{"id":26023,"date":"2024-01-31T12:44:13","date_gmt":"2024-01-31T09:44:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26023"},"modified":"2024-01-31T12:46:56","modified_gmt":"2024-01-31T09:46:56","slug":"cum-britney-spears-ii-cere-scuze-lui-justin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cum-britney-spears-ii-cere-scuze-lui-justin\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum, Britney Spears \u00eei cere scuze lui Justin?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

C\u00e2nd a ap\u0103rut anul trecut autobiografia lui Britney, o por\u0163iune \u00eensemnat\u0103 din ea a f\u0103cut titluri de tabloide: cea \u00een care \u00eel f\u0103cea pe Justin Timberlake cu ou \u015fi cu o\u0163et. C\u0103 i-a cerut s\u0103 avorteze cu sila. C\u0103 a \u00een\u015felat-o. C\u0103 \u00een timp ce ea suferea dup\u0103 avort, el c\u00e2nta la chitar\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Evident, toat\u0103 lumea a luat aceste afirma\u0163ii drept adev\u0103r incontestabil, i-a dat unfollow \u015fi un munte de hate lui Justin, \u015fi omul a fost canceled o vreme, iar mult promovata reuniune N’Sync a fost un e\u015fec. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Numai c\u0103 mie mi-a sunat un clopo\u021bel de alarm\u0103 \u0219i sim\u021beam nevoia s\u0103 pun \u00eentreb\u0103ri de baraj legate de aceste afirma\u021bii, pentru c\u0103 mi se pare nedrept ca un om s\u0103 fie canceled doar pe baz\u0103 de zvonistic\u0103. \u00cen special c\u0103 eu sunt omul care a fost canceled pe baz\u0103 de b\u00e2rfe \u0219i zvonuri nefondate de nenum\u0103rate ori, \u0219i \u0219tiu cum e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eram pu\u015ftoaic\u0103 fan\u0103 pop culture \u00een anii 2000, \u015fi \u00eemi amintesc altceva. C\u0103 Justin a acceptat ani \u00een \u015fir aparen\u0163a unei rela\u0163ii platonice, s\u0103 nu-i \u015ftirbeasc\u0103 lui Spears imaginea de virgina cea rea a muzicii pop. B\u0103rba\u0163i din toat\u0103 lumea \u00eel f\u0103ceau p\u0103mp\u0103l\u0103u, betal\u0103u \u015fi cuck pentru c\u0103 era cu o virgin\u0103 \u015fi nu \u201eac\u021biona\u201d. Chiar dac\u0103 \u00een realitate locuiau \u00eempreun\u0103, genul \u0103sta de imagine public\u0103, \u00een care tu e\u0219ti oficial nef***, e greu de dus. \u00cen special c\u0103 starurile masculine ale vremii, toate, absolut toate, se l\u0103udau cu rota\u021bia ampl\u0103 de femei din paturile lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar legat de avort, hai s\u0103 studiem pu\u021bin contextul: \u0218i Britney, \u0219i Justin aveau 20 de ani sau pe acolo. Erau am\u00e2ndoi vedete de A-list, umpleau stadioane, erau \u00een punctul culminant al carierei lor. Genul de moment care nu se men\u021bine forever, \u0219i care trebuie exploatat p\u00e2n\u0103 la ultima pic\u0103tur\u0103. Da, chiar cred c\u0103 Justin nu era preg\u0103tit din niciun punct de vedere s\u0103 fie t\u0103tic, \u0219i, pe baza parentingului lui Britney de mai t\u00e2rziu, \u00eendr\u0103znesc s\u0103 afirm c\u0103 nici ea nu avea de fapt nici o treab\u0103 cu m\u0103micia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i s\u0103 ne punem \u00een situa\u021bie: E\u0219ti t\u00e2n\u0103r \u0219i lipsit de experien\u021b\u0103. Ai de munc\u0103 de la 8 diminea\u021ba \u0219i p\u00e2n\u0103 t\u00e2rziu \u00een noapte. Ai o gagic\u0103 \u00een situa\u021bie similar\u0103: munc\u0103 de la 8 diminea\u021ba \u0219i p\u00e2n\u0103 t\u00e2rziu \u00een noapte. O gagic\u0103 nu foarte echilibrat\u0103 emo\u021bional, \u00een urma unei rela\u021bii extrem de toxice cu p\u0103rin\u021bii, pe care lumea nu o \u0219tie, dar tu, ca iubit, o vezi. C\u0103 nu e\u0219ti orb. Te bagi s\u0103 faci un copil? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi, mai e aici un dublu standard. Dac\u0103 o fat\u0103 de 20 de ani r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103 pentru c\u0103 n-a func\u021bionat protec\u021bia, to\u021bi \u00eei sus\u021binem dreptul la avort. S\u0103 aib\u0103 o \u0219ans\u0103 la via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i carier\u0103. \u0218tim c\u0103 dac\u0103 te \u00eengropi \u00een scutece de at\u00e2t de t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103, pierzi trenul carierei \u0219i ratezi \u0219ansa de a face ceva cu via\u021ba ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i atunci, de ce nu extindem \u0219i unui b\u0103iat de 20 de ani dreptul de a alege dac\u0103 vrea sau nu s\u0103 fie p\u0103rinte, sau vrea s\u0103 se concentreze pe carier\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

