{"id":25402,"date":"2023-09-30T11:39:01","date_gmt":"2023-09-30T08:39:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25402"},"modified":"2023-09-30T16:08:20","modified_gmt":"2023-09-30T13:08:20","slug":"zece-motive-pentru-care-il-respect-pe-dragos-patraru","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/zece-motive-pentru-care-il-respect-pe-dragos-patraru\/","title":{"rendered":"Zece motive pentru care \u00eel respect pe Drago\u0219 P\u0103traru"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ieri am fost la posibil cea mai bun\u0103 lansare de carte din acest an. Despre carte nu pot spune mare lucru, c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 nu am citit dec\u00e2t c\u00e2teva pagini, dar \u00eel respect \u00eendeajuns pe autor, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 o recomand chiar \u0219i a\u0219a. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este vorba de lansarea c\u0103r\u021bii \u201eAten\u021bie cu inten\u021bie\u201d de Drago\u0219 P\u0103traru, un reprezentant de cinste al unei specii pe cale de dispari\u021bie numit\u0103 jurnalist. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u021binut neap\u0103rat s\u0103 particip la aceast\u0103 lansare,  ba chiar s\u0103 fiu paharnic \u00een cadrul ei, pentru c\u0103 am un respect imens fa\u021b\u0103 de Drago\u0219 P\u0103traru. Iar acest respect are urm\u0103toarele motive: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>a) P\u0103traru e, cum spuneam mai sus, un jurnalist. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sunt fan Starea na\u021biei. Sunt fan Starea na\u021biei de c\u00e2nd era la TV, \u0219i sunt fan Starea na\u021biei \u00een versiunea ei online, care, a\u0219 puncta eu, e chiar mai bun\u0103 dec\u00e2t cea de la TV, pentru c\u0103 lipse\u0219te un factor cockblocant: idiotul plasat \u00een pozi\u021bie de putere care s\u0103-\u021bi spun\u0103 ce s\u0103 faci \u0219i ce s\u0103 nu faci. Un factor de care televiziunile din Rom\u00e2nia dau pe dinafar\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ca jurnalist, P\u0103traru are un stil foarte matter-of-fact, sec \u0219i la obiect, f\u0103r\u0103 basme, clickbait, narativ\u0103 nu \u0219tiu de care \u0219i isterie de muiere la ciclu. A\u0219a st\u0103 treaba, ok, o zi bun\u0103. Iubesc acest stil de reporting, de o limpezime \u0219i o claritate care nu las\u0103 loc de \u201esta\u021bi s\u0103 vede\u021bi\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>b) P\u0103traru e un survivor autentic <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen idiotland-ul televiziunilor rom\u00e2ne\u0219ti, s\u0103 fii ca P\u0103traru e extrem de incomod pentru to\u021bi impostorii, prin urmare, l-au sabotat din toate pozi\u021biile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar P\u0103traru nu a cedat, \u0219i dup\u0103 ce a rupt rela\u021bia cu ultima dintre ele, Prima TV, a avut curajul, temeritatea \u0219i \u00eencrederea \u00een sine s\u0103 devin\u0103 propriul produc\u0103tor \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be cum s\u0103 transforme Starea na\u021biei \u00eentr-o emisiune online de succes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Genul \u0103sta de trecere care presupune s\u0103 preiei tu c\u00e2rma, inclusiv managerial \u0219i financiar, \u0219i s\u0103 duci o produc\u021bie scump\u0103 pe umerii t\u0103i, e ca un salt mortal. Ca un \u201etotul sau nimic\u201d. \u0218i succesul cu care s-a adaptat la online i-a adus totul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>c) P\u0103traru e unul dintre pu\u021binii nemisogini celebri <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen general, b\u0103rbatul rom\u00e2n celebru ne poveste\u0219te cum locul femeii e la crati\u021b\u0103, cum e cazul s\u0103 dai celulita jos dac\u0103 vrei prietenia lui \u0219i cum trece el prin femei ca intercity prin gara D\u00e2rste. \u0218i, m\u0103 rog, varia\u021bii pe tem\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Drago\u0219 P\u0103traru nu doar c\u0103 a oferit \u0219anse profesionale extrem de oneste \u0219i