Sincer, c\u00e2nd m\u0103 uit la c\u0103s\u0103toriile unora, pline de toxicitate \u015fi frustr\u0103ri de varii tipuri, sau la femei p\u0103r\u0103site la 40 de ani \u015fi cu doi-trei copii pentru altele mai tinere, m\u0103 simt privilegiat\u0103 s\u0103 fiu singur\u0103. Pe de alt\u0103 parte, eu m\u0103 bucur de o zi petrecut\u0103 acas\u0103 de una singur\u0103 ca de un cadou valoros. O zi \u00een care fac ce vreau, stau \u00een chilo\u0163i \u015fi-n maieu, scriu la proiecte blocate la jum\u0103tate \u015fi m\u0103 l\u0103f\u0103i cu pisica \u00een bra\u0163e? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
E adev\u0103rat, \u0163in dry January, altfel ad\u0103ugam \u015fi un pahar de vin ro\u015fu sec, dar SIGN. ME. UP. Singur\u0103tatea e pentru mine cum e pr\u0103jitura de cheat day pentru al\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar asta pentru c\u0103 mie \u00eemi place mult de mine \u015fi de propriile g\u00e2nduri. Ieri seara, am f\u0103cut un live pe TikTok \u015fi a zis cineva o vorb\u0103 mare: unii nu \u015ftiu s\u0103 fie prieteni nici cu ei \u00een\u015fi\u015fi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00centreab\u0103-te de ce te panicheaz\u0103 at\u00e2t de mult singur\u0103tatea, ce anume e at\u00e2t de groaznic, eventual apeleaz\u0103 la terapie, \u015fi vei \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a, pas cu pas, s\u0103 fii mai prieten\u0103 cu tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu fi povar\u0103 emo\u0163ional\u0103 pentru al\u0163ii <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Un motiv pentru care te evit\u0103 lumea este v\u0103ic\u0103reala insistent\u0103, agasant\u0103 \u015fi insuportabil\u0103, care d\u0103 o energie negativ\u0103 \u015fi interlocutorului. Nimeni nu vrea a\u015fa ceva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pentru victimele profesioniste, simt nevoia s\u0103 punctez o treab\u0103: pe to\u0163i ne doare periodic capul, to\u0163i ne trezim diminea\u0163a mohor\u00e2\u0163i \u015fi cu o dorin\u0163\u0103 de a bate pe oricine ne iese \u00een cale, to\u0163i avem \u00eendoieli legate de calit\u0103\u0163ile noastre \u015fi de sentimentele altora, etc. Dar pentru asta s-au inventat cafeaua, terapia sau consilierea, \u015fi multe alte instrumente cu care po\u0163i s\u0103-\u0163i tratezi problemele fizice \u015fi emo\u0163ionale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n NU ai nici o scuz\u0103 s\u0103 de\u015fer\u0163i g\u0103leata de aoleu peste seam\u0103nul t\u0103u, iar seam\u0103nul t\u0103u nu are de ce s\u0103 rabde. Prin urmare, seam\u0103nul t\u0103u te va evita, pentru propria s\u0103n\u0103tate psihic\u0103. Da, pentru el sau ea, e prioritar\u0103 propria s\u0103n\u0103tate psihic\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu c\u0103uta s\u0103 lunge\u015fti interac\u0163iunile p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd cel\u0103lalt nu \u015ftie cum s\u0103 scape de tine <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sunt oamenii cu care ai o interac\u0163iune intuitiv\u0103. Adic\u0103: ambii sim\u0163i\u0163i cam c\u00e2t e durata perfect\u0103 pentru o conversa\u0163ie \u015fi v\u0103 opri\u0163i cumva de comun acord nerostit cu \u201etoate cele bune, mai vorbim\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar sunt \u0219i \u0103ia care insist\u0103, \u0219i insist\u0103, \u0219i insist\u0103 mult dup\u0103 ce le-ai dat primele semne finu\u021be c\u0103 asta a fost, mul\u021bumesc, ne mai auzim. Am citit ceva despre ata\u0219ament anxios, \u0219i probabil c\u0103 e una dintre primele cauze. