Fals. Feministele ur\u0103sc pro\u0219tii \u0219i gher\u021boii. Din motive extrem de simple: nimeni nu are de ce s\u0103 accepte c\u0103 e mai prejos de altcineva strict pe baz\u0103 de de\u021binere de anumite p\u0103r\u021bi anatomice. Da, b\u0103rba\u021bii au mai mult\u0103 for\u021b\u0103 fizic\u0103, dar femeile vin tare din urm\u0103 cu implicarea total\u0103 \u00een ceea ce fac, inteligen\u021ba \u00een multe cazuri superioar\u0103 – b\u0103rba\u021bii se laud\u0103 c\u0103 sunt genul ra\u021bional, dar 99% din r\u0103zboaie au fost pornite de ei, taman pentru c\u0103 testosteronul \u0219i ra\u021biunea n-au nimic \u00een comun. \u0218i cu abilitatea de a comunica eficient. \u0218i cu g\u00e2ndirea practic\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Feministele ur\u0103sc pro\u0219tii \u0219i gher\u021boii pentru c\u0103 sunt insuportabili. Dar se \u00een\u021beleg perfect cu b\u0103rba\u021bii de bun sim\u021b care nu \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 le agaseze aiurea \u0219i care \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 nu po\u021bi pretinde respect dac\u0103 nu \u00eencepi prin a-l oferi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Feministele le invidiaz\u0103 de fapt pe cele m\u0103ritate, dar nu recunosc. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Chiar nu. OK, sunt c\u00e2teva rela\u021bii cu adev\u0103rat frumoase, dar acolo nu invidiez femeia c\u0103 e m\u0103ritat\u0103, ci armonia perfect\u0103 dintre oameni. \u0218i nici m\u0103car n-o invidiez, ci o respect ca atare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen rest, sunt at\u00e2\u021bia gigei care se g\u00e2ndesc doar la ei, care v\u0103d mariajul doar ca pe un mod de a ob\u021bine munc\u0103 gratuit\u0103 de la altcineva, care vor doar s\u0103 fac\u0103 reguli altei persoane, \u00eenc\u00e2t \u00eemi dau seama c\u00e2t de pl\u0103cut\u0103 e o singur\u0103tate echilibrat\u0103 din primele cinci minute. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nimic nu e mai na\u0219pa dec\u00e2t s\u0103 fii femeia care nu \u0219tie unde s\u0103 fug\u0103 dintr-un c\u0103min insuportabil \u0219i abuziv. A\u0219 prefera oric\u00e2nd s\u0103 locuiesc singur\u0103 \u00eentr-o pe\u0219ter\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 3. Feministele ur\u0103sc copiii <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Chiar nu. Ne plac copiii. Doar c\u0103 vrem s\u0103-i avem c\u00e2nd e ok pentru noi, c\u00e2nd suntem stabile financiar \u0219i nu devenim dependente de diverse conjuncturi – p\u0103rin\u021bi toxici, loc de munc\u0103 toxic – doar pentru a asigura o p\u00e2ine. Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pas\u0103 s\u0103 oferi respectivului copil condi\u021bii decente, iei \u00een calcul ce ai de oferit \u0219i nu-l sloboze\u0219ti \u00een lume pentru aloca\u021bie sau pentru a mulge aten\u021bia unui gogu pintenogu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 4. Feministele vor s\u0103 fac\u0103 numai avorturi <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Asta e o t\u00e2mpenie sinistr\u0103, derivat\u0103 direct din interpretarea r\u0103u-voitoare a pozi\u021biei pro choice. Garantarea dreptului de avort pentru o femeie care, \u00een momentul \u0103la, nu e preg\u0103tit\u0103 de tot ce presupune un copil nu e totuna cu a r\u0103m\u00e2ne gravid\u0103 lun\u0103 de lun\u0103 doar ca s\u0103 dai bani \u00een plus ginecologului pentru o traum\u0103 adi\u021bional\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu, de exemplu, nu am avut nici un avort. Ever. M\u0103 p\u0103zesc de sarcin\u0103 cu mix de mijloace. Dar a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 e \u00een continuare o lume liber\u0103, \u00een care via\u021ba mea e mai important\u0103 dec\u00e2t un eventual bo\u021b de celule care a ap\u0103rut \u00een uterul meu c\u00e2nd nu e ok pentru mine s\u0103-mi asum 18 ani de job fulltime nepl\u0103tit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 5. Feministele vor s\u0103 fie promiscue <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e2t