Am citit recent dou\u0103 comentarii la texte ale tale, cred c\u0103 ambele de la aceleea\u0219i cititoare, care povestea c\u00e2t de mizerabil a fost tratat\u0103 \u00een spital at\u00e2t \u00een timpul sarcinii, c\u00e2t \u0219i la na\u0219tere. Comentarii care m-au umplut de indignare pentru c\u0103 mi-au amintit de propria experien\u021b\u0103 \u00eentr-o maternitate. Nu \u00ee\u021bi scriu neap\u0103rat pentru un sfat, ci mai mult pentru c\u0103 simt nevoia s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc, dup\u0103 mul\u021bi ani, ce am tr\u0103it \u0219i ce am v\u0103zut acolo. Cine \u0219tie, poate, dac\u0103 \u021bi se pare ok s\u0103 publici pe blog, cite\u0219te cineva \u0219i se g\u00e2nde\u0219te de mai multe ori \u00eenainte s\u0103: A. Nasc\u0103 la stat, \u00een Rom\u00e2nia B. Aib\u0103 un copil \u00een situa\u021bia \u00een care ar fi nevoit\u0103 s\u0103 nasc\u0103 la stat, \u00een Rom\u00e2nia C. Spun\u0103 oric\u0103rei femei c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 fac\u0103 un copil (!!!v\u0103 rog opri\u021bi-v\u0103!!!)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n E anul 2017, am 19 ani, r\u0103m\u00e2n \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103 dintr-un act protejat, speram eu, \u00een urma unui accident de care nu s-a prins nimeni atunci. \u00cemi dau seama \u00een s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na 6 de sarcin\u0103. Fac o ecografie, ceva nu e ok, la foarte pu\u021bin timp dup\u0103, pierd sarcina. Ajung la maternitatea Polizu din Bucure\u0219ti singur\u0103, cu autobuzul, s\u00e2nger\u00e2nd. M\u0103 controleaz\u0103 cineva \u00een timp ce vorbe\u0219te cu altcineva despre mur\u0103turi. “Ai pierdut sarcina”, mi se spune indiferent, \u00eentre dou\u0103 re\u021bete. Sunt internat\u0103, urmeaz\u0103 s\u0103 mi se fac\u0103 chiuretaj \u00eentr-una din urm\u0103toarele zile.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n E noapte, sunt \u00een salon cu alte 5 femei, una dintre ele trece prin acela\u0219i lucru ca mine. Pierderea unei sarcini, pentru cine nu \u0219tie (\u0219i \u00eei doresc s\u0103 nici nu afle), este ca o menstrua\u021bie de vreo 50 de ori mai intens\u0103 \u00eenso\u021bit\u0103 de contrac\u021bii similare cu cele de la na\u0219tere – a\u0219a mi s-a spus, eu personal nu am experien\u021ba unei na\u0219teri ca s\u0103 compar. Cealalt\u0103 fat\u0103 \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 se ridice din pat, le\u0219in\u0103 de durere \u0219i cade pe jos. \u00cencerc\u0103m s\u0103 g\u0103sim pe cineva, trece o or\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 vine asistenta (ceea ce de altfel nu cred c\u0103 e vina ei, personalul nu p\u0103rea mult \u0219i erau femei cu urgen\u021be mult mai mari \u00een spital). Se aude pe geam cum url\u0103 copiii abandona\u021bi. Ei stau la ultimul etaj, cel la care nu ajunge liftul, \u00eemi poveste\u0219te o coleg\u0103 de salon.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A doua zi se url\u0103 la mine din diverse motive. C\u0103 am fost la baie singur\u0103, nu aveam voie s\u0103 m\u0103 ridic. C\u0103 nu mi-am a\u0219ezat a\u0219ternutul frumos \u00eenainte s\u0103 treac\u0103 medicul de gard\u0103 prin salon (parc\u0103 nu aveam voie s\u0103 m\u0103 ridic). C\u0103 le\u0219in c\u00e2nd mi se ia s\u00e2nge (am fobie de ace, scz, jur c\u0103 nu o fac inten\u021bionat). C\u0103 nu \u021bin m\u00e2na cu perfuzia bine. C\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103znesc s\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 poate s\u0103 \u00eemi spun\u0103 cineva \u00een ce zi voi fi operat\u0103 (nu am voie s\u0103 m\u00e2n\u00e2nc \u00een ziua aia, dar nu \u0219tiu c\u00e2nd e ziua aia, a\u0219a c\u0103 nu m\u0103n\u00e2nc deloc 2 zile). C\u0103 nu mi-am anun\u021bat p\u0103rin\u021bii c\u0103 sunt la spital, p\u0103rin\u021bii sunt cei mai apropiate persoane, zbiar\u0103 o asistent\u0103 care \u00een mod clar nu \u00eemi cunoa\u0219te p\u0103rin\u021bii. Nu zbiar\u0103 doar la mine, ci la toat\u0103 lumea \u00een afar\u0103 de fata care i-a dat 100 lei.