{"id":25723,"date":"2023-12-03T13:18:27","date_gmt":"2023-12-03T10:18:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25723"},"modified":"2023-12-03T13:30:21","modified_gmt":"2023-12-03T10:30:21","slug":"mit-redpill-2-nu-va-atrage-sa-va-facem-pe-plac","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/mit-redpill-2-nu-va-atrage-sa-va-facem-pe-plac\/","title":{"rendered":"Mit redpill 2: Nu v\u0103 atrage s\u0103 v\u0103 facem pe plac"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Bine a\u021bi venit la seria \u201edemont\u0103m mituri redpill\u201d. O serie care se scrie singur\u0103, pentru c\u0103, dup\u0103 episodul 1, cel cu mitul femeilor atrase de tic\u0103lo\u0219i<\/a>, <\/strong>au venit al\u021bi b\u0103ie\u021bei s\u0103 ne spun\u0103 ce ne place \u0219i ce nu ne place, de zici c\u0103 ghiceau \u00een cafea sau ceva. P\u0103cat c\u0103 automatul nu d\u0103 za\u021b, de aceea ghiceau pe l\u00e2ng\u0103. \ud83d\ude00 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mitul de azi zice a\u0219a: \u201efemeile nu sunt atrase de b\u0103rba\u021bi care le fac pe plac.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De unde vine mitul? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca \u0219i \u00een cazul primului mit, se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ca unui domn s\u0103 i se pun\u0103 pata pe o doamn\u0103 sau domni\u0219oar\u0103 care nu e atras\u0103 deloc de el. Doamna sau domni\u0219oara e educat\u0103 s\u0103 fie gra\u021bioas\u0103 pe subiect \u0219i \u00eei sugereaz\u0103 fin c\u0103 nu e cazul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Problema cu categoria – \u0219i de b\u0103rba\u021bi, \u0219i de femei! – care nu pun deloc problema reciprocit\u0103\u021bii este c\u0103 nu pot accepta c\u0103 un nu e un nu, \u0219i nici faptul c\u0103 \u201enu m\u0103 atragi\u201d e un r\u0103spuns valid. \u0218i atunci, \u00eencep s\u0103 insiste. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cei care func\u021bioneaz\u0103 pe model zg\u00e2rcenie – cer\u0219etorie de aten\u021bie trec la insulte \u0219i h\u0103r\u021buire, cei care func\u021bioneaz\u0103 pe model \u201etotul e de v\u00e2nzare \u00een via\u021b\u0103\u201d \u00eencep s\u0103 arunce cu bani f\u0103r\u0103 num\u0103r, \u00een ideea c\u0103, exact ca la Sephora, de la o sum\u0103 \u00een sus treci la card auriu \u0219i statut VIP \u0219i atunci personalul e obligat s\u0103-\u021bi fac\u0103 o fela\u021bie de cum intri \u00een incint\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Numai c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd vine vorba de atrac\u021bie sau chiar iubire, acestea nu se pot for\u021ba. Nici cu \u00eenjuratul, nici cu opulen\u021ba. Da, se pot mima, dac\u0103 tipa e money – motivated, dar pe termen lung, nu se pot for\u021ba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i b\u0103iatul r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu droaie de eforturi f\u0103cute \u0219i cu buza – \u0219i numai – umflat\u0103. \u0218i nu \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 problema nu e c\u0103 i-a f\u0103cut pe plac doamnei, ci c\u0103 doamna NU ERA ATRAS\u0102 in the first place. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i atunci se duce pe forumul de lab… \u0103sta, redpill s\u0103 spun\u0103: Nu face\u021bi pe plac la femei, c\u0103 uite. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i \u0103sta e un mit extrem de toxic pentru rela\u021bii care chiar ar putea avea poten\u021bial. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alt gigel cunoa\u0219te o femeie. Cu care chiar are chimie \u0219i sentimente reciproce. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar el a re\u021binut de pe forumil de red pill s\u0103 nu-i fac\u0103 pe plac, c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i pierde aia atrac\u021bia. \u0218i o tot enerveaz\u0103 cu mizerii \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2n\u0103ri, p\u00e2n\u0103 ajunge aia la concluzia c\u0103 are de a face cu un mare bou \u0219i, cu tot regretul pentru ce p\u0103rea a fi compatibilitate, \u00ee\u0219i bag\u0103 piciorul \u0219i pleac\u0103. Va \u00een\u021belege gigelul c\u0103 e vorba de propria lui atitudine insuportabil\u0103 care a alungat un partener valid? Nu. Feminismul e de vin\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd o femeie TE PLACE – subliniez, c\u00e2nd TE PLACE, C\u00c2ND VREA S\u0102 FIE CU TINE, C\u00c2ND SE BUCUR\u0102 S\u0102 TE VAD\u0102, din suflet \u0219i nu din v\u00e2rful buzelor – singura cale s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 ESTE s\u0103-i faci pe plac. Altfel, nu ai baz\u0103 s\u0103 pretinzi s\u0103-\u021bi fac\u0103 \u0219i ea pe plac \u021bie, \u0219i deschizi un drum al frustr\u0103rilor \u0219i irit\u0103rilor reciproce, care duce doar la drumuri separate \u00een via\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Problema nu este c\u0103 \u00eei faci pe plac. Problema e c\u00e2nd ba\u021bi la u\u0219i \u00eenchise cu lac\u0103t \u0219i crezi c\u0103 le deschizi cu bani. Hint scurt: mnu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mai zice\u021bi mituri redpill, c\u0103 \u00eemi place seria. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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