{"id":26030,"date":"2024-02-01T12:22:09","date_gmt":"2024-02-01T09:22:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26030"},"modified":"2024-02-01T12:22:12","modified_gmt":"2024-02-01T09:22:12","slug":"inca-o-fetita-a-murit-la-galati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/inca-o-fetita-a-murit-la-galati\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00cenc\u0103 o feti\u0163\u0103 a murit la Gala\u0163i"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Iar curg \u015ftirile pe la toate televiziunile \u015fi ziarele, despre o mam\u0103 singur\u0103 din Gala\u0163i, care avea trei feti\u0163e \u015fi \u00ee\u015f\u015fi desc\u0103rca frustr\u0103rile de femeie singur\u0103, cu o imens\u0103 obliga\u0163ie pe cap – trei copiii \u00eenseamn\u0103 renun\u0163area la orice tentativ\u0103 de via\u0163\u0103 sau ini\u0163iativ\u0103 personal\u0103, mai ales c\u00e2nd nu \u00eempar\u0163i responsabilitatea asta cu un partener serios \u015fi implicat – cum spuneam, \u00ee\u015fi desc\u0103rca frustr\u0103rile de sedus\u0103 \u015fi abandonat\u0103 pe fiica cea mare, pe care o snopea \u00een b\u0103taie sear\u0103 de sear\u0103, spre profunda indiferen\u0163\u0103 a vecinilor, care asistau prin pere\u0163i la \u0163ipetele \u015fi pl\u00e2nsetele copilului, \u015fi nu sunau la 112, pentru c\u0103, nu-i a\u015fa, \u201ecasa lor, problemele lor\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd e\u0219ti single \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 obliga\u021bii, pe oameni \u00eei tufe grija cu cine te culci, cu cine te-ai culcat, care e istoricul t\u0103u amoros – sau bodycountul, cum \u00eei zice acum – \u0219i c\u00e2nd o s\u0103 ai de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 faci copii, de zici c\u0103-\u021bi invidiaz\u0103 libertatea \u0219i lipsa obliga\u021biilor \u0219i nu \u0219tiu cum s\u0103 \u021bi-o nimiceasc\u0103 mai repede. Dar c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti \u00eempov\u0103rat\u0103 de obliga\u021bii, cu trei copii pe cap \u0219i cu un prost care are de b\u0103ut \u0219i de hulig\u0103nit \u0219i nu e niciodat\u0103 prezent, pe oameni \u00eei doare \u00een ad\u00e2ncul b\u0103\u0219tii, \u0219i subit nu mai au input valoros de contribuit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u021bi observat asta? To\u021bi \u0103ia oplo\u0219i\u021bi pe capul meu ca r\u00e2ia s\u0103 m\u0103 frece la icre cu valorile familiei tradi\u021bionale sunt de neg\u0103sit c\u00e2nd femeia aia, clar instabil\u0103 psihic, evolua zi de zi spre nebunie sub povara a trei copii care trebuiau hr\u0103ni\u021bi, sp\u0103la\u021bi, \u00eembr\u0103ca\u021bi, \u00eentre\u021binu\u021bi cu toate nevoile lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chiar dac\u0103 f\u0103pta\u0219ul crimei este mama, responsabilul spre care nu arat\u0103 nimeni degetul este \u0219i cealalt\u0103 jum\u0103tate a actului reproductiv. Eu, s\u0103 fi fost mam\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 fi avut de a face cu genul \u0103sta de specimene iresponsabile – ok, probabil c\u0103 le-a\u0219 fi u\u0219uit din faza de \u201ecf, pisi\u201d, pentru c\u0103 am o sc\u00e2rb\u0103 profund\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de machomeni \u0219i de b\u0103g\u0103tori aiurea \u00een seam\u0103 .- dar, presupun\u00e2nd prin absurd c\u0103, \u00eentr-un univers alternativ \u00een care cineva mi-ar fi luat min\u021bile timp de c\u00e2teva luni, a\u0219 fi avut de a face cu genul \u0103sta de specimene iresponsabile, le-a\u0219 da \u00een judecat\u0103 \u0219i le-a\u0219 executa silit s\u0103 cotizeze m\u0103car pensia alimentar\u0103, dac\u0103 tot nu sunt utile cu nimic. Dar cred c\u0103 solu\u021bia de a-i b\u0103ga \u00een mor\u021bii lor de la faza de \u201ecf pysy\u201d e cea corect\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Revenind la caz: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Feti\u021ba cea mare lua b\u0103t\u0103i de nedescris sear\u0103 de sear\u0103, pentru c\u0103, dup\u0103 cum spun \u0219tirile, corpu\u0219orul ei g\u0103sit f\u0103r\u0103 suflare era acoperit cu v\u00e2n\u0103t\u0103i \u0219i cu arsuri. Mama nu-\u0219i b\u0103tea \u0219i feti\u021bele mai mici, dar, mai mult ca sigur, faptul c\u0103 erau martore la aceast\u0103 rev\u0103rsare zilnic\u0103 de violen\u021b\u0103 extrem\u0103 le va l\u0103sa traumatizate pe via\u021b\u0103. Genul acesta de violen\u021b\u0103 cu accente sadice probabil c\u0103 venea \u0219i din presiunea \u0219i efortul zilnic pe care nu le po\u021bi evita c\u00e2nd ai trei copii; probabil c\u0103 venea \u0219i din frustrarea de femeie respins\u0103, care a vrut s\u0103-l lege pe un ciumete f\u0103c\u00e2ndu-i copii, dar mai mult l-a alungat; \u0219i probabil c\u0103 era \u0219i consecin\u021ba unor st\u0103ri mintale nediagnosticate, pentru c\u0103 sigur nu erau bani de terapie, acolo unde abia sunt bani de o p\u00e2ine pe mas\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar din nou, to\u021bi pro\u0219tii b\u0103g\u0103tori \u00een seam\u0103 pun femeilor de pe net \u00eentreb\u0103ri de genul \u201ec\u00e2nd o s\u0103 faci copii\u201d \u00een loc s\u0103 \u00eentrebe \u00eentreb\u0103rile care ar merita: \u201eai condi\u021bii decente s\u0103 \u00eei cre\u0219ti?\u201d, respectiv \u201ee\u0219ti preg\u0103tit\u0103 mintal de responsabilitate? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i din presiunea asta social\u0103 stupid\u0103 \u0219i retardat\u0103, apar tragedii ca aceea a feti\u021bei ucise de mama care nu avea ce s\u0103-i ofere nici financiar, nici emo\u021bional, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd pentru c\u0103 ea \u00eens\u0103\u0219i nu avea stabilitate, nici financiar, nici emo\u021bional. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cred sincer c\u0103 presiunea social\u0103 de a te multiplica cu tot dinadinsul ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eenceteze. Nu mai for\u021ba\u021bi oameni care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103 nici de ei s\u0103 fac\u0103 copii. C\u0103 sunte\u021bi direct responsabili de tragedii care, cu ni\u0219te lec\u021bii de contracep\u021bie, ar fi putut fi evitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, probabil c\u0103 mama respectiv\u0103 va ajunge la pu\u0219c\u0103rie. Celelalte dou\u0103 feti\u021be la casa de copii. Iar tat\u0103l care a contribuit \u0219i el 50% la actul reproductiv va hulig\u0103ni liber \u00een continuare. Pe un b\u0103rbat nu-l \u00eentreab\u0103 nimeni nici c\u00e2nd va face copii, nici ce face pentru stabilitatea material\u0103 \u0219i emo\u021bional\u0103 a copiilor lui deja existen\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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