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A\u0219tept opera\u021bia. \u00centre timp, aflu c\u0103, \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, studentele au dreptul la \u00eentrerupere de sarcin\u0103 gratuit\u0103, cel pu\u021bin teoretic. Eu nu \u0219tiam asta, \u0219i tocmai ce am dat acum un search s\u0103 verific dac\u0103 mai e a\u0219a. Este, dar cu greu dai de informa\u021bie. \u00cen fine, sunt tot \u00een spital, v\u0103d tot felul de scene care \u00eemi demonstreaz\u0103 c\u0103 personalul maternit\u0103\u021bii (\u0219i b\u0103rba\u021bi, \u0219i femei) chiar trebuie s\u0103 urasc\u0103 grav femeile. Mergi pe hol \u0219i vezi prin u\u0219ile deschise (!) cum sunt examinate celelalte femei pe masa ginecologului. Nimeni nu se obose\u0219te s\u0103 \u00eenchid\u0103 u\u0219a. Medicii spun lucruri ca “la toate v\u0103 place c\u00e2nd sta\u021bi cr\u0103cite \u0219i dup\u0103 v\u0103 pl\u00e2nge\u021bi c\u0103 v\u0103 doare” \u0219i alte lucruri inumane pe care le-am uitat, din fericire. \u0218i sunt cu at\u00e2t mai inumane cu c\u00e2t aici vorbim de femei gravide, adic\u0103 femei vulnerabile, sensibile, unele cu ni\u0219te dureri sau complica\u021bii \u00eengrozitoare.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Revenind, vine ziua cu opera\u021bia. O alt\u0103 coleg\u0103 de salon m\u0103 \u00eenva\u021b\u0103: 300 lei la doctor \u0219i 100 la anestezist\u0103. Nu le dau nimic. \u00cen sala de opera\u021bie tot a\u0219a, u\u0219a r\u0103m\u00e2ne larg deschis\u0103. Mi se face anestezie pe grab\u0103 \u0219i se \u00eencepe opera\u021bia \u00eenainte s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i fac\u0103 anestezia efectul. Mai sunt vreo 6-7 femei care a\u0219teapt\u0103. Simt cum se umbl\u0103 prin mine, anestezista zice c\u0103 sunt curv\u0103 eu \u0219i toate din ziua de azi \u0219i c\u0103 ea la 19 ani se juca cu p\u0103pu\u0219ile. Pl\u00e2ng pe masa de opera\u021bie. Alt\u0103 asistent\u0103 zice c\u0103 pl\u00e2ng pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 doare sufletul, ceea ce nu e neap\u0103rat fals, dar anestezia aia general\u0103 ar fi ajutat. M\u0103car \u00ee\u0219i face efectul dup\u0103 opera\u021bie \u0219i adorm.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu prea \u00eemi doream eu copii nici \u00eenainte, dar experien\u021ba asta m-a convins c\u0103 \u00een orice caz nu o s\u0103 \u00eei am \u00eentr-o maternitate de stat. Eu sunt ok, am trecut peste, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 verific prezervativele mai atent. \u00cen schimb m\u0103 \u00eentristeaz\u0103 c\u0103 \u0103sta e tratamentul de care au parte at\u00e2tea femei care chiar \u00ee\u0219i doresc s\u0103 fie mame.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Mul\u021bumesc c\u0103 ai citit,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n Am dat un pic de google s\u0103 v\u0103d ce mai spune lumea despre maternitatea Polizu. Numit\u0103 ironic \u201einstitutul de ocrotire al mamei \u0219i copilului.\u201d C\u00e2t\u0103 ocrotire ofer\u0103, se vede din povestea ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i p\u0103rerile se pot vedea aici<\/a><\/strong>. Foarte multe o confirm\u0103 pe a ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i da, \u0219i eu a\u0219 na\u0219te DOAR privat, dar \u0219tii care e durerea mea? C\u0103 \u00een continuare CASS e obligatoriu, c\u0103 10% din veniturile noastre brute se duc s\u0103 finan\u021beze aceast\u0103 monstruozitate. \u0218i a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 \u00eencurajez toate femeile care au p\u0103\u021bit astfel de atrocit\u0103\u021bi \u00een cel mai vulnerabil moment al lor s\u0103 fac\u0103 reclama\u021bii \u0219i pl\u00e2ngeri. La minister, la poli\u021bie, la tribunal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pot \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 personalul e pu\u021bin \u0219i c\u0103 nu aveau timp de toat\u0103 lumea, dar refuz s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg zbieretele \u0219i insultele. Nu, unora chiar nu le-a pl\u0103cut s\u0103 stea cr\u0103cite; unele au fost victimele unui viol, ale unui \u0219antaj sau, pur \u0219i simplu, sunt at\u00e2t de neiubite \u00een familiile lor \u00eenc\u00e2t au f\u0103cut sex s\u0103 simt\u0103 \u0219i ele m\u0103car o und\u0103 de tandre\u021be din partea cuiva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i refuz s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg anestezia f\u0103cut\u0103 la tu-i-m\u0103-sa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen concluzie, mul\u021bumesc pentru m\u0103rturisire \u0219i sper ca acest text s\u0103 circule c\u00e2t mai mult. Ca \u0219i \u00een cazul celui despre dependen\u021ba de jocuri de noroc, accept dona\u021bii pe Paypal s\u0103-i dau boost. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Be strong, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 apreciezi aceast\u0103 rubric\u0103, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. 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