{"id":25250,"date":"2023-08-21T08:38:54","date_gmt":"2023-08-21T05:38:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25250"},"modified":"2023-08-21T08:39:23","modified_gmt":"2023-08-21T05:39:23","slug":"dragi-parinti-de-bani-gata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/dragi-parinti-de-bani-gata\/","title":{"rendered":"Dragi p\u0103rin\u021bi de bani gata"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ieri, \u0219tirile au raportat identitatea pu\u0219tiului de 19 ani care a intrat cu ma\u0219ina \u00eentr-un grup de persoane, a ucis doi tineri \u0219i a r\u0103nit al\u021bii \u0219ase \u0219i a fugit de la locul faptei. \u0218i care, la control, prezenta un cocteil de droguri \u00een s\u00e2nge de zici c\u0103 era protagonist al unui roman de Chuck Palahniuk. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i da, exact cum m\u0103 a\u0219teptam, era vorba de un pu\u0219ti de bani gata. \u0218i mami \u0219i tati au mega afaceri \u00een ora\u0219. L-au acoperit cu bani de c\u00e2nd era mic, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 insufle \u00een el o und\u0103 oarecare de responsabilitate. Rezultatul? La 19 ani, calc\u0103 oameni de zici c\u0103 e \u00eentr-un joc video pe PlayStation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lorena cea de p\u00e2n\u0103-n 25 de ani a suferit cumplit de pe urma acestui tip de specimene. \u00cencep\u00e2nd cu un fiu de politruc local care schimbase trei licee \u0219i fusese adus pe pile \u00een al nostru. \u0218i evident c\u0103 i s-a pus pata pe mine, pentru c\u0103 nu p\u0103ream c\u0103zut\u0103 \u00een fund de admira\u021bie. \u00cemi f\u0103cea cele mai iritante rahaturi, de diminea\u021ba p\u00e2n\u0103 seara, iar sfatul profesorilor era: Fii \u0219i tu mai \u00een\u021beleg\u0103toare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar, hei, era pe vremea c\u00e2nd, dac\u0103 un gigel te tr\u0103gea de cozi sau te f\u0103cea ur\u00e2t\u0103 \u0219i proast\u0103, \u00eensemna c\u0103 te place. Ah, dar stai. Am citit \u0219tiri cu feti\u021be h\u0103r\u021buite de fii de bog\u0103ta\u0219i recent. Doar anul trecut, fata asta s-a sinucis<\/a><\/strong> pentru c\u0103 a avut o rela\u021bie cu fiul primarului dintr-un sat, \u0103la, ca beizadea de bani gata, i-a f\u0103cut poze deocheate \u0219i le-a pus pe net, iar tat\u0103l fetei, \u00een loc s-o apere, a rupt-o \u00een b\u0103taie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Care numitorul comun al acestor nemernici? Unu: p\u0103rin\u021bi cu bani. Doi: impresia c\u0103 pot face orice mizerie, pentru c\u0103 nu vor exista consecin\u021be. Trei: lipsa absolut\u0103 de empatie fa\u021b\u0103 de mizeriile pe care le fac victimelor lor. \u0218i gigelul din clasa mea de liceu, \u0219i gigelul care a pus-o pe fata aia pe net, de\u0219i \u0219tia c\u00e2t\u0103 h\u0103r\u021buire \u00eei atrage – sau tocmai din acest motiv – \u0219i \u0103la care a culcat lume la p\u0103m\u00e2nt cu ma\u0219ina lui bengoas\u0103, pentru c\u0103 putea – au aceste trei caracteristici \u00een comun. Bani, iresponsabilitate, sadism. