{"id":25451,"date":"2023-10-09T10:49:31","date_gmt":"2023-10-09T07:49:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25451"},"modified":"2023-10-09T10:49:33","modified_gmt":"2023-10-09T07:49:33","slug":"posta-redactiei-si-noi-avem-voie-sa-ne-distram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-si-noi-avem-voie-sa-ne-distram\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: \u0218i noi avem voie s\u0103 ne distr\u0103m!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimi(te)\u021bi problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mesajul de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Hey, Lore<\/strong>! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Am citit ieri la tine alt text din Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei, \u00een care \u00eei spuneai uneia s\u0103 rup\u0103 rela\u021bia cu unul care vrea doar s**. Mie \u00eemi displace foarte tare cli\u0219eul \u0103sta, c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u021bii vor doar sex, iar femeile vor rela\u021bie. Eu, de exemplu, \u00eei caut numai pentru s**. Am bani, nu m-ar interesa o rela\u021bie pentru c\u0103 m-ar \u00eencurca \u00een tot ce am de f\u0103cut, nu m-a\u0219 m\u0103rita cu nimeni pentru c\u0103 nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 am avere comun\u0103 cu un gigel care nu vine cu nimic, sau vine cu mult mai pu\u021bin, \u0219i s** e tot ce vreau de la un b\u0103rbat. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>O fat\u0103 ca mine se enerveaz\u0103 c\u00e2nd cite\u0219te texte despre cum toate femeile vor rela\u021bii! <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sper s\u0103 nu te superi pe mine c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi spun adev\u0103rul \u00een fa\u021b\u0103, dar am citit chestia aia \u0219i mi-a venit s\u0103 dau cu mobilul de p\u0103m\u00e2nt. Tu e\u0219ti singur\u0103 \u0219i te descurci de minune singur\u0103, de ce le \u00eenve\u021bi pe altele s\u0103 cer\u0219easc\u0103 rela\u021bii? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not\u0103 Lorena: Am dat eu ** pe cuv\u00e2ntul bucluca\u0219, pentru c\u0103 Google s-a c\u0103lug\u0103rit recent \u0219i \u00eemi demonetizeaz\u0103 blogul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0103 citim \u00eempreun\u0103 articolul \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103. <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/mi-as-dori-o-relatie\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/mi-as-dori-o-relatie\/\">Aici<\/a><\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Textul nu e despre \u201etoate femeile\u201d \u0219i ce ar trebui s\u0103 fac\u0103 toate femeile, ci un r\u0103spuns punctual adresat unei cititoare care explic\u0103 exact asta: c\u0103 EA vrea o rela\u021bie. Nu tu, EA. Nu toate textele de pe internet sunt despre tine, iar dac\u0103 \u00eemi scrie o persoan\u0103 care vrea o rela\u021bie, privesc lucrurile din perspectiva ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i subliniez \u0219i aici ce am spus acolo: PENTRU O PERSOAN\u0102 CARE VREA O RELA\u021aIE, s\u0103 fie manipulat\u0103 \u00eentr-o  situa\u021bie de tip beneficii e worst thing ever. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 persoana va aborda situa\u021bia de tip beneficii cu iubire, grij\u0103, emo\u021bii, temeri \u0219i muuult mai mult\u0103 munc\u0103 dec\u00e2t una care \u0219tie c\u0103 merge la tufut, iar la final, cheam\u0103 un Uber \u0219i se \u00eentoarce \u00een conacul ei opulent din Snagov, unde o doare ad\u00e2nc \u00een clitoris de gigelul respectiv, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een momentul \u00een care i se face din nou chef de ac\u021biune acolo jos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tu sari \u00een Uber \u0219i nu-\u021bi pas\u0103, ea urc\u0103 \u00een Uber pentru c\u0103 i-l cheam\u0103 gigelul \u0219i pl\u00e2nge \u00een pumni c\u0103 e \u00eentr-o situa\u021bie \u00een care sentimentele ei sunt folosite pentru a fi tratat\u0103 ca o lucr\u0103toare sexual\u0103, minus onorariul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mbun. Po\u021bi face s** casual f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te ata\u0219ezi \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 suferi \u00eengrozitor? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>More power to you, \u0219i vezi s\u0103 folose\u0219ti prezervativ, s\u0103 previi bolile venerice, c\u0103 penicilina-i na\u0219pa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar cine nu poate nu are de ce s\u0103 se mint\u0103 c\u0103 poate. Cel mai tare nu suferim c\u00e2nd ne mint al\u021bii, ci c\u00e2nd ne min\u021bim noi pe noi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu personal am fost mare fan\u0103 a s** casual p\u00e2n\u0103 pe la 30 \u0219i ceva, c\u00e2nd m-am \u00eendr\u0103gostit \u0219i am suferit ca un c\u00e2ine b\u0103tut. \u0218i nici n-am avut ce comenta, pentru c\u0103 situa\u021bia casual o ini\u021biasem eu. \u0218i de atunci am devenit mult mai circumspect\u0103 legat de ceea ce fac \u0219i cu cine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Concluzia r\u0103spunsului: f\u0103 ce e cel mai bine pentru tine \u0219i las\u0103-m\u0103 pe mine s\u0103-i ajut pe al\u021bii cu sfaturile potrivite pentru ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Merci de \u00een\u021belegere, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 apreciezi aceast\u0103 rubric\u0103, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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