{"id":25676,"date":"2023-11-27T11:05:27","date_gmt":"2023-11-27T08:05:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25676"},"modified":"2023-11-27T11:05:42","modified_gmt":"2023-11-27T08:05:42","slug":"parentingul-si-ecranele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/parentingul-si-ecranele\/","title":{"rendered":"Parentingul \u0219i ecranele"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 un fenomen extrem de amuzant cu oamenii, odat\u0103 ce devin p\u0103rin\u021bi. Parc\u0103 li se anuleaz\u0103 personalitatea \u0219i par to\u021bi absolven\u021bii tra\u0219i la xerox ai aceleia\u0219i \u0219coli de parenting \u0219i bune maniere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ok, ok, nu to\u021bi. Mereu sunt excep\u021biile fericite care \u00ee\u0219i cresc copiii cu inim\u0103 \u0219i cu empatie uman\u0103 real\u0103, nu dup\u0103 idei gata servite de p\u0103reri\u0219tii din jur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De exxemplu, c\u00e2nd eram eu copil, teoriile de baz\u0103 erau: 1. Nu ar\u0103ta niciodat\u0103 dragoste copilului, c\u0103 se obr\u0103znice\u0219te \u0219i devine r\u0103sf\u0103\u021bat. 2. \u021aip\u0103 la el p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eei inhibi ultima f\u0103r\u00e2m\u0103 de personalitate \u0219i-i induci anxietate pe via\u021b\u0103 3. D\u0103 \u00een el ca \u00een sacul de box, de c\u00e2te ori ai frustr\u0103ri de desc\u0103rcat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu doar maic\u0103-mea f\u0103cea toate astea. Pere\u021bii de la bloc sunt sub\u021biri; majoritatea familiilor din jur aveau aceea\u0219i dinamic\u0103. Practic, \u00een minunata familie tradi\u021bional\u0103, b\u0103rbatul \u00ee\u0219i r\u0103zbuna nemul\u021bumirile vie\u021bii pe nevast\u0103, nevasta pe copii \u0219i copiii pe animale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, tr\u0103im vremuri moderne, Protec\u021bia Copilului intervine prompt dac\u0103 abuzezi minorul – slav\u0103 Domnului! – \u0219i se scriu c\u0103r\u021bi de parenting care explic\u0103 importan\u021ba afec\u021biunii, pentru a nu da na\u0219tere altor adul\u021bi mutila\u021bi emo\u021bional. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar partea care m\u0103 exaspereaz\u0103, sincer, este cum fiecare vedetu\u021b\u0103 care se reproduce d\u0103 minimum un interviu \u00een care se \u00eenfoaie tare de m\u00e2ndrie c\u0103-\u0219i cre\u0219te copilul f\u0103r\u0103 smartphone, tablet\u0103, laptop \u0219i restul chestiilor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

OK? Good for you, \u021bi-ai cules aplauze de la al\u021bi neinteligen\u021bi. Dar \u00een cele din urm\u0103, ce rezolvi? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103 nu se uit\u0103 la chestii nepotrivite? P\u0103i, pentru chestii nepotrivite exist\u0103 control parental, \u0219i e extrem de simplu de instalat. Po\u021bi restric\u021biona tot ce vrea mu\u0219chiul t\u0103u. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cea mai bun\u0103 copil\u0103rie nu e una ideal\u0103, pe plaiuri ancestrale unde se folose\u0219te \u00een continuare lum\u00e2narea de seu, pentru a evita satana energiei electrice; ci una care te preg\u0103te\u0219te treptat pentru viitoarea via\u021b\u0103 de adult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i ce anume define\u0219te viitoarea via\u021b\u0103 de adult, mai ales \u00een zilele noastre? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cumva faptul c\u0103 toate joburile mai de doamne ajut\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 la un computer sau un laptop? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

There you go, geniule. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103-\u021bi limitezi copilul de la telefon, tablet\u0103 \u0219i altele de genul \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103-l men\u021bii retardat tehnologic, doar ca s\u0103 te lauzi tu la restul oilor din turm\u0103 c\u0103 e\u0219ti un p\u0103rinte cum n-a mai v\u0103zut universul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Care e \u00een continuare domeniul de joburi cel mai bine pl\u0103tit, care are mereu c\u0103utare? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, exact. IT. Totul \u00een zilele noastre se petrece pe computer \u0219i mereu va fi nevoie de un b\u0103iat cu ochelari, sau o fat\u0103 cu ochelari, care s\u0103 asigure c\u0103 acel computer merge strun\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219adar: de ce pu\u0219culi\u021ba mea e motiv de umflare \u00een pene c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi cre\u0219ti copilul departe de tehnologie, de zici c\u0103 sunte\u021bi \u00een anii 70? Nu faci dec\u00e2t s\u0103 contribui la viitoarea lui inadaptare la societatea \u00een care tr\u0103ie\u0219te. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu dac\u0103 a\u0219 avea copiii, i-a\u0219 trimite la cursuri de programare pentru copii,, s\u0103 le dezvolte inteligen\u021ba. \u0218i dac\u0103 nu ar exista, le-a\u0219 \u00eenfiin\u021ba eu. Abia asta mi s-ar p\u0103rea un motiv de dat mare pe internet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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