Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 mai ai Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei, n-am v\u0103zut-o de ceva timp pe blogul t\u0103u. Te rog s\u0103 nu renun\u021bi la ea. Ne ajut\u0103 \u0219i pe noi s\u0103 avem un punct de vedere obiectiv. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n (Not\u0103 Lorena: Asta e singura rubric\u0103 pe care nu o pot \u021bine de una singur\u0103. Nu de mine depinde. Trimite\u021bi \u201ec\u0103rni\u021b\u0103\u201d \u0219i avem po\u0219ta redac\u021biei. Dac\u0103 nu trimite\u021bi, n-o avem. E fix at\u00e2t de simplu.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu sunt o tip\u0103 frumoas\u0103. \u0218tiu, nu se obi\u0219nuie\u0219te s\u0103 o spui tu despre tine, dar pe bune, eu sunt frumoas\u0103. Aici \u00eencepe problema. Se dau la mine tot soiul de specimene, unul mai na\u0219pa \u0219i mai enervant dec\u00e2t altul, \u0219i mai \u0219i insist\u0103 dup\u0103 ce le ar\u0103t clar c\u0103 nu sunt interesat\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Oare ce fac gre\u0219it? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n E o vorb\u0103 care spune: prostul nu se poate ab\u021bine s\u0103 nu vocifereze mult \u0219i… uhm, evident, prost, \u00een consecven\u021b\u0103 deplin\u0103 cu sine, de aceea pare majoritar. Probabil c\u0103 nu ai \u00een via\u021ba ta numai specimene na\u0219pa \u0219i enervante, ci, pur \u0219i simplu, \u0103\u0219tia fac foarte mult\u0103 g\u0103l\u0103gie \u0219i cum aten\u021bia noastr\u0103 fuge natural spre lucrurile g\u0103l\u0103gioase \u0219i care ne irit\u0103, te concentrezi pe enervarea pe care \u021bi-o induc specimenele \u0219i nu apuci s\u0103 remarci b\u0103rba\u021bii de bun sim\u021b \u0219i discre\u021bi. \u0102\u0219tia nu simt nevoia s\u0103 se bat\u0103 pe burt\u0103 at\u00e2rn\u00e2nd de pe craca de copac cu capul \u00een jos, ca maimu\u021boii, de aceea se pierd \u00een peisaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar uite ce po\u021bi s\u0103 faci. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Maimu\u021boii g\u0103l\u0103gio\u0219i din online – block direct, nimeni nu are nevoie de \u0103\u0219tia. \u0218i dac\u0103 e\u0219ti online ca influencer \u0219i tr\u0103ie\u0219ti din reclame: \u0103\u0219tia sunt de obicei fali\u021bi, nu cump\u0103r\u0103 nimic, pl\u0103te\u0219ti pentru clickul lor inutil degeaba. \u0218tiu doar s\u0103 posteze libidino\u0219enii dezgust\u0103toare, care contribuie la sentimentul \u201ede ce dau numai de specimene\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Maimu\u021boii g\u0103l\u0103gio\u0219i din familie \u00eei evi\u021bi a\u0219a: refuzi s\u0103 participi la mesele \u0219i evenimentele de familie la care sunt invita\u021bi ei. S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 unchiu-tu Gic\u0103 crede c\u0103 Putin e un sf\u00e2nt \u0219i c\u0103 e dreptul lui s\u0103 calce \u00een picioare Ucraina, care e tarlaua lui tac-su. \u0218i nu doar crede asta, dar te \u0219i freac\u0103 la melodie, \u00een gam\u0103 major\u0103 \u0219i \u00een gam\u0103 minor\u0103, s\u0103 crezi \u0219i tu, altfel e\u0219ti progresista lui \u0218oro\u0219. Ciorb\u0103 de la bunic\u0103-ta po\u021bi m\u00e2nca oric\u00e2nd altc\u00e2ndva. Anun\u021bi c\u0103 nu vii, explici c\u0103 e pe baz\u0103 de prezen\u021ba unchiului Gic\u0103, \u0219i pur \u0219i simplu nu te duci. Dac\u0103 te \u021bii tare, \u0219i tu e\u0219ti decent\u0103, iar \u0103la un bou, la un moment dat familia va gravita natural spre tine. Dac\u0103 nu cumva sunt la fel de boi ca el. Caz \u00een care scapi de \u00eenc\u0103 ni\u0219te boi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Maimu\u021boii g\u0103l\u0103gio\u0219i de la munc\u0103 sunt de obicei maimu\u021boi g\u0103l\u0103gio\u0219i cu mai multe femei, c\u0103 prostia \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 m\u00e2nc\u0103rimi acute \u0219i se cere afar\u0103 nonstop. V\u0103 coaliza\u021bi frumos toate cele pe care le streseaz\u0103 \u0219i \u00eei face\u021bi o pl\u00e2ngere scris\u0103 la Resurse Umane, \u00een care descrie\u021bi tot ce v-a f\u0103cut maimu\u021boiul \u0219i ata\u0219a\u021bi probe: SMS, mailuri libidinoase, comentarii slinoase pe social media, insulte. Documenta\u021bi deranjul f\u0103cut de maimu\u021boi, apoi sit back and enjoy the show. Cu legile de anul trecut legate de h\u0103r\u021buirea la locul de munc\u0103, orice departament de Resurse Umane simte focul sub fundule\u021b c\u00e2nd zici c\u0103 e\u0219ti h\u0103r\u021buit\u0103 \u0219i \u00eei va administra maimu\u021boiului o mare mu** cu crengi. Dac\u0103 nu o face, ceri \u00een scris un document despre pozi\u021bia lor de tip Pilat din Pont \u0219i depui frumos o pl\u00e2ngere la tribunal c\u0103 firma \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 h\u0103r\u021buirea. Vor \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba the hard way c\u0103 dac\u0103 vine una pl\u00e2ns\u0103 cu probe, ac\u021bionezi, nu stai s\u0103-i explici c\u0103 a\u0219a e gigel un simpatic, dar nu-l \u00een\u021belegi tu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Deci, dup\u0103 ce elimini g\u0103l\u0103gia retardat\u0103 din peisaj, po\u021bi s\u0103 fii tu gagic\u0103 modern\u0103 cu ini\u021biativ\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 te duci la tipi care dovedesc bun sim\u021b, s\u0103 te \u00eemprietene\u0219ti cu ei. B\u0103rba\u021bii educa\u021bi \u0219i bine crescu\u021bi nu vor s\u0103 inoportuneze, de aceea nu se manifest\u0103. Dar \u00een general, r\u0103spund pozitiv dac\u0103 v\u0103d c\u0103 au un interlocutor binevoitor \u00een tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i a\u0219a, dragoste mic\u0103, facem s\u0103 nu fim \u00eenconjurate doar de maimu\u021boi. Alegem anturajul, nu l\u0103s\u0103m s\u0103 ajung\u0103 la noi to\u021bi b\u0103tu\u021bii \u00een cap. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i plac sfaturile obiective \u0219i bine inten\u021bionate, sus\u0163ine site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. 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