{"id":25166,"date":"2023-07-25T00:33:58","date_gmt":"2023-07-24T21:33:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25166"},"modified":"2023-07-25T00:34:01","modified_gmt":"2023-07-24T21:34:01","slug":"sunt-acceptabili-pantalonii-scurti-la-birou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/sunt-acceptabili-pantalonii-scurti-la-birou\/","title":{"rendered":"Sunt acceptabili pantalonii scur\u021bi la birou?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

St\u0103team de vorb\u0103 zilele trecute cu un b\u0103iat. Respectivul b\u0103iat schimbase recent un job. Un job mai bine pl\u0103tit, dar unde i se impunea o \u021binut\u0103 formal\u0103 \u0219i \u00een timpul celei mai caniculare veri, cu un job unde lua ceva la modul trei sferturi din vechiul salariu \u0219i venea la birou cam cum binevoia mu\u0219chiul lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Care era mai exact problema? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103 nu vorbim de o drag queen care-\u0219i dorea s\u0103 vin\u0103 la munc\u0103 \u00een stilul: Mami, de ce nu pot purta rochia asta? C\u0103 \u021bi se v\u0103d c**iele, fiule. Vorbim de un b\u0103iat clasic, lini\u0219tit, care din negru, bleumarin \u0219i alte chestii de genul posomor\u00e2t nu iese. Care era frustrarea lui?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Frustrarea lui consta \u00een faptul c\u0103, vara, toate colegele lui veneau la munc\u0103 \u00een fusti\u021be cu vedere la clitoris. Numai b\u0103iatul nostru avea dresscode pantaloni lungi. Vreau s\u0103 zic vara. Pe temperaturi de 30 \u0219i ceva la umbr\u0103. \u0218i \u0219ti\u021bi cum sunt pantalonii lungi b\u0103rb\u0103te\u0219ti. Drep\u021bi, c\u0103 orice evazare sau volum e gay. \u0218i den\u0219i, c\u0103 orice ac\u021biune de a flutura \u0219i orice grad de semitransparen\u021b\u0103 sunt gay. \u0218i pentru mine, desigur, gay e mai mult dec\u00e2t ok. Dar nu eu eram \u0219eful lui la vechiul job. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chit c\u0103 reputa\u021bia mea e de hateri\u021b\u0103 de b\u0103rba\u021bi – chit c\u0103 nu e cazul; eu ur\u0103sc doar prostia, nesim\u021birea \u0219i m\u00e2rl\u0103nia, plus b\u0103garea aiurea \u00een seam\u0103 \u00een mesaje private, mai ales dac\u0103 NU m\u0103 cuno\u0219ti \u0219i NU sus\u021bii blogul, deci nu-\u021bi datorez like absolut nimic sub soare – am empatizat profund cu amicul meu care se chinuia vara. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Really. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu v\u0103d nici un motiv – DAR ABSOLUT NICIUN MOTIV SUB SOARE – s\u0103 obligi b\u0103rba\u021bii s\u0103 vin\u0103 \u00een pantaloni lungi vara opt ore la munc\u0103, pe o c\u0103ldur\u0103 infernal\u0103. OK, poate o \u0219edin\u021b\u0103 important\u0103 cu investitori sau asocia\u021bi, sau poten\u021biali investitori, sau poten\u021biali clien\u021bi mari. \u00cel pui pe omul meu s\u0103-\u0219i aduc\u0103 n\u0103dragii de n\u0103na\u0219 mare \u00een rucsac, c\u0103lca\u021bi frumos la dung\u0103, s\u0103-l laude soacr\u0103-sa c\u0103 e vrednic – \u00eei dai kind reminder cu un sfert de or\u0103 \u00eenainte s\u0103-\u0219i schimbe n\u0103dragii, face\u021bi meetingul, pleac\u0103 clientul sau investitorul mul\u021bumit \u00een limuzin\u0103, toat\u0103 lumea \u00eenapoi la budig\u0103i. V\u0103 asigur eu c\u0103 \u0219i clientului \/ investitorului i-a preg\u0103tit \u0103la din limuzin\u0103 o frapier\u0103 cu ghea\u021b\u0103, special s\u0103-\u0219i bage c**iele-n ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 pandemia \u0219i lockdownul au fost utile cu ceva, iat\u0103 cu ce: au demonstrat omenirii c\u00e2t de eficien\u021bi \u0219i harnici putem fi, \u00een timp ce de la br\u00e2u \u00een jos purt\u0103m pijamale, chilo\u021bi sau, newsflash, fix nimic Da, am avut buluc de \u0219edin\u021be \u0219i interviuri pe Zoom, mai ales \u00een verile 2020 \u0219i 2021, c\u00e2nd aveam bluz\u0103 sus \u0219i un caz sever de kurgol unde nu b\u0103tea camera. Am fost profesionist\u0103 perfect\u0103? Da. Am fost succint\u0103, eficient\u0103 \u0219i de mare succes? Da. Am f\u0103cut toate astea \u00een p\u0103s\u0103rica goal\u0103? Oooo, da. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prin urmare, iat\u0103 un apel la \u0219efule\u021bii \u0219i \u0219efu\u021bii din toat\u0103 lumea: l\u0103sa\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bii s\u0103 poarte \u0219i ei pantaloni scur\u021bi la munc\u0103. Dac\u0103 e s\u0103 ne pierdem respectul pentru ei, deja o facem din cauza trotinetelor care \u00eei fac s\u0103 arate ca ni\u0219te dobitoci infantili. Dar l\u0103sa\u021bi-i \u0219i pe ei s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103. Pe bune, nu po\u021bi pretinde eficien\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd omului i se fac poten\u021bialii urma\u0219i papar\u0103 pe canicul\u0103. E insuportabil pentru noi to\u021bi, indiferent de gen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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