{"id":25666,"date":"2023-11-24T10:49:14","date_gmt":"2023-11-24T07:49:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25666"},"modified":"2023-11-24T10:49:17","modified_gmt":"2023-11-24T07:49:17","slug":"sa-sarbatorim-viata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/sa-sarbatorim-viata\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u0103 s\u0103rb\u0103torim via\u021ba!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

N-am avut zile de na\u0219tere prea frumoase \u00een copil\u0103rie. Nici taic\u0103-miu, nici maic\u0103-mea n-au fost genul care s\u0103 pun\u0103 \u00eentrebarea simpl\u0103: Ce vrei s\u0103 faci de ziua ta? \u00cen pu\u021binii ani \u00een care taic\u0103-miu a fost cu noi, ziua de na\u0219tere \u00eensemna pr\u0103jitur\u0103 la cofet\u0103rie. Aia era ideea lui de petrecere, \u0219i era obligatoriu s\u0103 fie \u0219i a mea. Dup\u0103 divor\u021b, ideea maic\u0103-mii a fost \u0219i mai boring: sandvi\u0219uri \u0219i c\u00e2\u021biva vecini acas\u0103. Pentru adul\u021bi, cump\u0103ra de b\u0103ut, noi, copiii, trebuia s\u0103 ne mul\u021bumim cu apa mineral\u0103 cu care \u00ee\u0219i f\u0103ceau ei sifoane. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cadouri erau obiecte utile: \u00eembr\u0103c\u0103minte, c\u0103r\u021bi necesare pentru programa \u0219colar\u0103. Primul cadou pe care mi l-am luat pentru pl\u0103cere personal\u0103 a fost dup\u0103 14 ani \u0219i a fost un CD cu muzic\u0103 \u201eoriginal\u0103\u201d – hint, tot piratat\u0103. A\u0219a era epoca. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu e de mirare c\u0103 mi-am ur\u00e2t cu spume copil\u0103ria \u0219i c\u0103 abia am a\u0219teptat pragul miraculos de 18 ani s-o \u00eentind de acas\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar, \u00een urma acestui tratament, m-am deprins s\u0103-mi ascund \u0219i s\u0103-mi ignor ziua de na\u0219tere. Trece timpul, mai \u00eemplinesc un an, poate c\u0103 de m\u00e2ine voi fi b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103, chestii de genul. \u0218ti\u021bi cli\u0219eul \u0103la cu \u201ece s\u0103rb\u0103tore\u0219ti de fapt de ziua ta? Faptul c\u0103 e\u0219ti cu un an mai aproape de moarte?!\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Numai c\u0103 anul \u0103sta mi-au tot murit cunoscu\u021bi. Cunoscu\u021bi mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103. Cunoscu\u021bi de v\u00e2rsta mea. Chiar cunoscu\u021bi ceva mai mici, cum a fost DJ Lalla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cumva, chestia asta m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103-mi dau seama c\u00e2t de ingrat\u0103 sunt de fapt cu acest cadou pre\u021bios. Via\u021ba. Fiecare zi de na\u0219tere e un semn c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 exi\u0219ti. C\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 ai libertatea de a \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219a al\u021bi oameni. De a \u021bine \u00een bra\u021be o pisic\u0103 pufoas\u0103 \u0219i torc\u0103cioas\u0103. De a scrie. De a crea. De a face miracol fugar cu o cutie de farduri. De a recita o poezie pe TikTok, s\u0103 se mire pu\u0219tanii din ziua de azi c\u0103 n-are rim\u0103. De a \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219i o glum\u0103 cu cineva care-\u021bi \u00een\u021belege umorul. De a bea vin ro\u0219u. De a asculta un podcast. De a cump\u0103ra suplimente cu magneziu. Da, \u00eentr-o zi e\u0219ti t\u00e2n\u0103r \u0219i deodat\u0103 te pomene\u0219ti c\u0103 folose\u0219ti Black Friday s\u0103-\u021bi cumperi magneziu \u0219i ulei de pe\u0219te la reducere de la Farmacia Tei. De a visa c\u0103 vei crea un spectacol minunat. De a face mici minuni de via\u021b\u0103 cotidian\u0103. De a da \u00eencredere altora, pentru c\u0103 ai un site destinat femeii din Rom\u00e2nia, care are nevoie de \u00eencredere ca de aer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i toate g\u00e2ndurile astea m\u0103 fac s\u0103 cred cu t\u0103rie \u00een faptul c\u0103 ziua mea de na\u0219tere merit\u0103 s\u0103rb\u0103torit\u0103. Nu sunt cu un an mai aproape de moarte, pentru c\u0103 moartea poate veni \u00een orice clip\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am mai supravie\u021buit un an. Am mai tr\u0103it cum am dorit eu \u00eenc\u0103 un an. \u0218i \u00een continuare sunt fericit\u0103 cu toate alegerile mele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Poate c\u0103 ziua mea de na\u0219tere n-a fost important\u0103 pentru nimeni c\u00e2t timp eram copil. Poate c\u0103 nu s-a deranjat nimeni s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebe ce \u00eemi doresc de ziua mea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar medalia asta are \u0219i un revers. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, de ziua mea, fac NUMAI ce \u00eemi doresc, \u0219i nu depind de aprobarea, validarea sau permisiunea nim\u0103nui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar dac\u0103 asta nu e o poveste de triumf, nu \u0219tiu ce e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00cen mod normal, aici \u00ee\u021bi povesteam c\u0103 po\u021bi sus\u021bine site-ul cu o cafea, dar azi, fiind s\u0103rb\u0103toarea mea personal\u0103, a\u0219 prefera un pahar de vin ro\u0219u sec. Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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