{"id":25949,"date":"2024-01-14T12:45:04","date_gmt":"2024-01-14T09:45:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25949"},"modified":"2024-01-14T12:45:07","modified_gmt":"2024-01-14T09:45:07","slug":"importantii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/importantii\/","title":{"rendered":"Importan\u0163ii"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Citeam pe peretele unui cunoscut cum \u00eenc\u0103 exist\u0103 oameni, ca pe vremea comunismului, care-\u0163i recomand\u0103 s\u0103 te guduri pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 \u201ecei importan\u021bi\u201d, cei cu bani, cei cu func\u021bii, cei care \u00ee\u021bi pot facilita favoruri. De ce ca pe vremea comunismului? Pentru c\u0103 nu se g\u0103sea m\u00e2ncare \u00een magazine, \u0219i doamna directoare de la alimentar\u0103 putea s\u0103 te informeze discret c\u00e2nd vine carne, s\u0103 fii primul care rupe u\u0219a. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Azi, se g\u0103sesc de toate pentru to\u021bi, \u0219i joburile bazate pe munc\u0103 se cam dau celor care chiar muncesc, except\u00e2nd companiile de stat, unde se \u0219tie c\u0103 sunt fie execrabil pl\u0103tite, \u0219i atunci nu vrei tu s\u0103 mergi, fie se dau pe pile beizadelelor de rigoare, deci nu prea mai ai nimic de c\u00e2\u0219tigat gudur\u00e2ndu-te pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 importan\u021bi. Dar mi-e o mil\u0103 profund\u0103 de cei cu aceast\u0103 mentalitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

a) Dac\u0103 nu e\u0219ti \u0219i tu important dintr-un anumit punct de vedere, importantul o s\u0103 te ignore<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Importantul pe care ai pus tu ochii, fie c\u0103 e primar \/ ministru \/ whatever, fie c\u0103 e un \u201esimplu\u201d miliardar, are cu totul alte priorit\u0103\u021bi dec\u00e2t p\u0103rli\u021bii oarecare gudur\u00e2ndu-se pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 el pentru favoruri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, el ar avea tone de chestii de oferit. Dar tu ce aduci \u00een schimb? Dac\u0103 r\u0103spunsul e \u201enimic\u201d, e\u0219ti o povar\u0103. \u0218i asta pentru c\u0103… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

b) Este destul de evident pentru ce e\u0219ti acolo. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Importantul nu e prost. Sau ok, unii sunt, dar m\u0103car nu e naiv. Vede foarte clar de ce te guduri pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 el. Se simte c\u00e2nd o interac\u021biune este fals\u0103 \u0219i izvor\u00e2t\u0103 din alte motive dec\u00e2t amici\u021bia reciproc\u0103. \u0218i, dac\u0103 importantul t\u0103u are m\u0103car o f\u0103r\u00e2m\u0103 de inteligen\u021b\u0103, te va \u021bine la distan\u021b\u0103 \u0219i te va expedia, atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eel cau\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

c) Oricum, tu vei investi mai mult <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi, exist\u0103 \u0219i importan\u021bii narcisi\u0219ti care v\u0103d fiecare om prin prisma a ce pot ob\u021bine de la el. \u0218i \u0103\u0219tia \u00ee\u021bi vor cere ei \u021bie lucruri care \u021bi-s la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103. Tu, dornic s\u0103 p\u0103strezi interac\u021biunea \u0219i preocupat s\u0103 dovede\u0219ti c\u0103 e\u0219ti \u0219i tu important, vei livra. P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd se ajunge \u00een punctul \u00een care tu faci gratuit\u0103\u021bi f\u0103r\u0103 num\u0103r pentru cuno\u0219tin\u021ba ta miliardar, care chiar ar avea cu ce s\u0103 te pl\u0103teasc\u0103, dar dac\u0103 te vede prost, de ce ar face-o? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

d) Importan\u021ba nu e o boal\u0103 contagioas\u0103 <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mul\u021bi ajun\u0219i \u00een astfel de situa\u021bii ingrate au totu\u0219i impresia c\u0103 se compenseaz\u0103 cu faptul c\u0103, dac\u0103 apari public al\u0103turi de, s\u0103 zicem, Ion \u021airiac, zice lumea: uite, b\u0103, Ion \u021airiac \u0219i Fane C\u0103cat. De azi, Fane C\u0103cat e pe nivel cu Ion \u021airiac. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen realitate, lumea zice, da, erau Ion \u021airiac \u0219i unul, probabil \u0219oferul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

e) Ratezi \u0219ansa de a crea conexiuni autentice <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd \u00eei fug\u0103re\u0219ti toat\u0103 via\u021ba pe \u0103ia cu influen\u021b\u0103, neglijezi \u0219i dispre\u021buie\u0219ti oamenii obi\u0219nui\u021bi, cu care ai putea construi prietenii care s\u0103 chiar \u00eensemne ceva. Oameni care \u021bi-ar putea fi al\u0103turi la greu, \u0219i care s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi aminteasc\u0103 de faptul c\u0103 e\u0219ti puternic \u00een momentele tale de sl\u0103biciune. Oameni cu care s\u0103 po\u021bi face lucruri de durat\u0103, pentru c\u0103 te plac pentru cine e\u0219ti. Dar cum tu \u00eei dispre\u021buie\u0219ti pe \u0103\u0219tia, pentru c\u0103 nu sunt importan\u021bi, pierzi toat\u0103 prietenia \u0219i sus\u021binerea sincer\u0103 de care ai putea avea parte. \u0218i care contribuie la echilibrul emo\u021bional al fiec\u0103ruia dintre noi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, dac\u0103 lucrurile importante pentru tine sunt banii \u0219i influen\u021ba, ce te re\u021bine s\u0103 munce\u0219ti pentru ele, s\u0103 le ai chiar tu \u0219i s\u0103 nu fii nevoit s\u0103 te guduri pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 al\u021bii? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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