainte s\u0103 sari la b\u0103taie ca prostul, strict pentru a evita scandalul de mai \u00eencolo, e\u015fti manipulat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei nu m\u0103 refer la co\u015ful de gunoi din intro, ci la senza\u0163ia c\u0103 \u00eentreaga via\u0163\u0103 \u0163i-a fost r\u0103pit\u0103, iar telecomanda e la ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. Exploatarea financiar\u0103 <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E normal s\u0103 contribui la cheltuielile casei \u015fi ale cuplului. Dac\u0103 e\u015fti genul gigel fan patriarhat, e normal s\u0103 contribui partea lupului, pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 domini, \u00eencepi prin a domina facturile. Nici dracu nu se las\u0103 dominat de un zg\u00e2rc\u0103 penibil care-\u015fi m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 de sub unghii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deci, da, cotizeaz\u0103, c\u00e2nd e\u015fti \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie. Nu e\u015fti la hotel, ci \u00een casa ta, \u015fi chiar dac\u0103 erai la hotel, tot venea nota de plat\u0103 la check out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei atunci, ce e abuziv? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Abuziv e sentimentul c\u0103 to\u0163i, absolut to\u0163i banii t\u0103i se scurg prin ea \u015fi c\u0103 nu ai niciun fel de control asupra propriilor venituri. C\u0103 e\u015fti un copil t\u00e2mpit care-\u015fi pred\u0103 cuminte salariul integral, apoi i se face criz\u0103 de isterie pentru o sear\u0103 \u00een ora\u015f, de zici c\u0103 ai 16 ani \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i negociezi o sear\u0103 la club cu m\u0103-ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Orice adult, mai ales unul care munce\u015fte, are dreptul la un mic buget de pl\u0103ceri personale din propriul salariu. Asta  e diferen\u0163a \u00eentre om liber \u015fi sclav. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. \u015eantajul emo\u0163ional <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aici, din nou, exist\u0103 a\u015ftept\u0103ri rezonabile s\u0103 \u0163ii cont de nevoile nevestei \u015fi s\u0103 nu ai impresia c\u0103 \u0163i-ai comandat mireas\u0103 prin po\u015ft\u0103 dintre bananieri. Nu iei decizii de capul t\u0103u f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eentrebi \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ajunge\u021bi la un numitor comun. Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 ai control 100% pe deciziile tale, faci ca mine \u015fi stai singur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Accentul \u00een paragraful precedent este pe &#8220;numitor comun&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eantajul emo\u0163ional e \u0103la care-\u0163i cere zi de zi s\u0103 faci mun\u0163i de compromisuri, mult dincolo de demnitatea ta, s\u0103-i demonstrezi c\u0103 o iube\u015fti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 auzi nonstop &#8220;dac\u0103 m\u0103  iube\u015fti, faci x, y \u015fi z&#8221;, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 e\u0219ti \u015fantajat emo\u0163ional. Dac\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 dovede\u015fti zi de zi c\u0103 e\u015fti cel mai iubitor, \u015fi m\u00e2ine e ca \u015fi cum n-ai fi dovedit nimic, \u015fi o iei de la cap\u0103t, e\u015fti \u0163inta unui interminabil \u015fantaj emo\u0163ional. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5. Gelozia morbid\u0103 <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un nivel moderat \u015fi glume\u0163 de gelozie e fun. &#8220;Dac\u0103 se mai uit\u0103 aia la tine a\u015fa, o iau de ciuf&#8221;, spus pe un ton juc\u0103u\u015f, \u00eel poate face s\u0103 se simt\u0103 dorit \u015fi iubit. Multor oameni le place confirmarea asta c\u0103 partenerul observ\u0103 al\u0163i poten\u0163iali pe\u0163itori. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar exist\u0103 gelozia patologic\u0103. Cea \u00een care te acuz\u0103 perpetuu c\u0103 o \u00een\u015feli, de\u015fi nu are dovezi, \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i ia la analiz\u0103 stalinist\u0103 fiecare gest m\u0103runt la care nici nu te g\u00e2ndeai. Femeile au un sim\u0163 al observa\u0163iei amplificat, prin urmare, resurse infinite de analiz\u0103 stalinist\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd te \u015ftii nevinovat, dar ajungi \u00een punctul \u00een care dai unfollow pe Facebook Irinei Margareta Nistor, doar s\u0103 nu zbiere nebuna la tine c\u0103 ai ceva cu vestita doamn\u0103 a filmului rom\u00e2nesc, e\u015fti victima unui abuz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>6. \u00ce\u0163i vampirizeaz\u0103 tot timpul <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Timpul petrecut \u00eempreun\u0103 e important. Cimenteaz\u0103 \u015fi dezvolt\u0103 rela\u0163ia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar sunt persoanele care, pur \u015fi simplu, \u00ee\u0163i halesc fiecare secund\u0103 liber\u0103, \u00ee\u0163i fac cel mai strict program pe orice minut din via\u0163a ta &#8211; \u015fi nu m\u0103 refer la