OK, bun. \u0218i s-au desp\u0103r\u021bit. Dup\u0103 aia, Britney s-a m\u0103ritat cu un rapper \u0219i dansator irelevant, care nu interesa pe nimeni, care s-a prins c\u0103 prin\u021besa pop are probleme emo\u021bionale, \u0219i care nu i-a f\u0103cut absolut nici o concesie: Kevin Federline. \u0102la a jecm\u0103nit-o de bani f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 clipeasc\u0103, i-a turnat doi copii pe care i-a ob\u021binut prin tribunal la divor\u021b \u0219i a \u0219i ob\u021binut o pensie alimentar\u0103 uria\u0219\u0103, pe care ea trebuie s-o vireze lun\u0103 de lun\u0103, c\u0103 SUA nu se joac\u0103 cu de-astea. Nu e ca la rom\u00e2ni, unde Mari\u021ba face pl\u00e2ngere c\u0103 Ion nu achit\u0103 pensia alimentar\u0103 \u0219i, p\u00e2n\u0103 se mi\u0219c\u0103 justi\u021bia, copilul e deja major \u0219i pl\u00e2ngerea ne\u00eentemeiat\u0103. \u00cen SUA, dac\u0103 o lun\u0103 omi\u021bi s\u0103 virezi, a doua zi ai cita\u021bie la tribunal \u0219i pl\u0103te\u0219ti \u0219i amend\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 cineva a f\u0103cut praf \u0219i cariera, \u0219i via\u021ba lui Britney, a jefuit-o ca-n codru \u0219i i-a asmu\u021bit copiii \u00eempotriva ei, acel cineva e Federline. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe de alt\u0103 parte, Justin, dup\u0103 desp\u0103r\u021bire, \u0219i-a v\u0103zut \u00een lini\u0219te de ale lui. O carier\u0103 solo de succes. A ajuns \u0219i actor cu mari succese de box – office. A f\u0103cut \u0219i comedie cu Jimmy Fallon. Practic, a muncit \u00een continuare \u0219i nu a v\u00e2nat circul de tabloid nici m\u0103car o zi din via\u021ba lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, de ce, c\u00e2nd vedem pe una c\u0103 nu reu\u0219e\u0219te nicicum s\u0103-\u0219i pun\u0103 via\u021ba \u0219i cariera \u00een ordine, \u0219i pe unul care \u00ee\u0219i vede lini\u0219tit de treburile lui de dou\u0103 decenii, noi pactiz\u0103m instant cu prima persoan\u0103, \u0219i ne apuc\u0103m s\u0103 ne c**m pe cel de-al doilea f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-l \u00eentreb\u0103m versiunea lui? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Simplul fapt c\u0103 Justin nu a intrat \u00een acele acuza\u021bii, ci a ales t\u0103cerea, chit c\u0103 era porc\u0103it public de milioane de oameni, ne arat\u0103 calitatea lui uman\u0103. A\u0219a cum, 20 de ani mai devreme, a acceptat s\u0103 par\u0103 fraierul care st\u0103 platonic cu prin\u021besa pop. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i acum, Britney \u00eei cere scuze public lui Justin<\/strong><\/a> \u201epentru ce a scris \u00een carte\u201d, apoi \u00ee\u0219i pune contul de Instagram pe privat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hai s\u0103 v\u0103 spun ce nu faci niciodat\u0103, c\u00e2nd cineva \u021bi-a f\u0103cut r\u0103u: NU \u00ceI CERI TU LUI SCUZE. Po\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eel ier\u021bi, po\u021bi s\u0103 dep\u0103\u0219e\u0219ti umilin\u021ba \u0219i toate sentimentele negative pe care \u021bi le-a inoculat abuzul, po\u021bi s\u0103 ajungi chiar p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een punctul \u00een care nu traversezi instant pe cel\u0103lalt trotuar c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi iese \u00een drum pe strad\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar c\u00e2nd \u0219tii c\u0103 \u0103la \u021bi-a f\u0103cut r\u0103u \u021bie, \u0219i tu nu meritai, NU \u00ee\u021bi ceri scuze. C\u0103 nu ai de ce. Ai spus adev\u0103rul \u0219i aia e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deci, Justin a fost canceled pe nedrept, din c\u0103utare de \u021bapi isp\u0103\u0219itori? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Din nou, da. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenchei cu o recomandare: nu mai pune\u021bi botul ca porcul la troac\u0103 de cum auzi\u021bi o m\u0103g\u0103rie legat\u0103 de cineva. Folosi\u021bi g\u00e2ndirea critic\u0103. Analiza\u021bi datele pe care deja le ave\u021bi \u0219i despre A, \u0219i despre B. \u0218i nu v\u0103 apuca\u021bi s\u0103-l porc\u0103i\u021bi pe B, doar pentru c\u0103 A a avut ceva de spus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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