lipsite de condi\u021bii ascunse mai multor cuno\u0219tin\u021be ale mele femei, dar e poate singurul b\u0103rbat celebru pe care l-am auzit vorbind despre valoarea real\u0103 a muncii domestice neremunerate. Cea care ghiolbanului de r\u00e2nd i se cuvine de la sine, pentru c\u0103 e \u201etreab\u0103 de femeie\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>d) P\u0103traru a reu\u0219it o transformare personal\u0103 demn\u0103 de tot respectul <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u00eel \u021bine\u021bi minte pe P\u0103traru de acum c\u00e2\u021biva ani, \u00ee\u021bi era mai u\u0219or s\u0103-l sari dec\u00e2t s\u0103-l ocole\u0219ti. \u0218i nu judec. Dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 gr\u0103besc s\u0103 prind metroul \u00een pasaj la Unirii \u0219i nu-\u021bi plimbi agale sl\u0103ninile chiar \u00een fa\u021ba mea, \u00een aglomera\u021bie, s\u0103-l pierd din cauza ta, te respect pe tine \u0219i dreptul t\u0103u de a-\u021bi tr\u0103i via\u021ba cum dore\u0219ti, cu c\u00e2te kilograme alegi s\u0103 ai. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nu am cum s\u0103 nu aplaud genul de voin\u021b\u0103 care l-a f\u0103cut pe P\u0103traru s\u0103-\u0219i schimbe radical alimenta\u021bia \u0219i modul de via\u021b\u0103, \u0219i s\u0103-l fac\u0103 s\u0103 arate mai bine dec\u00e2t la 25 de ani. \u0218tiu c\u00e2t\u0103 munc\u0103, c\u00e2t\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2nare \u0219i c\u00e2te sacrificii presupune o astfel de schimbare. Iar eu am momente c\u00e2nd le am, \u0219i momente c\u00e2nd \u00eemi bag piciorul. Respect oamenii care nu-\u0219i bag\u0103 niciodat\u0103 piciorul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>e) P\u0103traru e un excelent intervievator <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Interviul e o art\u0103 \u00een sine. Unii uit\u0103 c\u0103 ei sunt gazda \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i etaleaz\u0103 la nesf\u00e2r\u0219it egoul, nel\u0103s\u00e2nd invitatul s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103. Al\u021bii nu se documenteaz\u0103 \u0219i, din trei \u00eentreb\u0103ri, te prinzi c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu cu cine stau de vorb\u0103. Al\u021bii sunt at\u00e2t de impertinen\u021bi \u0219i de obraznici, de zici c\u0103 sunt procurori putini\u0219ti interog\u00e2nd un du\u0219man al poporului, \u00eenainte s\u0103-l aru&#8230; pardon, \u00eenainte ca el s\u0103 se arunce de la etajul 56. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0103traru de\u021bine arta aceea subtil\u0103, de a-l face pe vorbitor s\u0103 se simt\u0103 auzit \u0219i \u00een\u021beles, de a-l provoca doar c\u00e2t s\u0103-l \u021bin\u0103 pe faz\u0103, nu s\u0103-l bage \u00een defensiv\u0103, \u0219i de a-l urechea subtil c\u00e2nd d\u0103 de BS. Ceea ce face interviurile lui cu adev\u0103rat interesante. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>f) P\u0103traru e un filantrop low-key <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A f\u0103cut nenum\u0103rate gesturi generoase f\u0103r\u0103 tamtam, care nu au ap\u0103rut nic\u0103ieri \u00een media. Pentru simplul motiv c\u0103 a \u00een\u021beles problemele unor oameni \u0219i a avut cu ce s\u0103-i ajute. \u0218tiu de chestii, dar nu intru \u00een detalii, pentru c\u0103 nu e treaba mea s\u0103 expun fapte bune pe care cei \u00een cauz\u0103 nu le asum\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>g) E un om care \u00een\u021belege s\u0103r\u0103cia, trauma \u0219i lipsurile, ceea ce \u00eel face s\u0103 se ab\u021bin\u0103 de la ra\u021bionamente ignorante \u0219i arogante. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seara trecut\u0103, la lansarea de carte am avut un moment de bonding \u00een sinea mea. Se discuta despre abandonul \u0219colar \u0219i despre importan\u021ba unui buget de minimum 6% pentru educa\u021bie. (Avantajul de a avea o emisiune care atinge toate subiectele de sub soare era faptul c\u0103 orice conversa\u021bie era on topic.