{"id":25215,"date":"2023-08-10T00:36:04","date_gmt":"2023-08-09T21:36:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25215"},"modified":"2023-08-10T00:36:08","modified_gmt":"2023-08-09T21:36:08","slug":"uhm-da-am-vazut-barbie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/uhm-da-am-vazut-barbie\/","title":{"rendered":"Uhm, da, am v\u0103zut Barbie"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Admit, nu inten\u021bionam s\u0103 v\u0103d Barbie. Dar am primit o dona\u021bie \u0219i o rug\u0103minte de la cineva: Scrie despre Barbie, c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 aflu p\u0103rerea ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vreau s\u0103 \u00eencurajez bunul obicei de a sus\u021bine financiar textele pe care vrei s\u0103 le cite\u0219ti, \u0219i s\u0103 v\u0103d mai pu\u021bin \u201escrie despre cutare, c\u0103 a\u0219a zic eu, comentac nr. 67\u201d, prin urmare, iat\u0103-ne \u00een acest punct. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pBk4NYhWNMM?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Despre Barbie, p\u0103rerea pe social media merge \u00een dou\u0103 direc\u021bii. Pe de o parte, maaaam\u0103\u0103\u0103, ce film, am le\u0219inaaat, s\u0103 mor. Pe de alta: frate, ce rahat feminist, ur\u00e2\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bii, vre\u021bi s\u0103-i distruge\u021bi, vre\u021bi s\u0103 cutare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De\u0219i nici \u00een matriarhatul de la \u00eenceput, p\u0103pu\u0219ile Barbie nu detestau Kenii, nu \u00eei exploatau, nu \u00eei umileau, cum se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu femeile \u00een patriarhat. Femeile \u00een\u021belegeau puterea drept libertatea de a-\u0219i deschide aripile \u0219i de a face ce vor. B\u0103rba\u021bii \u00een\u021belegeau puterea drept libertate de a supune, a slug\u0103ri \u0219i a oprima femei. E o distinc\u021bie fin\u0103 pe care filmul Gretei Gerwig o puncteaz\u0103, \u0219i poate c\u0103 exact chestia asta face gigeii s\u0103 spumege. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Filmul mi s-a p\u0103rut inegal. Mi-au displ\u0103cut exact chestiile care mizam c\u0103 o s\u0103-mi displac\u0103: nevoia de a vorbi despre matriarhat, patriarhat, rolul biologic \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe. Aud destul\u0103 teorie pe acest subiect pe social media ca s\u0103 nu mai am nevoie s\u0103 m\u0103 duc la film s\u0103 mai urm\u0103resc o poveste de dou\u0103 ore despre asta. Mi-a displ\u0103cut nevoia de a include management board-ul Mattel \u00een poveste, dar la modul inexpresiv &#8211; nu fac nimic util, sau demn de men\u021bionat, \u00een afara c\u00e2torva glume sexiste, apoi se duc p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een Barbieland s\u0103&#8230; nimic? F\u0103r\u0103 acest grup de domni, filmul ar fi mers \u00eenainte de minune. Dimpotriv\u0103: ar fi putut s\u0103 aprofundeze rela\u021bia dintre Barbie \u0219i Ken, dou\u0103 personaje extrem de bine jucate, de care nu te saturi, respectiv a celor dou\u0103 femei normale, cu care Barbie se \u00eemprietene\u0219te c\u00e2nd ajunge pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stai, ce? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da, filmul \u00eencepe \u00eentr-un Barbieland fantasmagoric, cu o scenografie care anticipez c\u0103 va \u00eenh\u0103\u021ba prompt Oscarul la anul, apoi, de pe o zi pe alta, Barbie cea perfect\u0103 (Margot Robbie, incredibil de frumoas\u0103 \u0219i carismatic\u0103), e cuprins\u0103 de o criz\u0103 a v\u00e2rstei mijlocii. Se g\u00e2nde\u0219te la moarte, diminea\u021ba arat\u0103 r\u0103u c\u00e2nd se treze\u0219te, nu mai poate pluti. Relatable, dup\u0103 ce treci de 30 de ani. \u0218i e o emo\u021bie foarte uman\u0103 \u0219i \u00eenduio\u0219\u0103toare, \u00een care spectatorul se va reg\u0103si. \u0218i acest lucru a f\u0103cut filmul interesant pentru mine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At\u00e2t Robbie, c\u00e2t \u0219i Ryan Gosling, interpretul lui Ken, au o m\u0103iestrie \u00een a \u00eembina cli\u0219eul cu umorul \u0219i cu o vulnerabilitate nea\u0219teptat\u0103, de aceea, te aga\u021b\u0103 relativ repede. Apropo de Gosling. E ireal cum omul \u0103la are 42 de ani, dar \u00eenc\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi joac\u0103 p\u0103pu\u0219a masculin\u0103 blond\u0103 cu fa\u021b\u0103 perfect\u0103 \u0219i corp perfect, iar tu cumperi iluzia f\u0103r\u0103 umbr\u0103 de efort. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cum ziceam: Barbie \u00eencepe s\u0103-\u0219i observe celulita, nu mai poate purta tocuri c\u0103 nu mai st\u0103 pe v\u00e2rfuri de la sine \u0219i \u00eencepe s\u0103-i displac\u0103 ce vede \u00een oglind\u0103. Aici, se dezv\u0103luie primele probleme ale universului perfect Barbie, pentru c\u0103 niciuna din p\u0103pu\u0219i nu e preg\u0103tit\u0103 s\u0103 accepte absen\u021ba perfec\u021biunii, iar reac\u021biile lor sunt prea pu\u021bin paradisiace. Bullyingul exist\u0103 \u0219i \u00een matriarhat dar, surpriz\u0103, le vizeaz\u0103 tot pe femei. Pe cele imperfecte. A\u0219a cum p\u0103pu\u0219ile o marginalizeaz\u0103 activ pe Barbie cea Ciudat\u0103 (Kate McKinnon, fost\u0103 prim\u0103 doamn\u0103 a comediei la Saturday Night Live), care nu e Ciudat\u0103 fiindc\u0103 a ales s\u0103 fie a\u0219a, ci pentru c\u0103 a fost ciop\u00e2r\u021bit\u0103 de un copila\u0219. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>McKinnon \u00eei d\u0103 o alegere de tip Matrix lui Barbie. Dar \u00een loc de pilula albastr\u0103 \u0219i pilula ro\u0219ie, avem stiletto sexy roz \u0219i papucul ur\u00e2t maro. \u0218i, cum filmul e o comedie, Barbie alege iar \u0219i iar stiletto sexy roz, dar reiese c\u0103 nu are de ales. Destinul ei e papucul ur\u00e2t maro. Excelent\u0103 metafor\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deci, Barbie are de mers \u00een lumea real\u0103, s-o g\u0103seasc\u0103 pe feti\u021ba care o de\u021bine \u0219i s\u0103-i rezolve problema. Iar lumea real\u0103 e&#8230; ca lumea real\u0103. B\u0103d\u0103r\u0103nie la adresa femeilor, atitudini nasoale, \u0219i, colac peste pup\u0103z\u0103, Ken, care a \u021binut s\u0103 o \u00eenso\u021beasc\u0103, descoper\u0103 machismul toxic, \u0219i decide s\u0103-l duc\u0103 \u00eenapoi \u00een lumea p\u0103pu\u0219ilor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Barbie crede c\u0103 a g\u0103sit feti\u021ba care \u00eei e st\u0103p\u00e2n\u0103, numai c\u0103, surpriz\u0103. Copila e o feminist\u0103 ultraagresiv\u0103 de rit nou \u0219i o face terci. Chit c\u0103, la vremea ei, Barbie \u00eens\u0103\u0219i a fost o revolu\u021bie. O p\u0103pu\u0219\u0103-femeie, nu o p\u0103pu\u0219\u0103-bebelu\u0219. Interac\u021biunea dintre Barbie \u0219i Sasha, care nu s-a mai jucat cu o Barbie de la cinci ani \u0219i o detest\u0103 cu pasiune, e ca interac\u021biunea dintre o feminist\u0103 moderat\u0103 din al doilea val, gen eu, \u0219i o &#8220;dac\u0103 por\u0163i tocuri, e\u015fti problema \u015fi dac\u0103 te epilezi, e\u015fti sclava patriarhatului&#8221;, n\u0103scut\u0103 \u00een 2008. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Adev\u0103rul e c\u0103, exact ca Barbie, nici eu nu \u015ftiu cum s\u0103 r\u0103spund la de-astea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi, reiese c\u0103, de fapt, Barbie n-a fost p\u0103pu\u015fa fiicei, ci a mamei, \u015fi criza v\u00e2rstei mijlocii e de fapt a acesteia. Cele dou\u0103, mam\u0103 \u015fi fiic\u0103, aleg s-o ajute pe Barbie cu experien\u0163a feminin\u0103 autentic\u0103, la dou\u0103 v\u00e2rste, \u015fi momentele lor de vulnerabilitate \u015fi onestitate fac filmul interesant. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Una peste alta, chiar dac\u0103 scenariul filmului e pe alocuri dezechilibrat \u015fi multe glumi\u0163e sunt complet gratuite, s\u0103r\u0103cind povestea, actoria excep\u0163ional\u0103 \u015fi c\u00e2teva scene memorabile salveaz\u0103 experien\u0163a. A\u015f da lui Barbie nota 7 din 10, iar gigeilor un sfat: merge\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103 uita\u0163i la Ryan Gosling. Vede\u0163i cum arat\u0103 \u015fi cum se mi\u015fc\u0103 omul \u0103la la 42 de ani. Dac\u0103 \u0103sta nu e empowerment masculin, nu \u015ftiu ce e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i plac textele care nu cru\u021b\u0103 nimic, sus\u0163ine site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Admit, nu inten\u021bionam s\u0103 v\u0103d Barbie. 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