{"id":25343,"date":"2023-09-16T14:44:54","date_gmt":"2023-09-16T11:44:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25343"},"modified":"2023-09-16T15:13:37","modified_gmt":"2023-09-16T12:13:37","slug":"azi-ma-amuza-dragusanu-iliuta-si-saracia-masculina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/azi-ma-amuza-dragusanu-iliuta-si-saracia-masculina\/","title":{"rendered":"Azi m\u0103 amuz\u0103: Dr\u0103gu\u0219anu, Iliu\u021b\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103r\u0103cia masculin\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>E din nou scandal pe Facebook, prieteni. Genul de flame \u00een care se \u00eenver\u0219uneaz\u0103 mii de comentatori, \u00ee\u0219i iau cel pu\u021bin jum\u0103tate zucc de la o lun\u0103 pentru c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu s\u0103-\u0219i spun\u0103 p\u0103sul \u00eentr-un mod civilizat &#8211; been there, done that, nu judec, doar observ. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poanta \u0219ti\u021bi care e? C\u0103 flame-urile astea \u00eemi apar peste doi-trei ani \u00een memories, \u0219i singura mea reac\u021bie este: pe buneee? Pentru prostia asta irelevant\u0103 am ajuns eu \u00een Facebook jail, s\u0103 pierd engagement \u0219i reach, adic\u0103 money money money? Tristuuuuu\u021b. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deci, iat\u0103 flame-ul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bianca Dr\u0103gu\u0219anu a traversat cu succes podul dinspre statutul de vedet\u0103 TV la cel de influencer online, intuind c\u0103 nici dreq nu se mai uit\u0103 la televizor \u0219i genul de bani cu care e ea obi\u0219nuit\u0103 se fac acum p\u0103 interne\u021bi. Pu\u021bin pe Facebook, a\u0219a \u0219i a\u0219a pe Instagram \u0219i ploaie de opulen\u021b\u0103 pe TikTok, spa\u021biul spre care s-au reorientat bugetele din publicitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Buuun. Numai c\u0103, spre deosebire de TV, unde ai un impresar care te protejeaz\u0103 de masa larg\u0103 de am\u0103r\u0103\u0219teni <em>delusional, <\/em>care nu se prind c\u0103 nu c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103 \u00een trei luni c\u00e2t cheltuie\u0219te ea \u00eentr-un weekend, fiecare platform\u0103 de re\u021bea social\u0103 vine cu mesagerie privat\u0103. \u0218i \u00een mesagerie privat\u0103 se \u00eenfiin\u021beaz\u0103 to\u021bi doreii, gigeii \u0219i costeii, s\u0103-i povesteasc\u0103 am\u0103nun\u021bit tot ce i-ar face, f\u0103r\u0103 o \u00een\u021belegere lucid\u0103 a ce le lipse\u0219te. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bianca nu e genul care s\u0103 aib\u0103 subtilit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i diploma\u021bie, \u0219i eu o sus\u021bin la faza asta. Pentru c\u0103 nici doreii, gigeii \u0219i costeii nu au. Degeaba le descrii pe dup\u0103 plop c\u0103 \u021bie \u00ee\u021bi plac banii \u0219i c\u0103 nu te intereseaz\u0103 unul care prin vacan\u021b\u0103 \u00een\u021belege o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 la Moeciu, la neamuri. \u0218i atunci, Bianca a ales calea seac\u0103 \u0219i tran\u0219ant\u0103: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eUn b\u0103rbat s\u0103rac e un b\u0103rbat prost.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Scopul? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Targetarea mai clar\u0103 a clientelei. Un fel de \u201erog seriozitate\u201d \u0219i \u201ecine nu are cu ce, s\u0103 se ab\u021bin\u0103.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oricine a \u00een\u021beles mesajul. Nu \u0219i filosoful contemporan Silviu Iliu\u021b\u0103, chinuit de o nevoie existen\u021bial\u0103 de a face pe de\u0219teptul cu tot dinadinsul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i Iliu\u021b\u0103 a \u00eenceput s\u0103 citeze nenum\u0103rate nume de scriitori, filosofi, arti\u0219ti \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe care au murit s\u0103raci, \u0219i vai, cum plasticul face azi evalu\u0103ri, \u0219i altele de genul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i a \u00eenceput un circ teribil, \u00eentre incelii care au o semierec\u021bie de c\u00e2te ori o femeie este redus\u0103 verbal de cineva la statutul de obiect. \u0102ia care veneau acum doi ani \u00een sec\u021biunea ta de comentarii cu replici de genul: \u201eUite, m\u0103, ma\u0219ina de sp\u0103lat vorbe\u0219te.\u201d \u0218i \u00eentre progresi\u0219ti care au un trigger pe acest tip de adresare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu aleg s\u0103 nu m\u0103 bag acolo, pentru c\u0103 poate m\u0103 face \u0219i pe mine unul \u201ec***\u0103\u201d \u0219i poate c\u0103 \u00eei r\u0103spund \u201ec***\u0103 e m\u0103-ta aia proast\u0103, care putea s\u0103 te \u0219i educe, dac\u0103 tot te-a f\u0103tat, dar a ales s\u0103 s***\u0103 p***i de camionagii, \u0219i de asta ai ie\u0219it tu un t\u00e2rlete coclit.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i evident, acest r\u0103spuns mi-ar aduce alte 30 de zile de neproductivitate internautic\u0103 \u0219i sc\u0103dere \u00een cifre, so, ABSOLUTELY NOT. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Noroc c\u0103 am blog \u0219i aici eu banez, nu Facebook, prin urmare scriu ce vrea cucule\u021bul meu \u00eenv\u00e2rto\u0219at. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Realitatea e c\u0103 toate femeile din \u021bara asta \u00ee\u0219i iau at\u00e2t de mult bullying \u0219i harassment, \u00eenc\u00e2t au tot dreptul s\u0103 seteze ce limite vor ele. Bianca vrea bani? OK, dreptul ei. M\u0103car o spune r\u0103spicat. M-am s\u0103turat de cele care se bat cu c\u0103r\u0103mida \u00een piept c\u0103 ele nu-s materialiste, apoi pl\u00e2ng c\u0103 uite, b\u0103rbatul nu d\u0103 bani \u00een cas\u0103 pentru nimic \u0219i, \u00een timp ce prietena lor prime\u0219te o excursie \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate de ziua ei, gigelul lor le aduce flori de la Lidl, 3 lei firul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 tot te-ai l\u0103udat c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti materialist\u0103, nu ai de ce s\u0103 te superi pe el c\u0103 te crede \u0219i ac\u021bioneaz\u0103 \u00een conformitate cu informa\u021bia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Chiar cred c\u0103 un pic de materialism e s\u0103n\u0103tos, s\u0103-l responsabilizezi pe alesul inimii tale legat de faptul c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti mama lui altruist\u0103, \u0219i c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 contribuie \u0219i el la bun\u0103starea comun\u0103. Mai ales \u0103ia care nu mi\u0219c\u0103 nimic \u00een cas\u0103 \u0219i slujesc pe post de decora\u021bie prin apartament, ca un ficus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u0103 e minimalizant \u0219i reductiv s\u0103 spui c\u0103 orice b\u0103rbat s\u0103rac e automat prost? Sure. Dar dac\u0103 e s\u0103 facem un calcul simplu al tuturor lucrurilor minimalizante \u0219i reductive pe care le \u00eencas\u0103m toate, pe net \u0219i offline, de la b\u0103rba\u021bi care \u021bip\u0103 repetat la noi c\u0103 nu suntem nimeni \u0219i s\u0103 st\u0103m \u00een col\u021bul nostru &#8211; chit c\u0103 ei ne invadau nou\u0103 col\u021bul, nu noi pe al lor &#8211; a\u0219 zice c\u0103 Bianca nu face dec\u00e2t s\u0103 egaleze un pic scorul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u0103ceam un live pe TikTok, c\u00e2nd a venit un f\u0103nic\u0103 &#8211; un f\u0103nic\u0103 nu e t\u00e2rlete coclit \u0219i \u021b\u0103ran prost ca un gigel, e mai degrab\u0103 genul pov\u0103\u021buitor nesolicitat &#8211; \u0219i a \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 frece la icre legat de melodia mea \u201eJet\u201d. C\u0103, vai, e abuziv\u0103 la adresa b\u0103rba\u021bilor. Chit c\u0103, \u00een \u201eJet\u201d, eul narativ se adreseaz\u0103 \u00een mod explicit celor care abuzeaz\u0103 verbal, \u0219i mesajul e \u201epleac\u0103 de aici, las\u0103-m\u0103 \u00een pace, refuz s\u0103 mai ascult mizeriile tale.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar dup\u0103 ce am explicat asta, am continuat: C\u00e2nd Parazi\u021bii, Bug Mafia, La Familia \u0219i restul trupelor de cocalari care jignesc femeile la liber \u00een ultimii 30 de ani \u00ee\u0219i vor cere scuze pentru discografia integral\u0103, \u00eemi voi cere \u0219i eu scuze pentru \u201eJet\u201d. Nu \u00eenainte. Nici m\u0103car cu o secund\u0103 \u00eenainte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La fel \u0219i cu Bianca. C\u00e2t to\u021bi cocalarii care agreseaz\u0103 verbal femei pe baz\u0103 de aspect fizic \u0219i le reduc la stadiul de obiecte \u00ee\u0219i vor cere scuze pentru asta, va avea \u0219i ea motiv s\u0103-\u0219i cear\u0103 scuze pentru afirma\u021bia \u201eun b\u0103rbat s\u0103rac e un b\u0103rbat prost\u201d. Nici m\u0103car cu o secund\u0103 \u00eenainte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen rest, \u00een \u021bara \u00een care majoritatea b\u0103rba\u021bilor reduc femeia la c\u00e2teva celule \u00een jurul unei g\u0103uri fierbin\u021bi \u0219i umede, e ipocrit ca tot ei s\u0103 se dea de ceasul mor\u021bii c\u00e2nd sunt redu\u0219i la ni\u0219te bancnote \u00een interiorul unui portofel. Trata\u021bi-ne ca pe ni\u0219te oameni, apoi ne pute\u021bi cere s\u0103 facem \u0219i noi acela\u0219i lucru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Forza Bianca. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00ce\u021bi plac articolele de opinie? Sus\u021bine site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E din nou scandal pe Facebook, prieteni. Genul de flame \u00een care se \u00eenver\u0219uneaz\u0103 mii de comentatori, \u00ee\u0219i iau cel pu\u021bin jum\u0103tate zucc de&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":24287,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25343","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/bianca.jpg?fit=1412%2C959&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25343","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25343"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25343\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25347,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25343\/revisions\/25347"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24287"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25343"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25343"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25343"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}