{"id":25836,"date":"2023-12-25T11:20:01","date_gmt":"2023-12-25T08:20:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25836"},"modified":"2023-12-25T11:34:17","modified_gmt":"2023-12-25T08:34:17","slug":"cinci-aspecte-legate-de-craciun-la-care-nu-te-ai-gandit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cinci-aspecte-legate-de-craciun-la-care-nu-te-ai-gandit\/","title":{"rendered":"Cinci aspecte legate de Cr\u0103ciun la care nu te-ai g\u00e2ndit"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Acum mai mul\u021bi ani, show-ul de satir\u0103 Vax Populi a f\u0103cut un sondaj-parodie \u00een care a \u00eentrebat oamenii ce s\u0103rb\u0103toresc de Cr\u0103ciun. Acum, evident c\u0103, fiind un show de satir\u0103, \u0219i-a selectat cei odihni\u021bi combatan\u021bi, iar din r\u0103spunsurile primite, pe cele cu poten\u021bial comic, dar concluzia a fost una \u0219i bun\u0103: de Cr\u0103ciun s\u0103rb\u0103torim faptul c\u0103 vine Mo\u0219 Cr\u0103ciun \u0219i m\u00e2nc\u0103m sarmale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>R\u00e2dem, glumim, dar \u00een fiecare an, pe feed, v\u0103d jde mii de poze cu sarmale, moduri creative \u00een care e ornat\u0103 salata de boeuf \u0219i cadouri, \u0219i foarte pu\u021bine poze care s\u0103 reflecte adev\u0103rata idee a s\u0103rb\u0103torii: na\u0219terea M\u00e2ntuitorului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219adar, hai s\u0103 trecem \u00een revist\u0103 ce am putea face de Cr\u0103ciun s\u0103 fim mai aproape de spiritul s\u0103rb\u0103torii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>A. S\u0103 ne preocup\u0103m \u0219i de componenta spiritual\u0103 <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hai s\u0103 examin\u0103m ce spune Biblia. Pentru c\u0103 p\u0103catele omenirii erau prea mari, Dumnezeu \u0219i-a trimis primul fiu, creat prin imaculat\u0103 concep\u021bie, s\u0103 ia asupra lui toate aceste p\u0103cate. S\u0103 fie oare at\u00e2t de simplu? O absolvire universal\u0103 de responsabilitate prin intermediul unui \u021bap isp\u0103\u0219itor divin? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate c\u0103, dimpotriv\u0103, imaginea lui Isus \u00eempov\u0103rat de crucea grea a tuturor faptelor reprobabile e creat\u0103 tocmai pentru a responsabiliza. Nu \u201es\u0103 fii mai bun de s\u0103rb\u0103tori\u201d, ci te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti la consecin\u021bele unei fapte prin care, de exemplu, faci r\u0103u altora. Eu, nefiind o practicant\u0103 religioas\u0103, nu cred \u00een p\u0103catul prin care \u00ee\u021bi faci r\u0103u singur f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 afectezi pe al\u021bii. \u00ce\u021bi place vinul sec, \u00ee\u021bi place s\u0103 petreci, dar nu ai responsabilit\u0103\u021bi pe care s\u0103 le \u00eencalci cu aceste pl\u0103ceri? Mult\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tate. \u0218i virtute. \u0218i restul catrenului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar cred foarte mult \u00een a nu face un r\u0103u doar ca s\u0103 r\u0103zbuni un r\u0103u care \u021bi s-a f\u0103cut, sau doar pentru a ar\u0103ta c\u0103 tu e\u0219ti mai cu mo\u021b, sau doar pentru a c\u00e2\u0219tiga bani mai mul\u021bi. A\u021bi remarcat c\u0103, \u00een via\u021b\u0103, singurii bani care-\u021bi aduc cu adev\u0103rat bucurie sunt cei oferi\u021bi cu entuziasm de cei care \u00ee\u021bi apreciaz\u0103 munca, arta sau pe ambele? C\u0103 banii negocia\u021bi la s\u00e2nge, cei pe care \u00eei extragi ca un recuperator din clien\u021bi r\u0103u-platnici mai mult te umplu de sc\u00e2rb\u0103, \u0219i singurul motiv pentru care mergi p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t e s\u0103 le dai \u0103lora o lec\u021bie? