{"id":25183,"date":"2023-07-30T11:07:27","date_gmt":"2023-07-30T08:07:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25183"},"modified":"2023-07-30T11:07:30","modified_gmt":"2023-07-30T08:07:30","slug":"cateva-ganduri-despre-marsul-pride","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cateva-ganduri-despre-marsul-pride\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e2teva g\u00e2nduri despre mar\u0219ul Pride"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anul \u0103sta a fost un pic ciud\u0103\u021bel pentru mine. \u00cen sensul c\u0103, anii trecu\u021bi, am avut un show de travesti \u00een timpul S\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nii Pride, am participat \u0219i la evenimentele altora \u0219i am fost mereu cu ga\u0219ca la mar\u0219. Anul \u0103sta, \u00eens\u0103, am participat la ni\u0219te proiecte care mi-au m\u00e2ncat tot timpul \u0219i energia, prin urmare, nu am avut niciun fel de show, pentru c\u0103 n-am avut timp s\u0103 preg\u0103tesc unul, iar la mar\u0219 am ajuns la 18 f\u0103r\u0103 trei minute, c\u00e2nd lumea bun\u0103 era deja \u00een fa\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-au recunoscut ni\u0219te pu\u015ftani de pe TikTok, m-au \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 vreau s\u0103 fiu stegar la steagul trans. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-embed-handler wp-block-embed-embed-handler\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"fb-post\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/posts\/pfbid0dCRyMxo6VYVsHnnPXr4ePuhoobFoBTjKNUZZrVJf97Ps6vqas9MCwdMfj7THwCval\" data-width=\"552\" style=\"background-color: #fff; display: inline-block;\"><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cum s\u0103 nu vreau, steagul trans e preferatul meu. De ce? Pentru c\u0103, de bine de r\u0103u, persoanele gay \u0219i lesbiene au cam izbutit s\u0103 explice lumii c\u0103 preferin\u021ba lor amoroas\u0103 e ceea ce e, \u0219i nu vii tu s\u0103-mi spui mie ce s\u0103 iubesc, punct, la revedere. Nu prea mai v\u0103d persoane gay \u0219i lesbiene h\u0103r\u021buite. Mai mult bisexuali persecuta\u021bi pentru c\u0103 nu putem naibii s\u0103 ne hot\u0103r\u00e2m ce vrem. Haha. De\u0219i pe noi nu ne intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 ne hot\u0103r\u00e2m, asta e ideea. Ne place s\u0103 fim fluizi \u0219i experimentali. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oook, bun. Cum ziceam, nu prea v\u0103d h\u0103r\u021buire la gay \u0219i lesbiene, \u00een schimb, \u0219tirile sunt pline cu \u00eenc\u0103 o persoan\u0103 transgender b\u0103tut\u0103, jefuit\u0103, terorizat\u0103 de bullies, fie c\u0103 sunt colegi de \u0219coal\u0103, de munc\u0103 sau vecini, amenin\u021bat\u0103, ucis\u0103. Comunitatea trans e cea mai c\u0103lcat\u0103 \u00een picioare dintre toate, \u0219i asta pentru c\u0103 \u00eei face mereu pe bunii cre\u0219tini s\u0103-\u0219i pun\u0103 sub semnul \u00eentreb\u0103rii orientarea. Miss Olanda n-a avut niciodat\u0103 pres\u0103 ca anul \u0103sta \u00een Rom\u00e2nia &#8211; iar acest lucru, pentru c\u0103 \u00eenving\u0103toarea a fost o femeie transgender, \u0219i toat\u0103 lumea s-a sim\u021bit obligat\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce rahat pe subiect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Treaba e simpl\u0103, din punctul meu de vedere. Nu alegi \u00een ce corp s\u0103 te na\u0219ti, a\u0219a cum nu alegi cu ce identitate s\u0103 te na\u0219ti. Dar identitatea e cine e\u0219ti tu, corpul e doar forma ta fizic\u0103. Culmea, e exact ideea pe care o predic\u0103 religia. Corpul e trec\u0103tor, spiritul e etern. Dar tot ei: hey, ok, corpul nu conteaz\u0103, conteaz\u0103 doar ce at\u00e2rn\u0103 \u00eentre picioare, dac\u0103 identitatea e a s*xului opus. Atunci, l\u0103s\u0103m corpul s\u0103 decid\u0103. \u00cen rest, corpul vine din p\u0103m\u00e2nt \u0219i se \u00eentoarce \u00een p\u0103m\u00e2nt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0103i, boss, dac\u0103 trupul e irelevant \u0219i spiritul e etern, ce zici s\u0103 aplic\u0103m teoria asta \u0219i persoanelor transgender? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uhm, nu. Trupul e irelevant, dar de\u021binerea unui cucurigu sau a unei p\u0103s\u0103rici e ceva fundamental. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eu empatizez cu fiecare persoan\u0103 a c\u0103rei identitate nu se suprapune peste ce arat\u0103 oglinda. \u0218i peste ce zic pro\u0219tii din jur c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 faci, \u00een func\u021bie de ce arat\u0103 oglinda. E genul de teroare \u0219i de umilin\u021b\u0103 care vine peste tine din fraged\u0103 pruncie \u0219i te \u00eenso\u021be\u0219te p\u00e2n\u0103 la moarte, dac\u0103 nu g\u0103se\u0219ti for\u021ba interioar\u0103 s\u0103 pui punct \u0219i s\u0103 c\u00e2n\u021bi cu Gloria Gaynor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/mEVKkIWbPrY?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De aceea am dus cu onoare \u0219i respect steagul trans, \u0219i nu a\u0219 fi vrut s\u0103 duc altul nici contra cost. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anii trecu\u021bi, n-au prea existat tulbur\u0103ri de pe margine. Mar\u0219ul haurist al &#8220;normalit\u0103\u0163ii&#8221; &#8211; nu e nimic normal \u00een a le spune altora ce s\u0103 fac\u0103 cu vie\u0163ile lor care nu te afecteaz\u0103 pe tine cu nimic &#8211; se \u00eent\u00e2mpla \u00een legea lui, mar\u015ful pride idem. Dar anul \u0103sta, au ap\u0103rut mai mul\u0163i gigei de pe margine, cu pancarte \u015fi biblii. Ur\u00e2\u0163i cu spume. Genul de gigei pe care nu i-ar vrea femeile nici \u00eentr-o lume 100% heterosexual\u0103, pentru c\u0103 obiectiv nu au nimic de oferit \u015fi ar reprezenta doar o povar\u0103 insuportabil\u0103, iar g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 te culci cu \u0103\u015ftia \u00ee\u0163i d\u0103 bube \u015fi un acces de rinit\u0103 alergic\u0103 instant. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Una dintre pancarte m-a scos \u00een mod special din s\u0103rite. &#8220;Homosexualitatea distruge natalitatea&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cum mai exact? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te \u00eempiedic\u0103 pe tine homosexualii s\u0103 faci copii dac\u0103 vrei \u015fi g\u0103se\u015fti o femeie dispus\u0103 s\u0103 colaboreze cu tine la asta? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evident, nu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei atunci, ce natalitate e distrus\u0103 de homosexualitate? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aaaa, aceea \u00een care b\u0103rba\u0163i gay \u015fi femei lesbiene se c\u0103s\u0103toresc de gura p\u0103rin\u0163ilor cu persoane de sex opus de care nu sunt atrase \u015fi fac copii s\u0103 nu se prind\u0103 vecinii c\u0103 sunt gay \u015fi lesbiene? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Simplul fapt c\u0103 cineva \u00ee\u015fi dore\u015fte s\u0103 le impun\u0103 altora un stil de via\u0163\u0103 contrar nevoilor lor mi se pare monstruos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am strigat la prostul cu pancarta: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-E\u015fti ur\u00e2t, b\u0103, asta stric\u0103 natalitatea. Cine \u00ee\u0163i face \u0163ie copii? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei am avut succes. \u0102la cu natalitatea a \u00eentins-o prompt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen rest, c\u00e2nd nu ai din\u0163i \u00een gur\u0103, eu zic c\u0103 prioritatea e s\u0103 ajungi la un dentist, nu s\u0103 te tuf\u0103 grija de natalitate. S\u0103 aduci pe lume al\u0163i copii plini de nevoi \u015fi boli, de vreme ce nici de tine personal nu po\u0163i s\u0103 ai grij\u0103? Dac\u0103 m\u0103-ta \u00ee\u015fi gestiona corect resursele, plodea doar num\u0103rul de copii pe care \u00eei putea \u00eengriji corect \u015fi nu ajungeai s\u0103 ai o dantur\u0103 ca gardul unei case p\u0103r\u0103site de munte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i plac textele de opinie, sus\u0163ine site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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