{"id":25998,"date":"2024-01-25T13:05:41","date_gmt":"2024-01-25T10:05:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=25998"},"modified":"2024-01-26T16:04:39","modified_gmt":"2024-01-26T13:04:39","slug":"e-posibila-prietenia-intre-barbati-si-femei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/e-posibila-prietenia-intre-barbati-si-femei\/","title":{"rendered":"E posibil\u0103 prietenia \u00eentre b\u0103rba\u021bi \u0219i femei?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Mi-a pus cineva ieri aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare, iar r\u0103spunsul meu a fost: Desigur. Dac\u0103 nici unul dintre cei doi nu e b\u0103tut \u00een cap, evident c\u0103 se poate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen ce sens b\u0103tut \u00een cap? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu, recunosc, tratez o prietenie, indiferent dac\u0103 e cu un b\u0103rbat sau cu o femeie, ca pe o alian\u021b\u0103 \u00eentre puteri. Te ajut cu ce ai nevoie, dar m\u0103 a\u0219tept s\u0103 nu ui\u021bi c\u0103 ai fost ajutat \u0219i s\u0103 aju\u021bi \u0219i tu cu ce am eu nevoie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Evident, exist\u0103 b\u0103rba\u021bii de\u0219tep\u021bi, care \u00een\u021beleg asta, \u0219i cu care cooperez de minune. A\u0219a cum exist\u0103 femei de\u0219tepte, care \u00een\u021beleg asta, \u0219i cu care cooperez de minune. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar exist\u0103 \u0219i b\u0103rba\u021bii idio\u021bi, care au impresia c\u0103 ajutorul t\u0103u e ceva ce se cuvine, pentru c\u0103 ei au un cuc \u0219i atunci, universul le datoreaz\u0103 temenele \u0219i munc\u0103 gratis. \u0218i \u00ee\u021bi dau \u021beap\u0103 c\u00e2nd ai tu nevoie. Acolo, prietenia se anuleaz\u0103 \u00een exact momentul urm\u0103tor \u0219i se \u00eenlocuie\u0219te cu \u201ete cost\u0103 at\u00e2t\u201d. Pentru c\u0103 nu m\u0103 cheam\u0103 Miss Sluga P\u0103m\u00e2ntului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau exist\u0103 cel\u0103lalt gen de idiot, care crede c\u0103, dac\u0103 \u00eel aju\u021bi cu chestii, brusc poate plusa s\u0103 vrea \u0219i \u0219ti\u021bi-voi-ce. \u00cen momentul \u0103la, ambasadele se retrag frumos \u0219i revenim la statut de cuno\u0219tin\u021be distante care nu au timp de alocat pentru interac\u021biune privat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar exist\u0103 \u0219i femei stupide care nimeresc un b\u0103rbat cu inten\u021bii 100% prietenoase \u0219i \u00eencep s\u0103 se vaiete c\u0103 \u0103la \u201enu \u0219tie ce vrea\u201d. Ba \u0219tie ce vrea. Vrea o prietenie normal\u0103 uman\u0103, pe cineva cu care s\u0103 poat\u0103 sta la palavre l\u00e2ng\u0103 o cafea, f\u0103r\u0103 \u201eIubi, ce mic\u0103 o ai\u201d \u0219i \u201dIubi, hai s\u0103 mut\u0103m \u0219i noi dulapul \u0103la, c\u0103 tot e s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 \u0219i credeai c\u0103 te relaxezi\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cea mai agreabil\u0103 prietenie e cu un b\u0103rbat care nu are caren\u021be la domeniul a\u0219ternut, prin urmare nu e lihnit dup\u0103 acea g\u0103uric\u0103, \u0219i te poate trata pur \u0219i simplu ca pe un om, \u0219i care \u00een\u021belege ideea c\u0103 i do thinngs for you and you do things for me. \u0218i da, am avut multe prietenii excelente de acest tip. Singurele pe care \u00eenc\u0103 le p\u0103strez, by the way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i chiar pre\u021buiesc prieteniile cu b\u0103rba\u021bi. Pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 comunici o nemul\u021bumire unei femei, ea se v\u0103ic\u0103re\u0219te cu tine, 100% neproductiv. Dac\u0103 comunici o nemul\u021bumire acestui tip de b\u0103rbat, el trece direct la modul \u00een care po\u021bi rezolva problema, iar asta e o chestie minunat\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nici eu nu sunt genul care s\u0103 b\u0103lteasc\u0103 \u00een jale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le mai v\u0103d pe unele. 