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prin urmare, da, r\u0103zbunarea e arma prostului \u0219i e mereu mai bine s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti c\u00e2tor oameni le-ai face r\u0103u dac\u0103 ai ac\u021biona strict din orgoliu, sete de r\u0103zbunare \u0219i restul demonilor t\u0103i interiori. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Folose\u0219te-\u021bi puterea de a pleca, de a te deta\u0219a \u0219i de a pune reflectorul pe tot ce e bine \u0219i frumos \u00een via\u021ba ta. Dac\u0103 ai o familie toxic\u0103, dar un cerc de prieteni iubitori \u0219i afectuo\u0219i, f\u0103 Cr\u0103ciunul cu prietenii t\u0103i. \u0218i, cum am zis: exploreaz\u0103 latura spiritual\u0103 a s\u0103rb\u0103torii: s-a n\u0103scut Mesia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To\u021bi avem un mic Mesia \u00een noi. Exploreaz\u0103-i lumina \u0219i generozitatea. G\u00e2ndul c\u0103 po\u021bi fi mare \u0219i bun te va vindeca mai mult dec\u00e2t jum\u0103tate de an de terapie cu v\u0103ic\u0103reli. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>B. M\u00e2ntuitorul s-a n\u0103scut \u00eentr-o iesle, printre animale <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To\u021bi posesorii de animale spun acela\u0219i lucru: c\u0103 e cea mai pur\u0103 \u0219i necondi\u021bionat\u0103 iubire pe care au sim\u021bit-o vreodat\u0103. C\u0103 e genul de conexiune care nu e subminat\u0103 de gelozii, de invidii, de spirit de competi\u021bie prost \u00een\u021beles, de orgolii \u0219i de llipsa respectului \u0219i a aprecierii, a\u0219a cum sunt conexiunile dintre oameni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate c\u0103 e o idee ca, de Cr\u0103ciun, s\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi iubire animalelor dezavantajate. Du-te, du un sac de m\u00e2ncare \u0219i o sut\u0103 de lei unui ad\u0103post \u0219i ofer\u0103-te s\u0103 te joci cu c\u0103\u021beii sau cu pisicile nim\u0103nui. \u021ai se va umple inima de o bucurie pe care nici un iPhone 15 Pro Max nu \u021bi-o va putea oferi. Bine, eu sunt o Samsung kinda girl, deci nu am treab\u0103 cu iPhone anyway. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Compania animalelor e cald\u0103, calm\u0103 \u0219i lini\u0219titoare. Oric\u00e2t de sup\u0103rat ai fi, c\u00e2nd un animal \u00ee\u0219i plaseaz\u0103 f\u0103\u021buca adorabil\u0103 pe genunchiul t\u0103u \u0219i \u021bi se uit\u0103 direct \u00een suflet, \u00ee\u021bi trece. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>C. D\u0103ruie\u0219te excesul de m\u00e2ncare <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De s\u0103rb\u0103tori, rom\u00e2nul g\u0103te\u0219te mereu de zici c\u0103 vine \u00een vizit\u0103 regimentul 14 infanterie. Apoi, \u00ee\u0219i streseaz\u0103 familia: hai, termina\u021bi-o pe asta, c\u0103 se stric\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd e\u0219ti \u00eendopat ca o g\u00e2sc\u0103 \u00een drumul ei spre a deveni foie gras, numai bucurie festiv\u0103 nu po\u021bi s\u0103 sim\u021bi. Senza\u021bia de umflare \u0219i balonare, arsurile gastrice, grea\u021ba sunt anticlimactice. \u0218i totu\u0219i, frigiderul \u0103la plin trebuie golit, c\u0103 altfel&#8230; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar exist\u0103 o solu\u021bie. Una care s\u0103 nu te trimit\u0103 la urgen\u021be, cu toxiinfec\u021bie alimentar\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u0219tii vreun b\u0103tr\u00e2n am\u0103r\u00e2t, dac\u0103 ai cuno\u0219tin\u021be care tr\u0103iesc cu greu de la un salariu la urm\u0103torul \u0219i-\u0219i permit de Cr\u0103ciun doar un cozonac \u0219i cel mai ieftin vin din supermarket, \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe: invit\u0103-i la mas\u0103, sau ofer\u0103-le pache\u021bel cu bun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi. Dar nu face ca o vecin\u0103 din primul bloc \u00een care am locuit \u00een Bucure\u0219ti, pe care o apuca generozitatea abia c\u00e2nd bucatele prindeau un iz vag dubios. