(Aceast\u0103 postare este dedicat\u0103 hoardelor de necunoscu\u0163i care au impresia c\u0103 simpla lor curiozitate legat\u0103 de persoana mea m\u0103 oblig\u0103 automat s\u0103 le dau socoteal\u0103. Ia mai g\u00e2ndi\u0163i-v\u0103!)<\/p>\n
Nu m\u0103 mai ad\u0103uga pe messenger, dac\u0103 nu ne cunoa\u015ftem. Nu m\u0103 mai fute la icre aiurea. (Nu m\u0103 refer la adresa publicat\u0103 \u00een sidebar, unde oricum intru doar c\u00e2nd am chef – \u015fi mi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 foarte rar s\u0103 am chef – ci la cea privat\u0103, care nu e publicat\u0103. Oare faptul c\u0103 nu e publicat\u0103 spune ceva?)<\/p>\n
1. Nu datorez “accept” nim\u0103nui, pentru simplul fapt c\u0103 \u00eemi cite\u015fte blogul. Sau pentru c\u0103 m-a v\u0103zut pe facebook \u015fi i s-a p\u0103rut c\u0103 ar\u0103t bine.<\/p>\n
C\u0103 nu ne-am c\u00e2\u015ftigat la belciuge, de-aia. C\u0103 \u00een lista mea de prieteni se afl\u0103 oameni cu care chiar simt o afinitate. Nu po\u0163i tu s\u0103 m\u0103 obligi s\u0103 simt o afinitate cu tine, dac\u0103 eu nu o simt. E dreptul meu de om s\u0103 \u00eemi limitez lista la 3, 5, sau de ce nu, 2 persoane.<\/p>\n
2. Dac\u0103 ai ceva s\u0103-mi spui referitor la o postare a mea, folose\u015fte cu \u00eencredere sec\u0163iunea comentarii.<\/p>\n
Da, Lorena, dar vroiam s\u0103-\u0163i zic \u00eentre 4 ochi… Nu am nimic de discutat cu nimeni \u00eentre 4 ochi. Sau dac\u0103 am, te adaug eu pe messenger. Sau \u00ee\u0163i scriu un mail. Dac\u0103 n-ai \u00een\u0163eles ceva dintr-o postare, mai bag\u0103 un comentariu.<\/p>\n
3. Nu datorez explica\u0163ii private nim\u0103nui, referitor la nimic. “Da’ e\u015fti chiar Lorena?” De unde pula calului ai tu tupeul s\u0103 mi te bagi \u00een intimitate s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebi una ca asta? Da, sunt Lorena \u015fi e dreptul meu de persoan\u0103 privat\u0103 s\u0103 nu te cunosc \u015fi s\u0103 nu am chef s\u0103 te cunosc. Azi, acest blog a fost vizitat de 1.499 de persoane. Cum ar fi fost ca to\u0163i cei 1.499 s\u0103 aib\u0103 c\u00e2te o problem\u0103 strigent\u0103 de discutat \u015fi neap\u0103rat \u00een privat?<\/p>\n
4. Nu datorez nim\u0103nui sluj sau o figur\u0103 simpatic\u0103.<\/p>\n
“De ce e\u015fti a\u015fa rea?” Rea e prostia care te face pe tine s\u0103 m\u0103 fu\u0163i la melodie – eu \u00eemi ap\u0103r lini\u015ftea \u015fi dreptul la l\u0103sare \u00een pace. Poate m\u0103 uitam la un film artistic din anii ’30 \u015fi m\u0103 p\u0103trunsese atmosfera. Poate m\u0103 uitam la un pornache. Poate \u00eemi f\u0103ceam declara\u0163ii de dragoste cu cineva din Honolulu. Poate desenam \u00een Paint cea mai mare pul\u0103 v\u0103zut\u0103 vreodat\u0103 \u015fi intruziunea ta mi-a \u00eentrerupt linia delicat\u0103, \u015fi totu\u015fi brutal\u0103.<\/p>\n
5. “Dar m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam c\u0103 s\u0103 ne cunoa\u015ftem mai bine”.<\/p>\n
Nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 te cunosc mai bine. E\u015fti bine la distan\u0163a la care e\u015fti. Stai acolo, nu veni mai aproape, nu-mi lua aerul. Nu vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 tragi de \u015fireturi, nu vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 tragi de br\u0103cinari. Nu vreau s\u0103 \u00eemi poveste\u015fti banalit\u0103\u0163i, nu vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebi c\u0103caturi stereotipe. Dac\u0103 vrei, m\u0103 cite\u015fti, dac\u0103 nu, nu; pute\u0163i s\u0103 fi\u0163i 1.499 sau 10 – dar timpul meu zilnic e compus din 24 de ore pe care nimeni nu mi le va da vreodat\u0103 \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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