{"id":25389,"date":"2023-09-26T09:36:04","date_gmt":"2023-09-26T06:36:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25389"},"modified":"2026-04-09T15:47:26","modified_gmt":"2026-04-09T12:47:26","slug":"povestea-unei-adictii-de-jocurile-de-noroc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/povestea-unei-adictii-de-jocurile-de-noroc\/","title":{"rendered":"Povestea unei adic\u021bii de jocurile de noroc"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Acesta nu e un mail obi\u0219nuit de po\u0219t\u0103 a redac\u021biei. Persoana care mi l-a trimis nu cere sfaturi. Oricum, nu m-a\u0219 califica s\u0103 dau sfaturi unui dependent de jocuri de noroc, pentru c\u0103 nu am avut niciodat\u0103 o astfel de adic\u021bie. E clar c\u0103 e nevoie \u00een primul r\u00e2nd de voin\u021b\u0103, \u00een al doilea r\u00e2nd de ajutor de specialitate \u0219i, \u00een al treilea r\u00e2nd, de un cerc de prieteni \u0219i de familie care s\u0103 te sus\u021bin\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sper ca aceast\u0103 m\u0103rturie s\u0103 fie un avertisment pentru cei care se simt tenta\u021bi de jocurile de noroc \u0219i s\u0103-i determine s\u0103-\u0219i caute alt hobby. \u00cei voi da \u0219i boost post, s\u0103 circule c\u00e2t mai departe. Dac\u0103 vre\u021bi s\u0103 contribui\u021bi la boost post, ca un fel de campanie privat\u0103 \u201ecet\u0103\u021beni \u00eempotriva jocurilor de noroc\u201d, o pute\u021bi face pe paypalul aferent blogului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iat\u0103 mailul: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bun\u0103,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am citit articolul t\u0103u legat de jocurile de noroc \u0219i voiam s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi ofer \u0219i o alt\u0103 perspectiv\u0103 asupra problemei.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vreau s\u0103 men\u021bionez din start c\u0103 nu doresc nimic, nu \u00ee\u021bi scriu s\u0103 cer\u0219esc mil\u0103, simpatie sau \u0219i mai r\u0103u, bani \ud83d\ude04. Vreau doar s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc povestea mea. Dac\u0103 dore\u0219ti s\u0103 publici ceva din ea, este la latitudinea ta, am doar rug\u0103mintea s\u0103 nu \u00eemi faci public numele.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

(C\u00e2nd vreodat\u0103 fac eu public numele unui om care \u00eemi scrie la po\u0219ta redac\u021biei? Da, dac\u0103 se d\u0103 \u00een stamb\u0103 \u00een sec\u021biunea de comentarii, e ini\u021biativa lui. Dar eu \u00eenc\u0103 niciodat\u0103 nu am expus pe niciunul dintre cei care mi-au scris, indiferent c\u00e2t de m\u00e2rl\u0103ne\u0219te mi-au tratat r\u0103spunsul. Lorena) <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Numele meu este X si sunt dependent\u0103 de jocuri de noroc (deocamdat\u0103 \u00een abstinen\u021b\u0103).<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Povestea a \u00eenceput acum circa doi ani, c\u00e2nd o prieten\u0103 de-a mea a c\u00e2\u0219tigat o sum\u0103 pe un bilet pus la loto Polonia \u0219i fraiera de mine a \u00eentrebat-o ce \u0219i cum a f\u0103cut. Fata mi-a spus, tot \u00een ziua respectiv\u0103 mi-am f\u0103cut \u0219i cont pe Superbet \u0219i am b\u0103gat 50 lei…eh, \u0219i de aici, nebunia. Dac\u0103 po\u021bi crede, din cei 50 lei am f\u0103cut 5000 (cea mai mare pierdere a juc\u0103torului este primul c\u00e2\u0219tig – extrem de adev\u0103rat\u0103 vorba asta). Am continuat s\u0103 joc, ini\u021bial la caterinc\u0103, dar apoi s-a \u00eengro\u0219at caterinca \u0219i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 bag sume din ce \u00een ce mai mari, mize din ce \u00een ce mai mari, p\u00e2n\u0103 la un moment dat, c\u00e2nd eram pe dou\u0103 loterii cu miza destul de mare pe num\u0103r, \u0219i pac, le-a picat sistemul. Numerele mele, conform site-urilor oficiale, c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103toare, dr\u0103gu\u021bul de Superbet…ne pare r\u0103u, eroare de sistem, suge-o. Problema a fost c\u0103 banii \u0103ia de \u00eei jucasem cam erau destina\u021bi c\u0103tre altceva. \u00cen fine, i-am acoperit, dar de acolo a cam \u00eenceput problema. Superbet, ca s\u0103 se recompenseze, cumva m-a f\u0103cut client VIP, \u00eemi tot d\u0103deau bonusuri, eu tot b\u0103gam bani, ba c\u00e2\u0219tigam, ba pierdeam. \u00centr-un final, m-am sup\u0103rat pe ei \u0219i m-am autoexclus dar ce te faci c\u0103 mai sunt \u00eenc\u0103 42 de site-uri online de pariuri si p\u0103c\u0103nele. Pot spune c\u0103, la momentul \u0103sta, am cont (\u0219i m-am \u0219i autoexclus) pe absolut toate. Toata chestia asta a \u021binut aproape doi ani, timp \u00een care am pierdut foarte mul\u021bi bani, am intrat \u00een foarte multe datorii – de a\u0219a manier\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t am ajuns s\u0103 \u00eemi cer insolven\u021ba pe persoan\u0103 fizic\u0103, pe care, \u00een momentul \u0103sta, m\u0103 chinui s\u0103 o finalizez, s\u0103 mi se stabileasc\u0103 o rat\u0103 decent\u0103 lunar\u0103, pentru a putea s\u0103 las toat\u0103 nebunia asta \u00een spate \u0219i a putea s\u0103 \u00eemi continui via\u021ba.