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tii deja cam c\u00e2t m\u0103n\u00e2nci realist. Dac\u0103 ai familie, \u0219tii cam c\u00e2t m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 fiecare. D\u0103ruie\u0219te tot ce e \u00een plus. Pentru c\u0103 despre asta e de fapt s\u0103rb\u0103toarea. Despre a d\u0103rui. Despre a \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bi cu cel de al\u0103turi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>4. E  ok s\u0103 alegi simplitatea <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar nu toat\u0103 lumea are chef s\u0103-\u0219i pfoot\u0103 trei salarii pe m\u00e2ncare, \u0219i instinctul de a nu o face e perfect \u00een regul\u0103. M\u0103 repet: m\u00e2ntuitorul omenirii nu s-a n\u0103scut \u00een palat de aur cu turnule\u021be. Ci \u00eentr-o iesle modest\u0103, \u00een f\u00e2n, dup\u0103 ce p\u0103rin\u021bii lui au fost alunga\u021bi de toate familiile bune \u0219i onorabile din Betleem. Foarte hippie, flower power, the age of aquarius \u0219i 100% opus excesului de neam prost. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De aceea, dac\u0103 sim\u021bi nevoia unui Cr\u0103ciun pe simplitate, cu rucsacul \u00een spate, pe la o caban\u0103 modest\u0103, respir\u00e2nd aerul curat de munte, vei fi mai aproape de spiritul autentic al s\u0103rb\u0103torii dec\u00e2t Lelea Floare care tocmai taie gogo\u0219ari s\u0103 creeze din ei un Mo\u0219 Cr\u0103ciun \u00een v\u00e2rful muntelui de salat\u0103 de boeuf. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>5. Uit\u0103 de ur\u0103rile formale <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Din nou: din cum e descris mitul originar al s\u0103rb\u0103torii, e vorba de bucurie simpl\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 aditivi \u0219i conservan\u021bi. De aceea, obiceiul \u0103la enervant, c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi scriu toate brandurile de la care ai achizi\u021bionat varii chestii s\u0103-\u021bi ureze S\u0103rb\u0103tori \u201epline de dragoste \u0219i armonie\u201d e de un fals crunt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu mai face ur\u0103ri unora de care, de fapt \u0219i de drept, e\u0219ti s\u0103tul ca de mere p\u0103dure\u021be \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi ies bube c\u00e2nd le auzi vocea. Falsitatea \u0219i ipocrizia sunt opusul s\u0103rb\u0103torii. Concentreaz\u0103-te pe bucuria simpl\u0103 \u0219i autentic\u0103, \u0219i nu uita c\u0103 un \u201ela mul\u021bi ani\u201d din inim\u0103 valoreaz\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t zece c\u00e2rna\u021bi de metafore obosite \u0219i suprautilizate trimise unora de care te doare ad\u00e2nc \u00een pix. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acestea fiind spuse, v\u0103 doresc tuturor s\u0103 experimenta\u021bi miracolul rena\u0219terii \u00een lumin\u0103 \u0219i bucurie, pentru c\u0103, de fapt, despre asta e Cr\u0103ciunul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 apreciezi acest articol, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Acum mai mul\u021bi ani, show-ul de satir\u0103 Vax Populi a f\u0103cut un sondaj-parodie \u00een care a \u00eentrebat oamenii ce s\u0103rb\u0103toresc de Cr\u0103ciun. 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