2016 – ce porc nemernic e b\u0103rbatu-miu. 2020. – ce porc nemernic e b\u0103rbatu-miu. 2024 – ce porc nemernic e b\u0103rbatu-miu. S\u0103 fi fost eu \u00een situa\u021bia asta, eram like: 2016 – ce porc nemernic e b\u0103rbatu-miu. 2016 – slayyyy, ce vesel\u0103 e via\u021ba de divor\u021bat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ador impulsul \u0103sta de a \u00eempinge lucrurile \u00eenainte \u0219i de a nu pierde timp cu inutilit\u0103\u021bi, pentru c\u0103 nici eu nu am r\u0103bdare cu vorba mult\u0103 \u0219i proast\u0103, \u0219i \u00eemi place s\u0103 trec direct la subiect, respectiv la solu\u021bie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen plus, c\u00e2nd analizezi o idee nou\u0103 cu prietenii, \u00een general b\u0103rba\u021bii merg pe optimism: da, b\u0103i, o s\u0103 fie \u0219mecherie, e bine, ce ai de pierdut, mai mult dec\u00e2t \u201enu\u201d nu poate s\u0103-\u021bi zic\u0103 nimeni, pe c\u00e2nd femeile se apuc\u0103 s\u0103 aduc\u0103 \u00een discu\u021bie tot ce ar putea merge prost \u0219i cum ar putea s\u0103 te deprime tot ce merge prost. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i tot de la b\u0103rba\u021bi \u00eenve\u021bi s\u0103 nu evi\u021bi conflictul, c\u00e2nd cineva \u00eel cere cu tot dinadinsul. Pentru c\u0103 unii nu pot fi potoli\u021bi dec\u00e2t cu un \u0219ut \u00een bot, \u0219i e perfect \u00een regul\u0103 s\u0103 ai ini\u021biativa acelui \u0219ut \u00een bot, ca s\u0103 nu mai pierzi timp cu eschiva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

OK, dar cu ce beneficiaz\u0103 b\u0103rba\u021bii de pe urma prieteniilor cu femei? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 comunice. S\u0103 spun\u0103 \u201ete rog\u201d \u0219i \u201dmul\u021bumesc\u201d. S\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 c\u0103 str\u0103inii nu ne datoreaz\u0103 lucruri, prin urmare, nu le spunem ce s\u0103 fac\u0103, ci \u00eentreb\u0103m dac\u0103 vor, \u0219i nu insist\u0103m dac\u0103 nu vor, pentru c\u0103 asta nu-i va face dec\u00e2t s\u0103 ne deteste. S\u0103 dozeze aten\u021bia – pentru c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u021bii sunt fie 100% miserupi\u0219ti, fie obsesivi, \u0219i niciuna dintre aceste atitudini nu \u00ee\u021bi va crea prieteni \u00een via\u021b\u0103. S\u0103 lase loc de \u201ebun\u0103 ziua\u201d, nu de \u201emor\u021bii m\u0103-tii\u201d, c\u00e2nd e cazul. S\u0103 respecte limitele altora \u0219i s\u0103 nu confunde \u201eOferim asisten\u021b\u0103 telefonic\u0103 \u00eentre 10 \u0219i 18\u201d cu \u201dE\u0219ti un betal\u0103u dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 suni doar de-al dracu la 22.30\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prieteniile \u00eentre b\u0103rba\u021bi \u0219i femei sunt incredibil de utile ambilor. Cu condi\u021bia ca ambii s\u0103 aprecieze acea prietenie exact cum e \u0219i s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 niciunul vreo frustrare c\u0103 acea prietenie nu e amor n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103ios cu strig\u0103turi. Dac\u0103 minimum unul are aceast\u0103 frustrare, e bine ca interac\u021biunea s\u0103 se opreasc\u0103 \u00een fa\u0219\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 se ajunge \u00een punctul \u00een care, s\u0103 zicem: Costel e pictor. Tu l-ai ajutat cu n\u0219pe expozi\u021bii, m\u0103turat sala, adus \u0219i pus tablouri, comunicat de pres\u0103, diverse. Iar \u0103la face brusc o criz\u0103 de nervi c\u0103 tu ai un flirt cu cineva care te intereseaz\u0103 \u00een ACEL MOD. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Atunci, prietenia se \u00eencheie oricum, pentru c\u0103, mor\u021bii t\u0103i, Costele, n-a fost niciodat\u0103 vorba de chestii de genul \u0103la, \u0219i dac\u0103 ar fi fost, puteam petrece timpul de c\u0103rat tablouri uit\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 la toate sezoanele de Vikingi pe Netflix \u00een loc s\u0103-mi rup c\u00e2rca pentru tine \u00een ceea ce credeam c\u0103 e o prietenie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aprecia\u021bi-v\u0103 prietenii. Pentru c\u0103 rela\u021biile apar \u0219i dispar, dar pe un prieten \/ o prieten\u0103 bun\u0103 te bazezi pentru toat\u0103 via\u021ba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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