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i acum s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi povestesc mai multe despre mine. Sunt femeie, am 40 de ani, sunt c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103, am un copil, am o func\u021bie de middle management, c\u00e2\u0219tig peste medie. Deci, problema nu este neap\u0103rat a b\u0103rba\u021bilor \u0219i nici a celor de joas\u0103 spe\u021b\u0103 sau f\u0103r\u0103 \u0219coal\u0103, sau cum se mai g\u00e2nde\u0219te lumea c\u00e2nd men\u021bionezi dependen\u021ba de jocuri de noroc. Problema este rush-ul acela, c\u00e2nd c\u00e2\u0219tigi, plus c\u0103 exist\u0103 speran\u021ba c\u0103 vei reu\u0219i cumva prin vreun miracol s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi recuperezi m\u0103car ce ai investit. \u0218i tot \u00eencerci \u0219i speri. Evident, casa c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103 \u00eentotdeauna, \u0219i nu pentru c\u0103 ar fi infaibil\u0103, ci pentru c\u0103 juc\u0103torul nu se poate opri \u0219i, dup\u0103 ce c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103 de 2 ori suma b\u0103gat\u0103, joac\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 pierde de 4.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Personal, motivele pentru care am jucat \u0219i am tot continuat, de\u0219i creierul \u00eemi spunea c\u0103 nu e bine ce fac au \u021binut de mediul familial. Am o mam\u0103 abuziv\u0103 emo\u021bional, care toat\u0103 via\u021ba a fost o drama queenl cu care sunt nevoit\u0103 s\u0103 convie\u021buiesc pentru c\u0103 are o pensie de doi lei \u0219i nu mi-a\u0219 permite \u0219i chirie, \u0219i s\u0103 o \u021bin pe ea cu tot cu cas\u0103, iar s-o las \u00een plata Domnului, s\u0103 nu m\u0103 mai intereseze, nu m\u0103 las\u0103 inima. Sunt \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie cu un b\u0103rbat pe care de altfel \u00eel iubesc \u0219i care m\u0103 iube\u0219te<\/strong> (ca dovad\u0103 c\u0103 a reu\u0219it s\u0103 ierte nebunia mea \u0219i \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 sus\u021bin\u0103 s\u0103 ies), dar care este oarecum limitat \u0219i lipsit de ambi\u021bii de orice fel, ceea ce m\u0103 frustreaz\u0103 \u0219i m-a frustrat \u00eentotdeauna.<\/strong> Un alt motiv pentru care nu am spus stop mai din timp a fost faptul c\u0103 nu \u0219tia nimeni ce fac \u0219i, cumva, tot trebuia s\u0103 rulez bani, s\u0103 fie m\u00e2ncare \u00een cas\u0103, s\u0103 \u00eemi achit obliga\u021biile \u0219i am tot \u021binut-o din iner\u021bie, din \u00eemprumuturi, din c\u00e2\u0219tiguri, m\u0103 rog, \u00een\u021belegi ideea. Am putut efectiv s\u0103 spun stop atunci c\u00e2nd am spus familiei \u0219i prietenilor cu ce m\u0103 confrunt. Am avut noroc de oameni foarte ok care m-au sus\u021binut, m-au ajutat \u0219i nu m-au judecat. M\u0103 rog, dup\u0103 ce s-au oprit din \u00eenjurat, f\u0103cut proast\u0103 \u0219i albie de porci \u00een general \ud83d\ude00.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cred c\u0103 norocul meu mare a fost c\u0103 n-am fost juc\u0103tor de cazino fizic, am repulsie chiar de locurile de acest gen. Am jucat doar \u00een online \u0219i, de acolo, m-am putut autoexclude.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 ar fi s\u0103 dau un sfat juc\u0103torilor, ar fi acela s\u0103 spun\u0103, s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 cu familia, cu prietenii, s\u0103 nu \u00eencerce s\u0103 treac\u0103 singuri prin asta. \u0218i, \u00een plus, s\u0103 joace cu limit\u0103 autoimpus\u0103, jocul f\u0103r\u0103 limit\u0103 duce la pierderi nelimitate.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen fine, cam asta e ce am vrut s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00ce\u021bi urez o zi minunat\u0103 \u0219i continu\u0103 s\u0103 scrii, pentru c\u0103 o faci foarte bine.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te pup.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

X.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00ce\u021bi mul\u021bumesc pentru curaj \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi doresc mult\u0103 putere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00ce\u021bi plac articolele de opinie? Sus\u021bine site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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