{"id":25239,"date":"2023-08-16T01:53:21","date_gmt":"2023-08-15T22:53:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25239"},"modified":"2023-08-16T01:54:07","modified_gmt":"2023-08-15T22:54:07","slug":"un-pic-de-discretie-se-poate-internautii-mei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/un-pic-de-discretie-se-poate-internautii-mei\/","title":{"rendered":"Un pic de discre\u021bie se poate, internau\u021bii mei?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

V\u0103d ieri seara un status \u00eenduio\u0219\u0103tor. Un b\u0103iat \u00ee\u0219i aminte\u0219te de bunicii lui, de copil\u0103rie, de tot ce a fost frumos, de casa b\u0103tr\u00e2neasc\u0103. Apoi, men\u021bioneaz\u0103 c\u0103 acum, acolo, e o firm\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 citeai postarea, pur \u0219i simplu, \u00ee\u021bi topea inima. De dor, de nostalgie, de inefabilul vremurilor care nu se vor \u00eentoarce niciodat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i hopa, comentac: Dar de ce ai v\u00e2ndut casa? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Precizez c\u0103 omul nostru nu e politician sau ceva, s\u0103 aib\u0103 de dat socoteal\u0103 votan\u021bilor ce face cu bugetul. E un b\u0103iat obi\u0219nuit cu un cont de Facebook. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce ar fi treaba comentacului de ce a v\u00e2ndut el casa? Asta presupun\u00e2nd c\u0103 a fost decizia lui \u0219i nu au fost x mo\u0219tenitori, care au decis c\u0103 au nevoie de bani, c\u0103 i-a s\u0103r\u0103cit pandemia? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A v\u00e2ndut-o, probabil, pentru c\u0103 n-a avut de ales. Pentru c\u0103 a trecut printr-un moment financiar complicat \u0219i a trebuit s\u0103 sacrifice ceva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce nu ne g\u00e2ndim ce impact pot avea indiscre\u021biile noastre asupra unor oameni care nu ne datoreaz\u0103 raport? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 era Lorena la vorbitor, r\u0103spundea ceva de genul: S\u0103 aib\u0103 m\u0103-ta de ce s\u0103 se mire. Dar cum b\u0103iatul nostru e un gentleman, a ales s\u0103 ignore comentariul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dragi cititori, v\u0103 invit s\u0103 medit\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 asupra unui lucru. S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 exist\u0103 un subiect care \u00eel face pe altul s\u0103 sufere. Putem s\u0103 fim empatici \u0219i s\u0103 nu \u00eenv\u00e2rtim cu\u021bitul \u00eentr-o ran\u0103 care deja s\u00e2ngereaz\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Decizia de a vinde casa \u00een care ai copil\u0103rit e incredibil de dureroas\u0103. Fie c\u0103 o faci de gura restului rudelor, sau e\u0219ti \u00een bud\u0103 financiar, sau c\u0103 nu-\u021bi po\u021bi permite s\u0103 o \u00eentre\u021bii cum merit\u0103 \u0219i nu supor\u021bi s-o vezi degrad\u00e2ndu-se, sau orice alt motiv ar fi, decizia asta e ca \u0219i cum ai t\u0103ia o bucat\u0103 din sufletul t\u0103u. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce s\u0103 pui tuterea de grij\u0103 mai presus de emo\u021biile altui om? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu e ca \u0219i cum, dac\u0103 afli de ce a v\u00e2ndut-o, valorifici \u00eentr-un fel sau altul informa\u021bia. Nu e \u00eentrebare pe care \u021bi-o pune la Vrei s\u0103 fii miliardar, \u0219i dac\u0103 nu \u0219tii, pierzi miliardul. E simpl\u0103 b\u0103gare \u00een seam\u0103 \u021b\u0103\u021beasc\u0103. Dar care celuilalt \u00eei deschide o traum\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hai s\u0103 fim mai oameni cu cei din jurul nostru. Dac\u0103 fac aluzii la amintiri dureroase, ofer\u0103-le o \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219are. Fizic sau virtual. C\u00e2nd vor fi preg\u0103ti\u021bi s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103, o vor face. \u0218i probabil c\u0103 nu va fi \u00eentr-o rubric\u0103 de comentarii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i plac articolele de opinie, sus\u0163ine site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103.\u00a0Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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