Scrisorica de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bun\u0103 ziua, Lorena, S\u0103rb\u0103tori fericite al\u0103turi de cei dragi, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am v\u0103zut \u00een ultima vreme abordat la tine subiectul p\u0103rin\u021bilor care-\u0219i \u0219antajeaz\u0103 emo\u021bional copiii \u0219i m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103 acest tablou, c\u0103 vezi doamne copiii sunt ni\u0219te \u00eengeri \u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bii ni\u0219te nemernici care nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103-i mai supere. Dar dac\u0103-\u021bi spun s\u0103 nu oferi o imagine mai echilibrat\u0103, o s\u0103 zici de PayPal, iar eu nu cred c\u0103 bloggerii ar trebui s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 bani. Scrii de pl\u0103cere, nu? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n (De aceea, cultura rom\u00e2neasc\u0103 \u00een general se t\u00e2r\u00e2ie \u00een \u021b\u0103r\u00e2n\u0103. Pentru c\u0103, indiferent de ramura artistic\u0103, gigei ca tine se a\u0219teapt\u0103 s-o facem de pl\u0103cere, chit c\u0103, \u00een cazul dat, tu ai fi vrut s\u0103-mi pretinzi un subiect. Not\u0103 Lorena.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i atunci \u00ee\u021bi scriu la Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei, c\u0103 aici e gratis. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Iubita mea e divor\u021bat\u0103 \u0219i are o fat\u0103 adolescent\u0103. Fata asta adolescent\u0103 e motivul pentru care iubita mea nu e de acord s\u0103 ne mut\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103, pentru c\u0103 se teme ca fata s\u0103 nu fie deranjat\u0103 de prezen\u021ba unui b\u0103rbat str\u0103in. M-a deranjat pu\u021bin ideea, dar am acceptat situa\u021bia. Poate ne mut\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 dup\u0103 ce fata termin\u0103 liceul \u0219i pleac\u0103 la facultate. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Fata \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 bine, merge la Olimpiade, dar, totodat\u0103, e foarte obraznic\u0103 cu maic\u0103-sa. Ultima p\u0103\u021banie: i-a zis c\u0103 refuz\u0103 s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la \u0219coal\u0103 dac\u0103 nu-i cump\u0103r\u0103 un model nou de telefon. Maic\u0103-sa mi s-a pl\u00e2ns, pentru c\u0103 era un efort greu, dar p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 l-a f\u0103cut. Eu m-am oferit s\u0103 vorbesc cu fata, s\u0103-i spun c\u0103 \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 pentru ea, nu pentru m\u0103-sa, dar, din nou, prietena mea a refuzat s\u0103-mi dea voie s\u0103 m\u0103 bag, \u00een ideea c\u0103 eu le-a\u0219 strica rela\u021bia. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce p\u0103rere ai de asta? Nu e un \u0219antaj? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu niciodat\u0103 nu mi-a\u0219 fi permis s\u0103 vorbesc a\u0219a cu p\u0103rin\u021bii mei \u0219i cred c\u0103 nimeni din genera\u021bia mea, dar tinerii de azi sunt sc\u0103pa\u021bi de sub control. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n Am a\u0219a o intui\u021bie feminin\u0103 c\u0103 prietena ta \u021bi s-a pl\u00e2ns c\u0103 fetei \u00eei trebuie un mobil nou ca s\u0103 te fac\u0103 s\u0103 oferi \u0219i tu ni\u0219te bani. Multe mame singure se a\u0219teapt\u0103 la un pic de ajutor din partea b\u0103rbatului cu care se combin\u0103, dar aceast\u0103 a\u0219teptare nu e stipulat\u0103 la modul: \u201dB\u0103i, Gigele, mai ajut\u0103 \u0219i tu cu ni\u0219te bani, ce naiba\u201d, ci cu aluzii subtile. Probabil c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u021bii mai genero\u0219i din sec\u021biunea de comentarii o s\u0103-\u021bi confirme c\u0103 ei ar fi \u00eentrebat: C\u00e2t cost\u0103 mobilul \u0103la? <\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u0103car cei care au cu ce. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar tu e\u0219ti genul care \u021bine ferm de banii lui – dup\u0103 cum o denot\u0103 \u0219i atitudinea cu Paypalul \u0219i gratuitatea, haha – prin urmare, \u00een loc s\u0103 prinzi aluzia,, ai vrut s\u0103 te iei de fat\u0103, ceea ce, presupun\u00e2nd c\u0103 fata nu ceruse at\u00e2t de agresiv mobilul, ar fi dat fail \u0219i rela\u021biei mam\u0103-fiic\u0103, \u0219i automat, \u0219i \u0219ansei tale de a r\u0103m\u00e2ne pe mai departe \u00een acea rela\u021bie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Bine, dac\u0103 mama se a\u0219teapt\u0103 la sprijin financiar, iar tu ignori \u0219i pe viitor apropourile care vor urma, mai mult ca sigur, am a\u0219a o intui\u021bie c\u0103, \u00een scurt timp, \u00ee\u021bi va spune c\u0103 a intervenit rutina \u00een rela\u021bie \u0219i c\u0103, oricum, \u00eei e greu \u0219i cu jobul, \u0219i cu copilul, \u0219i c\u0103 nu te merit\u0103, c\u0103 e\u0219ti prea bun pentru ea, \u0219i restul BS-urilor cu care o femeie d\u0103 papucii \u00een a\u0219a fel \u00eenc\u00e2t, la final, \u00eei \u0219i mul\u021bume\u0219ti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Deci, acolo nu cred c\u0103 e un caz de adolescent\u0103 \u0219antajist\u0103, ci de mam\u0103 care nu vrea s\u0103 se mute cu tine c\u0103 pari genul care-\u0219i m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 de sub unghii, \u0219i a \u00eencercat s\u0103 pluseze o situa\u021bie, c\u0103 poate-poate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar hai, strict de dragul argumenta\u021biei, s\u0103 presupunem c\u0103 eleva aia bun\u0103 ar fi amenin\u021bat-o real pe maic\u0103-sa c\u0103 renun\u021b\u0103 la \u0219coal\u0103 dac\u0103 nu prime\u0219te un mobil nou. <\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u0103 nu uit\u0103m c\u0103 ea e copilul, iar voi sunte\u021bi adul\u021bii. Ea \u00eenc\u0103 nu \u00een\u021belege valoarea banilor, sau a importan\u021bei men\u021binerii unui buget lunar rezonabil, pentru a nu ajunge \u00eenglodat \u00een datorii. Ea \u00een\u021belege doar faptul c\u0103 to\u021bi colegii ei au lucruri frumoase, iar ea nu. \u0218i da, e extrem, dar extrem de frustrant. \u0218i cum adolescen\u021bii sunt extrem de cruzi unii cu al\u021bii, probabil c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i ia \u0219i un bullying intens pe aceast\u0103 tem\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Cumva, trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi nevoile unui adolescent. \u0218i nu zic s\u0103-\u021bi vinzi un rinichi pentru iPhone 15 Pro Max, dar s\u0103 te ui\u021bi pe un site de telefoane recondi\u021bionate \u0219i s\u0103 pune\u021bi \u0219i tu, \u0219i maic\u0103-sa c\u00e2te o mie de lei, pentru un telefon c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t decent, mi se pare ceva absolut realizabil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Desigur, pentru asta ar trebui s\u0103 nu fii genul care prefer\u0103 s\u0103 scrie la po\u0219ta redac\u021biei c\u0103 a\u0219a ob\u021bine gratuitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 ai preten\u021bia ca adolescenta de azi s\u0103 poarte bulendre mo\u0219tenite de la var\u0103-sa mai mare \u0219i s\u0103 stea f\u0103r\u0103 telefon, cum f\u0103ceai tu, 1. e\u0219ti rupt de realitatea zilelor noastre. 2. \u00cei creezi \u0219i ei un hamdicap de integrare social\u0103, care e cu at\u00e2t mai acut la fete, pe care toat\u0103 lumea le judec\u0103 dup\u0103 cum se \u00eembrac\u0103 \u0219i se aranjeaz\u0103. \u0218i eu postez un clip cu o poezie recitat\u0103 fabulos \u0219i 70% din comentarii sunt despre aspectul meu fizic, despre machiaj, dac\u0103 e prea mult sau prea pu\u021bin, \u0219i despre cum am p\u0103rul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Deci, nu, nu cred c\u0103 acolo s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat acel \u0219antaj cu adev\u0103rat, dar mai cred \u0219i faptul c\u0103, dac\u0103 tot ai ales s\u0103 ai copii, nu e cazul s\u0103-i neglijezi p\u00e2n\u0103 ajung de r\u00e2sul clasei. Nu ei au cerut s\u0103 se nasc\u0103. Ofer\u0103-le un minimum rezonabil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 apreciezi aceast\u0103 rubric\u0103, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. 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