Personal, prefer oamenii timizi, c\u0103rora s\u0103 le spun eu\u201evino mai aproape\u201d dec\u00e2t pe cei excesiv de agresivi \u0219i de intruzivi, de care s\u0103 simt nevoia s\u0103 m\u0103 ap\u0103r 24 \/ 7, dar asta \u021bine de gust, iar gusturile nu se discut\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Deci, ai cunoscut un b\u0103iat timid. Cum procedezi? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pasul 1. Asigur\u0103-te c\u0103 e \u00eentr-adev\u0103r timid \u0219i nu \u00eei e\u0219ti pur \u0219i simplu antipatic\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u0103rba\u021bii nu mimeaz\u0103 pup\u0103turi \u00een aer cu persoane pe care le detest\u0103. Nu te vor complimenta \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 \u0219i b\u00e2rfi pe la spate. Ceea ce tu interpretezi drept timiditate poate fi de fapt un tip care nu te agreeaz\u0103 foarte tare \u0219i prefer\u0103 s\u0103 men\u021bin\u0103 interac\u021biunea la strictul necesar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ceea ce e ok. Nu e toat\u0103 lumea obligat\u0103 s\u0103 te plac\u0103, \u0219i c\u00e2t timp strictul \u0103sta necesar e politicos \u0219i decent, nu ai ce s\u0103 repro\u0219ezi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce ai de f\u0103cut e s\u0103-i respec\u021bi omului limitele \u0219i s\u0103 nu \u00eencerci s\u0103 tragi de el, s\u0103-l convingi c\u0103 meri\u021bi iubit\u0103. Cine te iube\u0219te, vede \u0219i singur de ce meri\u021bi s\u0103 fii iubit\u0103, iar cine nu, s\u0103n\u0103tate \u0219i mult\u0103 virtute. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pasul 2: Z\u00e2mbe\u0219te-i <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Diferen\u021ba \u00eentre cel care nu te place \u0219i persoana timid\u0103, care nu se simte confortabil s\u0103 se bage \u00een seam\u0103 aiurea, e reprezentat\u0103 de limbajul corporal \u0219i atitudine. Cei care nu te plac caut\u0103 activ s\u0103 men\u021bin\u0103 distan\u021ba \u0219i s\u0103 scurteze conversa\u021bia. Cei care sunt doar timizi \u00ee\u0219i protejeaz\u0103 sensibilitatea f\u0103r\u0103 acel element de iritare pe care \u00eel po\u021bi remarca la prima categorie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Cel mai simplu \u0219i la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103 mod prin care consta\u021bi care e situa\u021bia e s\u0103 te ui\u021bi \u00een ochii lor \u0219i s\u0103 le z\u00e2mbe\u0219ti. Simplu \u0219i direct. Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi r\u0103spunde la z\u00e2mbet, e timid, dac\u0103 d\u0103 ochii peste cap \u0219i devine brusc interesat de cr\u0103p\u0103turile din tavan, e clar c\u0103 ba\u021bi la u\u0219i \u00eenchise cu trei lac\u0103te \u0219i z\u0103vor, \u0219i c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pierzi timpul, prin urmare, abort project. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Da, chiar cred c\u0103 nimeni nu e obligat s\u0103 te plac\u0103, \u0219i c\u0103 tu ar trebui s\u0103 te respec\u021bi suficient de mult, s\u0103 nu cer\u0219e\u0219ti cu basca \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 mila nim\u0103nui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pasul 3: Ini\u021biaz\u0103 conversa\u021bie cu glume <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Timizii sunt de obicei persoane sensibile. De aceea nu se arunc\u0103 precipitat spre oameni pe care nu-i cunosc. Nu face glume care ar putea fi interpretate drept jigniri sau invazie a teritoriului personal. \u021aine cont de faptul c\u0103 aceste persoane au o nevoie mai mare de spa\u021biu – \u0219i RESPECT\u0102-L. Nu te \u00eenghesui fizic \u00een ei \u0219i nu le lua aerul. Cea mai mare gre\u0219eal\u0103 pe care o po\u021bi face cu o persoan\u0103 timid\u0103, dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 te plac\u0103 pe bune \u0219i nu s-o controlezi, este s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 te impui cu sila. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ai crede c\u0103 o persoan\u0103 rezervat\u0103 \u0219i \u00eenchis\u0103 \u00een sine e mai u\u0219or de controlat, dar, \u00een realitate, cei cu inima pe tav\u0103 sunt mai u\u0219or de jucat precum marionetele, iar cei \u00eenchi\u0219i \u00een ei se ridic\u0103 \u0219i pleac\u0103 mult mai u\u0219or, pentru c\u0103, \u00een cazul lor, investi\u021bia personal\u0103 \u00een necunoscu\u021bi e minim\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pasul 4: Ai R\u0102BDARE, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd timidul se sincronizeaz\u0103 \u00een conversa\u021bie \u0219i glume cu tine <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Mul\u021bi gre\u0219esc c\u00e2nd se a\u0219teapt\u0103 ca persoana timid\u0103 s\u0103 ajung\u0103 la 100% la fel de repede ca ei. Cam ca gigeii care termin\u0103 \u00een dou\u0103 minute \u0219i \u00eei explic\u0103 femeii c\u0103 e frigid\u0103 ea, dac\u0103 nu \u021bine