de ironic\u0103 e asta c\u00e2nd vine de la un gigel care h\u0103r\u021buie\u0219te cu mesaje private sute de femei, poate-poate pic\u0103 ceva. Ar vrea \u0219i el s\u0103 fie promiscuu, dar nu-i ofer\u0103 nimeni o \u0219ans\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Da, feministele \u00ee\u0219i apreciaz\u0103 propriul corp \u0219i le place s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 senza\u021bia minunat\u0103 a unui orgasm cu strig\u0103turi, dar asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 ar pierde timpul cu orice ratat. Trebuie s\u0103 merite deranjul. \u0218i cam asta \u00eei oftic\u0103 pe p*lifrici. Ideea c\u0103 cineva \u00eei vede drept vai vie\u021bi\u0219oara lor inutil\u0103 \u0219i de rahat. Cineva care nu se crede inferior by default \u0219i care nu consider\u0103 c\u0103 e o onoare s\u0103 le fac\u0103 un sandvi\u0219.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n 6. Feministele sunt obsedate de bani <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen general, gigeii latr\u0103 isteric preferin\u021ba unei femei pentru o carier\u0103, dar s\u0103 privim obiectiv lucrurile: cariera nu pleac\u0103 nic\u0103ieri, nu se uit\u0103 \u00eentr-o diminea\u021b\u0103 \u00een ochii t\u0103i s\u0103-\u021bi spun\u0103 c\u0103 nu te mai iube\u0219te. Iar investi\u021bia \u00eentr-o carier\u0103 vine cu reputa\u021bie profesional\u0103 bun\u0103, m\u0103riri salariale, bonusuri \u0219i al\u021bi factori motivan\u021bi, pe c\u00e2nd investi\u021bia \u00eentr-un gigel vine cu misecuvenism \u0219i c\u00e2\u0219tigare la belciuge. <\/p>\n\n\n\n “OK, dar n-ai contrazis c\u0103 sunte\u0163i obsedate de bani”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n To\u0163i ne dorim stabilitate financiar\u0103, indiferent de gen. Femeile trag mai tare de bani pentru c\u0103 munca lor e considerat\u0103 mai frecvent ceva cuvenit de la sine, \u015fi dac\u0103 vezi c\u0103 r\u0103splata nu vine \u015fi c\u0103 gicu are mereu sentimentul c\u0103 i se cuvin chestii f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ofere nimic, la un moment dat renun\u0163i la modestie p\u0103guboas\u0103 \u015fi \u00eenve\u0163i s\u0103 ceri ceea ce meri\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen rest, care \u00eemi bate c\u00e2mpii c\u0103 femeile sunt obsedate de bani, dar d\u0103 like la poze de tipe cosmetizate, epilate, machiate, e invitat s\u0103 m\u0103 pupe cald \u015fi tandru la ochiul c\u0103prui al dragostei noastre. Nu-\u0163i plac materialistele, dar te ui\u0163i numai la cele care arat\u0103 expensive. #mar\u015fdreq. Procedurile estetice cost\u0103 bani. Mul\u0163i bani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 7. Feministele nu vor s\u0103 stea la crati\u0163\u0103 <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Logic. Muncim opt ore, venim rupte-n clon\u0163 de la munc\u0103, sper c\u0103 ai plasat din timp comanda aia pe Tazz<\/strong><\/a>. C\u00e2t timp muncim parte-n parte cu tine, nu o s\u0103 ai tupeul s\u0103 pretinzi s\u0103 trecem la cur\u0103\u0163at ceap\u0103, \u00een timp ce tu stai cu p*la-n sus c\u0103 e\u015fti obosit. \u015ei noi suntem, cu diferen\u0163a c\u0103 noi nu suntem genderul privilegiat care se treze\u015fte s\u0103 \u0163ipe la al\u0163ii c\u0103 vrea un sandvi\u015f. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 8. Feministele sunt ur\u00e2te. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Unele da, altele nu, exact ca nevestele casnice. Dar feministele nu v\u00e2neaz\u0103 un cuc ca o casnic\u0103 \u015fi nu le prea pas\u0103 ce crede cucul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i plac opiniile ferme, sus\u0163ine site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce le-a f\u0103tat mintea<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Flamewar-ul \u00eenc\u0103 \u021bine pe Facebook, la subiectul despre Sorana. \u0218i nimic nu m\u0103 amuz\u0103 mai intens dec\u00e2t droaia de gigei aber\u00e2nd despre feministe. 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