Sunt fana ta de pe TikTok, dar am \u00eenceput s\u0103-\u021bi citesc \u0219i blogul. De obicei, nu citesc bloguri, dar tu scrii foarte funny. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Explic\u0103-mi \u0219i mie de ce dispar b\u0103ie\u021bii dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva dates \u0219i nu au bunul sim\u021b s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi spun\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 ce nu le convine, sau m\u0103car s\u0103 se despart\u0103 frumos \u0219i civilizat? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n *** <\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i b\u0103ie\u021bii \u0219i fetele dispar uneori ca m\u0103garul \u00een cea\u021b\u0103, \u0219i spre ru\u0219inea mea, trebuie s\u0103 recunosc c\u0103 \u0219i eu am f\u0103cut-o de c\u00e2teva ori, pe c\u00e2nd aveam 20ish de ani \u0219i nu-mi d\u0103deam seama cum e cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103 afectat\u0103 de faptul c\u0103 dispari de pe o zi pe alta. \u00ce\u021b pot spune de ce o f\u0103ceam eu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Am crescut cu o mam\u0103 care f\u0103cea o criz\u0103 interminabil\u0103 de isterie de c\u00e2te ori lucrurile nu se \u00eent\u00e2mplau cum voia ea. \u0218i pe la 20ish, eram mai mult dec\u00e2t traumatizat\u0103. Aveam un atac de panic\u0103 de c\u00e2te ori trebuia s\u0103 spun un \u201enu\u201d, pentru c\u0103 subcon\u0219tientul meu anticipa jum\u0103tate de or\u0103 de urlat. \u0218tii cum e c\u00e2nd ai un playlist pe care-l ascul\u021bi. Apoi, auzi \u00een ora\u0219 o melodie din playlist \u0219i, instinctiv, o a\u0219tep\u021bi pe urm\u0103toarea, \u0219i e aproape surprinz\u0103tor c\u0103 nu urmeaz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Deci, dac\u0103 dup\u0103 trei-patru dates conchideam c\u0103 nu \u00eemi place cineva, disp\u0103ream ca s\u0103 m\u0103 protejez emo\u021bional de un eventual abuz verbal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Probabil c\u0103 nu to\u021bi gigeii o fac din acest motiv. Unii sunt pur \u0219i simplu foarte comozi, decid c\u0103 nu mai au chef de fa\u021ba ta \u0219i dispar pur \u0219i simplu. Al\u021bii voiau doar o aventur\u0103, \u0219i v\u0103d c\u0103 tu vrei poate ceva mai serios. De ce s\u0103 trag\u0103 de tine c\u00e2nd pot g\u0103si direct pe una care vrea o aventur\u0103 \u0219i ea. Al\u021bii cunosc pur \u0219i simplu pe alta care \u00eei atrage mai mult \u0219i se reprofileaz\u0103 pe t\u0103cute. Al\u021bii pur \u0219i simplu \u00eencep un job nou care le m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 toat\u0103 energia \u0219i nu mai au timp de dates. Iar al\u021bii nu \u0219tiu ce vor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce ai tu de re\u021binut e c\u0103 nu te pl\u0103ceau foarte tare, prin urmare, d\u00e2ndu-se disp\u0103ru\u021bi brusc, \u021bi-au f\u0103cut un serviciu uria\u0219. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218tiu, e umilitor \u0219i doare pe moment. Dar mai bine dispare dup\u0103 dou\u0103 dates, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 investe\u0219ti \u00een el ani de iubire \u0219i efort, eventual s\u0103-i \u0219i faci copii, \u0219i s\u0103 dispar\u0103 atunci, s\u0103 te lase cu responsabilit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i rate. Ia-i confesiunea de neseriozitate a\u0219a cum a venit \u0219i concentreaz\u0103-te pe lucruri care te fac fericit\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i vezi ce faci dac\u0103 reapare \u00een c\u00e2teva luni comport\u00e2ndu-se ca \u0219i cum nimic nu s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat. \u00centreab\u0103-l care a fost faza, informeaz\u0103-l c\u0103 acest tip de comportament nu \u021bine cu tine \u0219i spune-i c\u0103 dac\u0103 mai dispare o dat\u0103, poate s\u0103 uite c\u0103 exi\u0219ti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i plac sfaturile obiective \u0219i bine inten\u021bionate, sus\u0163ine site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. 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