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i P\u0103traru explic\u0103 faptul c\u0103 un mod de a preveni abandonul \u0219colar e mai banal dec\u00e2t ai crede: ofer\u0103-le copiilor o mas\u0103 cald\u0103. Mul\u021bi n-o primesc acas\u0103 \u0219i simplul fapt c\u0103 vor avea ce m\u00e2nca \u00eei va motiva s\u0103-\u0219i continue educa\u021bia. Un argument pe care nu \u00eel ai dec\u00e2t dac\u0103 ai o \u00een\u021belegere \u0219i o empatie profund\u0103 asupra s\u0103r\u0103ciei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i hopa un p\u0103rerist din mul\u021bime: c\u0103 ce, c\u0103 rolul \u0219colii e educa\u021bia, \u0219i copiii ar trebui s\u0103 vrea s\u0103 se educe, nu s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce. \u0102sta probabil c\u0103 avusese p\u0103rin\u021bi care-i asiguraser\u0103 totul \u00een via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i nu \u0219tia cum e s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi bea tac-tu toat\u0103 aloca\u021bia \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eenjure dac\u0103 \u00eel \u00eentrebi ce m\u00e2nca\u021bi azi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>h) E un om care-\u021bi explic\u0103 de ce e important s\u0103 sus\u021bii contentul pe care-l apreciezi. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Exist\u0103 jurnalismul de trust &#8211; cel care sluje\u0219te interese politice, financiare sau de alt\u0103 natur\u0103 &#8211; iar acolo sunt bani g\u00e2rl\u0103. \u0218i exist\u0103 jurnalismul creat de dragul de a pune punctul pe i. Pe acesta din urm\u0103 nu \u00eel finan\u021beaz\u0103 nimeni din spate, prin urmare, nu poate exista dec\u00e2t prin contribu\u021bia receptorului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Faptul c\u0103 P\u0103traru explic\u0103 asta, loud and clear, contribuie la reducerea mentalit\u0103\u021bii misecuveniste a gigelului de Rom\u00e2nia \u0219i pentru asta, \u00eei sunt recunosc\u0103toare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>i) E un entertainer<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Experien\u021ba acumulat\u0103 \u00een lumina reflectorului l-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 c\u0103 adev\u0103rurile ad\u00e2nci \u0219i grele servite \u00een mod sumbru \u0219i ap\u0103s\u0103tor sunt privilegiul pensionarelor de 70+. Prin urmare, discursul lui e condimentat cu suficient umor \u0219i suficient\u0103 ironie, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 stimuleze mai degrab\u0103 hazul de necaz, dec\u00e2t jalea din r\u0103runchi. Ar putea face f\u0103r\u0103 probleme stand up comedy, dac\u0103 n-ar prefera s\u0103 stea a\u0219ezat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>j) E un t\u0103tic. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I meeean&#8230; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"526\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13.png?resize=700%2C526&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25405\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13.png?resize=1024%2C770&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13.png?resize=300%2C226&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13.png?resize=150%2C113&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13.png?resize=768%2C578&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13.png?resize=1536%2C1155&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13.png?w=2048&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/image-13.png?w=1400&amp;ssl=1 1400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Foto: Telebuzz.ro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 un astfel de om are pove\u0219ti interesante de spus, recomand cu c\u0103ldur\u0103 cartea. Renun\u021ba\u021bi la aten\u021bia dezl\u00e2nat\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103ut\u0103toare de \u0219oc, \u0219i \u00eencerca\u021bi ni\u0219te Aten\u021bie cu inten\u021bie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ce\u021bi plac articolele de opinie? 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