{"id":25473,"date":"2023-10-16T10:26:02","date_gmt":"2023-10-16T07:26:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25473"},"modified":"2023-10-16T10:26:04","modified_gmt":"2023-10-16T07:26:04","slug":"despre-incredere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-incredere\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre \u00eencredere"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u00cen timpul cursurilor de actorie de la facultate se face un exerci\u021biu pe care eu nu l-am putut duce la cap\u0103t niciodat\u0103. Exerci\u021biul de \u00eencredere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Arat\u0103 a\u0219a: un student se las\u0103 s\u0103 cad\u0103 \u00een spate, cu toat\u0103 greutatea. Grupa e acolo, s\u0103-l prind\u0103. e traducerea literal\u0103 a expresiei \u201ei got your back\u201d. \u0218i, de\u0219i \u0219tiam ra\u021bional c\u0103 m\u0103 vor prinde, c\u0103 e un profesor acolo \u0219i le va pune pielea pe b\u0103\u021b dac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 un accident, niciodat\u0103 n-am putut s\u0103 fac exerci\u021biul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219a e cu copiii traumatiza\u021bi. Unii ajung s\u0103 se v\u0103ic\u0103reasc\u0103 oricui vrea s\u0103-i asculte, al\u021bii deviin cet\u0103\u021bi \u00eenchise \u00een sine, cu un sistem de defensiv\u0103 care va sf\u0103r\u00e2ma orice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe de alt\u0103 parte, s\u0103 fii femeie \u00een Rom\u00e2nia e o defensiv\u0103 24 \/ 7 \/ 365. Mereu c\u00e2te un prost are o p\u0103rere despre ce ar trebui tu s\u0103 faci cu via\u021ba ta, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 de\u021bin\u0103 date suficiente \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 cont de necesit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i priorit\u0103\u021bile tale. Mereu c\u00e2te un prost se d\u0103 agresiv la tine \u0219i nu \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 nu. Mereu c\u00e2te un prost se r\u0103zbun\u0103 pentru c\u0103 nu te poate manipula cum crede c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 te manipuleze. Mereu c\u00e2te un prost propag\u0103 minciuni despre tine \u0219i al\u021bi pro\u0219ti, care nu \u0219tiu nimic despre tine, \u00eel cred. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen condi\u021biile astea, singurul lucru pe care nu apuci s\u0103-l experimentezi niciodat\u0103, de\u0219i \u021bi-ar pl\u0103cea, este \u00eencrederea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i \u00een fond, e un lucru bun. Oamenii \u00eencrez\u0103tori sunt cei care se aleg cu sufletul zob. Eu n-am prea luat \u021bepe \u00een ultima vreme. Dac\u0103 e colaborare, cer banii \u00een avans sau fac contract cu penalit\u0103\u021bi \u00een caz de \u00eent\u00e2rzieri. Dac\u0103 e amici\u021bie, pornesc \u00een ea cu maxim\u0103 precau\u021bie \u0219i nu r\u0103m\u00e2n niciodat\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 bani \u00een ora\u0219 la 3 diminea\u021ba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i totu\u0219i, recunosc c\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eencearc\u0103 o curiozitate: oare cum o fi s\u0103 ai \u00eencredere \u00een cineva? Dar \u00eencredere pe bune. Nu \u00eencredere din aia \u00eenc\u0103rcat\u0103 de anxietate, de genul: Da, SPER c\u0103 dac\u0103 spun des c\u0103 am \u00eencredere, nu m\u0103 \u021bepuie\u0219te spectaculos, care de fapt ne\u00eencredere cu negare \u0219i cu wishful thinking. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tot zb\u0103t\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 cu problemele de \u00eencredere \u00een al\u021bii, am lucrat mult cu singurul om \u00een care \u0219tiu c\u0103 pot avea oric\u00e2nd \u00eencredere: propria persoan\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prin urmare, c\u00e2nd m\u0103 mai \u00eentreab\u0103 c\u00e2te o fat\u0103: Loreno, tu cum po\u021bi s\u0103 ai at\u00e2ta \u00eencredere \u00een tine? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u0103spunsul e unul singur: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se \u00eencepe cu muuult\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een\u0219elat\u0103 din partea altora, din fraged\u0103 copil\u0103rie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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