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar oamenii nu au timp s\u0103 stea s\u0103 analizeze de ce te oplo\u0219e\u0219ti tu pe capul lor ca o infestare de p\u0103duchi. Dac\u0103 orice interac\u021biune cu tine devine ca o lupt\u0103 pentru libertate la final, te vor evita, pentru c\u0103 ain’t nobody got time for that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Terapie, terapie, terapie. \u0218i \u00een\u021belegerea ideii c\u0103 nimeni nu-\u021bi datoreaz\u0103 nimic, dac\u0103 nu ave\u021bi cumva un contract de munc\u0103 \u00een care \u00eel remunerezi pentru patru \/ opt \/ dou\u0103sprezece ore din timpul lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ofer\u0103 ceva <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Cel mai bun mod de a te \u00eenconjura de oameni care s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i doreasc\u0103 activ s\u0103 petreac\u0103 timp cu tine e s\u0103 oferi ceva pozitiv, care s\u0103-i bucure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 ai bani, deschide o c\u00e2rcium\u0103. M\u0103 po\u021bi angaja pe mine s\u0103 o promovez online. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 nu ai bani, f\u0103 un grup de dating \/ zodii \u0219i compatibilit\u0103\u021bi \/ ghicit \u00een bobi \/ cum sl\u0103bim \u00eempreun\u0103 \/ cum ne \u00eengr\u0103\u0219\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 \/ poliamorie \/ whatever te preocup\u0103. \u00ceN AFAR\u0102 DE SINGUR\u0102TATE \u0218I V\u0102IC\u0102RELI, c\u0103 nu vei mai \u00eenc\u0103pea tu s\u0103 te vaie\u021bi de v\u0103ietatul altora, \u0219i atunci vei \u00een\u021belege c\u00e2t e de iritant \u0219i de toxic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Anticii romani \u00een\u021belegeau re\u021beta succesului: p\u00e2ine \u0219i circ. Ai bani? Ofer\u0103 p\u00e2ine, \u0219i nu vei fi niciodat\u0103 singur. Nu ai bani? Ofer\u0103 circ, \u0219i nu vei fi niciodat\u0103 singur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Bine, circ as in veselie, nu circ as in \u201em\u0103 oplo\u0219esc pe contul cuiva \u0219i \u00eencep s\u0103 descarc frustr\u0103ri ca o potaie turbat\u0103\u201d, pentru c\u0103 evident c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi vei lua o mu** \u0219i un block, \u0219i apoi vei chir\u0103i tot tu c\u0103 uite ce victim\u0103 e\u0219ti. Recapitul\u0103m partea cu \u00een\u021belegerea no\u021biunii c\u0103 nimeni nu-\u021bi datoreaz\u0103 nimic, dac\u0103 nu ave\u021bi cumva un contract de munc\u0103 \u00een care \u00eel remunerezi pentru patru \/ opt \/ dou\u0103sprezece ore din timpul lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar de ce nu zici ceva de iubire, Lorena? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 taberi cu acest tip de disperare \u0219i de negativitate pe capul oricui, \u00ee\u021bi va da block din trei replici, dac\u0103 e femeie, sau te va co\u021b\u0103i \u0219i te va ghostui, dac\u0103 e b\u0103rbat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Po\u021bi c\u0103uta o rela\u021bie care s\u0103 aib\u0103 o \u0219ans\u0103 s\u0103 func\u021bioneze abia DUP\u0102 CE \u021bi-ai rezolvat tu psihozele. Pentru c\u0103 nimeni, \u00een special cineva cunoscut de dou\u0103 zile, NU \u00ee\u021bi datoreaz\u0103 s\u0103 fie terapeutul t\u0103u. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Alte tips and tricks, dragi cititori? <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 apreciezi acest articol, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ieri, mi s-a pl\u00e2ns exhaustiv o amic\u0103 de faptul c\u0103 nu mai suport\u0103 singur\u0103tatea. Aoleu, ce teribil \u015fi ce cumplit. 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