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dragi p\u0103rin\u021bi de bani gata, suntem unii care n-am beneficiat de la p\u0103rin\u021bii no\u0219tri nici m\u0103car de strictul necesar. Putem aprecia efortul f\u0103cut de voi s\u0103 v\u0103 asigura\u021bi c\u0103 \u0103luia mic nu-i lipse\u0219te nimic. Nou\u0103 nu ne-a oferit nimeni asta. Nici un copil nu apreciaz\u0103 pantofii de firm\u0103 pe care \u00eei poart\u0103 al vostru cum \u00eei apreciaz\u0103 \u0103la care-\u0219i pune un carton gros \u00een talpa cizmelor, al treilea an la r\u00e2nd, pentru c\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii lui consider\u0103 c\u0103 e mai important s\u0103 aib\u0103 ei ce bea \u0219i fuma, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 aib\u0103 copilul \u00eenc\u0103l\u021b\u0103minte decent\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar dac\u0103 tot \u00eei cump\u0103ra\u021bi pantofii \u0103ia de brand, din care noi ne-am fi cump\u0103rat cinci perechi de la H & M \u0219i am fi fost mai mult dec\u00e2t ferici\u021bi cu ei, ce zice\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eei face\u021bi \u0219i un pic de educa\u021bie? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i poate c\u0103 primul pas e s\u0103 nu curg\u0103 banii chiar f\u0103r\u0103 num\u0103r. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen mult hulitul Occident, e un obicei printre liceeni, chiar \u0219i cei cu bani, s\u0103 munceasc\u0103 vara cu jum\u0103tate de norm\u0103. Chiar \u00een magazinul lui tati sau al lui mami, dac\u0103 nu g\u0103sesc \u00een alt\u0103 parte. Au o aloca\u021bie lunar\u0103 – decent\u0103, dar nu exagerat\u0103 – s\u0103 se \u00eenve\u021be cu ideea de gestionat un buget lunar. Iar dac\u0103 vor mai mult, muncesc part-time. Sigur, dac\u0103 \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 excep\u021bional de bine, primesc cadou bicicleta mult dorit\u0103 sau gadgetul la care visau. Dar pentru asta, trebuie s\u0103 pun\u0103 osul la treab\u0103, s\u0103 \u00eendeplineasc\u0103 obiective \u0219i s\u0103 raporteze rezultate. \u0218ti\u021bi voi, ceea ce te face om responsabil \u00een via\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum ceva rimp, o prieten\u0103 antreprenor de succes mi-a povestit c\u0103 b\u0103iatul adolescent a ales s\u0103 munceasc\u0103 de Revelion. Un prieten cu restaurant de lux angaja pentru s\u0103rb\u0103toare chelneri \u0219i ajutor \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie \u0219i oferea 200 de euro pentru seara de Revelion. Ra\u021bionamentul pu\u0219tiului: De ce s\u0103 merg la un party s\u0103 pierd bani c\u00e2nd pot s\u0103 merg la un party \u0219i s\u0103-i c\u00e2\u0219tig? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A fost dr\u0103gu\u021b \u0219i prietenos cu toat\u0103 lumea, a venit acas\u0103 cu 350 de euro, tips incluse. Prietena mea m-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 se sperie sau s\u0103 se bucure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I-am zis: soro, l-ai educat corect. Unu: munca nu e o ru\u0219ine. Doi, are dreptate, de ce s\u0103 pierzi bani \u00een loc s\u0103 faci bani, mai ales din munc\u0103 cinstit\u0103. Trei: chelnerul care face mult bac\u0219i\u0219 e b\u0103iat popular, iar asta te duce departe \u00een via\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dragi p\u0103rin\u021bi de bani gata, nu \u00eei mai umfla\u021bi pe \u0103ia mici cu bani \u0219i cu arogan\u021b\u0103. Ok, probabil c\u0103 \u0103la din Maramure\u0219 a fost salvat de avoca\u021bi, \u0219i probabil c\u0103 va fi \u0219i \u0103sta de acum. Dar asta nu \u00eei face mai pu\u021bin jigodii. V\u0103 bucur\u0103 g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 a\u021bi crescut ni\u0219te jigodii? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 nu au mil\u0103 de al\u021bii, nu vor avea mil\u0103 nici de voi, c\u00e2nd o s\u0103 vin\u0103 momentul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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