situa\u0163ii speciale, gen copil nou-n\u0103scut, unde e treab\u0103 nonstop \u015fi nu ai de ales. C\u00e2nd nu ave\u0163i copii sau obliga\u0163ii care s\u0103 presupun\u0103 efort sus\u0163inut nonstop, ci, pur \u015fi simplu, nu se simte ea bine s\u0103 te vad\u0103 f\u0103c\u00e2nd o chestie care n-o serve\u015fte pe ea direct, c\u00e2nd \u00eei spui de dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni c\u0103 e un meci la care vrei s\u0103 te ui\u0163i, dar exact \u00een mijlocul lui, vrea s\u0103 te trimit\u0103 nu \u015ftiu unde s\u0103 rezolvi nu \u015ftiu ce, e abuz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se pl\u00e2ngea o proast\u0103 pe un forum c\u0103 s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 diminea\u0163a, so\u0163ul s-a oferit s\u0103 fac\u0103 curat cu ea, au terminat repede, dar a descoperit ulterior c\u0103 dup\u0103-amiaza avea meci de fotbal. Au intervenit alte femei: b\u0103i, pisi, dac\u0103 a f\u0103cut partea lui la treburile casei, care e problema dac\u0103 vrea s\u0103 vad\u0103 un meci? Problema era c\u0103 ea ar fi vrut s\u0103-l frece la icre toat\u0103 s\u00e2mb\u0103ta, indiferent de stadiul treburilor din cas\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 un om nu-\u0163i las\u0103 spa\u0163iu personal, acel om e abuziv. Pur \u015fi simplu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>6bis: Te izoleaz\u0103 de familie \u015fi de prieteni <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prieteniile se mai filtreaz\u0103 c\u00e2nd intri \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie. Dac\u0103 ai un loser drog\u0103l\u0103u \u00een ga\u015fc\u0103, probabil c\u0103 gagic\u0103-ta o s\u0103-l cam u\u015fuie, s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 nu te vede \u015fi pe tine cu seringa \u00een ven\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar rela\u0163iile tpxice sunt acelea \u00een care gagica are mereu nemul\u0163umiri legate de familia ta, de cercul t\u0103u de prieteni, de toat\u0103 lumea din via\u0163a ta, \u015fi bag\u0103 str\u00e2mbe pentru a te \u00eendep\u0103rta de ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sigur, exist\u0103 \u015fi familii nasoale, care obiectiv o trateaz\u0103 insuportabil pe nevasta fiului, dar diferen\u0163a e c\u0103 o nevast\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 la cap se retrage ea, nu te for\u0163eaz\u0103 s\u0103 te retragi \u015fi tu din interac\u0163iune. Pentru c\u0103 sunt p\u0103rin\u0163ii t\u0103i, \u015fi nu ai de ce s\u0103 renun\u0163i la ei pentru o rela\u0163ie, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>6 al doilea bis: Instig\u0103 mereu certuri \u00eentre tine \u0219i familie \/ prieteni<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aici, Gigel s-a s\u0103turat deja de bisuri \u0219i comenteaz\u0103: Auzi, f\u0103, da&#8217; de ce nu le spui simplu 7 \u015fi 8. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">R\u0103spuns: Pentru c\u0103 mie \u00eemi place s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc periculos \u015fi complicat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Revenind la articol: o versiune a nevestei care \u00ee\u0163i alung\u0103 familia \u015fi prietenii din jur e nevasta care bag\u0103 mereu str\u00e2mbe. Le zice lor o t\u00e2mpenie pe care ai spus-o tu la nervi, reorchestrat\u0103 \u015fi reinterpretat\u0103 pentru stimularea scandalului. \u00ce\u0163i face \u0163ie dram\u0103 din ce a auzit de la vecine c\u0103 a zis m\u0103-ta. \u015ei practic, zi de zi ave\u0163i \u00een cas\u0103 reality tv, mai pu\u0163in camerele care s\u0103 filmeze \u015fi cecul la final de lun\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Conflictuala se hr\u0103ne\u015fte din nervii, furia \u015fi frustr\u0103rile celor din jur. \u015ei \u00een timp ce tu e\u015fti ocupat s\u0103 te cer\u0163i, ea face tot ce vrea, unde vrea, cu cine vrea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>7. Abuzul fizic <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Empowermentul feminin a adus rezultate bune pentru carierele, banii, vie\u0163ile, femeilor. Dar cum empowermentul se adreseaz\u0103 \u015fi idioatelor agresive, unele au preluat toate defectele gigeilor. Prin urmare, dac\u0103 o discu\u0163ie nu decurge cum are ea chef, \u00eencepe b\u0103taia. \u015ei da, \u00een mod normal, o femeie e mai slab\u0103 fizic dec\u00e2t un b\u0103rbat, \u00een schimb, o turbat\u0103 \u00een plin\u0103 furie are achievement unlocked la ni\u015fte for\u0163e pe care femeia normal\u0103 nu le are. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da, am v\u0103zut b\u0103rba\u0163i fug\u0103ri\u0163i pe holul blocului de vasilici isterice cu c\u00e2te un obiect contondent \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi da, e abuz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen concluzie, abuzul practicat de femei e \u00een 90% din cazuri mai pu\u0163in evident \u015fi mult mai subtil. 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Uite care e faza, scrii numai despre b\u0103rba\u021bi abuzivi \u0219i nimic despre femei abuzive. 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