pasul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Fii in tune cu persoana timid\u0103 \u0219i nu for\u021ba familiaritatea. Nu, nu se sub\u00een\u021belege. Trebuie s\u0103 ai r\u0103bdare \u0219i s\u0103 a\u0219tep\u021bi, s\u0103-\u021bi \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 bancurile \u0219i s\u0103 reac\u021bioneze autentic la ele. C\u00e2nd vezi c\u0103 a\u021bi ajuns pe aceea\u0219i lungime de und\u0103, po\u021bi strecura o tent\u0103 de flirt. Numai c\u0103… <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pasul 5: \u00cen general, timizii \u021bin la prieteniile lor mai mult dec\u00e2t omul obi\u0219nuit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n O persoan\u0103 outgoing are prieteni de nu mai \u0219tie unde s\u0103-i pun\u0103. Timizii se conecteaz\u0103 mult mai greu la al\u021bii, de aceea, exist\u0103 o \u0219ans\u0103 oarecare s\u0103 te friendzoneze pentru c\u0103 au mai mult\u0103 nevoie de tine ca prezen\u021b\u0103 afectuoas\u0103 \u0219i \u00eenvior\u0103toare \u00een via\u021ba lor, dec\u00e2t s\u0103-i confrun\u021bi cu standardele \u0219i obliga\u021biile unei rela\u021bii intime. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ceea ce, din nou, mi se pare ok. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu v\u0103d de ce at\u00e2ta lume are aversiune fa\u021b\u0103 de friendzone. Mi se pare c\u0103 to\u021bi avem nevoie de prieteni adev\u0103ra\u021bi. Mult mai mult dec\u00e2t de s** mediocru \u0219i de rela\u021bii at\u00e2t de \u00eempov\u0103rate de preten\u021bii \u0219i de limite, \u00eenc\u00e2t ajungi s\u0103 te pierzi pe tine cel autentic \u00een ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Prietenia unei persoane timide e nepre\u021buit\u0103. \u0218tii c\u0103 \u021bine cu adev\u0103rat la tine, nu e\u0219ti un nume oarecare pe lista ei social\u0103. \u0218i \u0219tii c\u0103 nu te va vorbi pe la spate. Personal, nu v\u0103d de ce ai lua-o personal dac\u0103 un timid \u00ee\u021bi respinge delicat avansurile. Oricum, ai c\u00e2\u0219tigat un prieten mai bun dec\u00e2t restul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pasul 6: Un timid nu e, \u00een 90% din cazuri, un one night stand <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 ai \u00eenceput s\u0103 flirtezi cu timidul t\u0103u, \u0219i spre surprinderea ta, r\u0103spunde nea\u0219teptat de bine. Ce trebuie s\u0103 con\u0219tientizezi, \u00eens\u0103, e c\u0103 dac\u0103 decizi s\u0103 mergi mai departe, trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi asumi c\u0103 o s\u0103 fii acolo o vreme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Timizii nu prea zboar\u0103 din floare \u00een floare, nu \u201eexperimenteaz\u0103\u201d \u0219i nu se \u00eentind mai sub\u021bire ca untul. Dac\u0103 vor s\u0103 fie cu tine, VOR S\u0102 FIE CU TINE. Serios \u0219i pe bune. Dac\u0103 \u00eei faci s\u0103 sufere, nu se duc la dou\u0103 petreceri s\u0103-\u0219i ia limba \u00een gur\u0103 cu cine se nimere\u0219te pe acolo \u0219i s\u0103 uite de tine de azi p\u00e2n\u0103 mar\u021bi. Dac\u0103 \u00eei faci s\u0103 sufere, vor suferi luni \u00een \u0219ir, pentru c\u0103 ei se deschid cu tine doar dup\u0103 ce se conving c\u0103 e\u0219ti ok, \u0219i dac\u0103 le dai \u021beap\u0103, \u00eei \u00eenchizi mai mult \u00een ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cenainte s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 ag\u0103\u021bi un timid, \u00eentreab\u0103-te dac\u0103 e\u0219ti ready for commitment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen rest: dac\u0103 ai r\u0103bdare \u0219i \u00een\u021belegere cu persoanele timide, po\u021bi descoperi comori de farmec \u0219i omenie. Esen\u021bial e s\u0103 \u0219tii s\u0103 le pre\u021buie\u0219ti la justa lor valoare \u0219i s\u0103 nu te p*** pe ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 apreciezi aceast\u0103 rubric\u0103, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Mi se pl\u00e2ngea ieri o prieten\u0103 c\u0103 nu cunoa\u0219te \u00een ultima vreme dec\u00e2t tipi exagerat de timizi. \u0218i, pentru c\u0103 auzise prea mult BS...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":25771,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25770","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/calf.jpg?fit=640%2C427&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25770","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25770"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25770\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25772,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25770\/revisions\/25772"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25771"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25770"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25770"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25770"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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