Femeia poate lua pastile sau nu, poate avea sterilet sau nu, dar cel pu\u021bin \u00een dinamica actului sexual clasic \u00een pozi\u021bii de dedesubt, nu prea controleaz\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u0219i unde finalizezi. \u00cemi amintesc, pe c\u00e2nd aveam 20 de ani, destule pove\u0219ti de la prietene cu \u201el-am rugat s\u0103 nu termine \u00een\u0103untru, dar a zis c\u0103 nu se poate controla, \u0219i acum ce fac?!\u201d, \u0219i recunosc, m\u0103 enervam eu pentru ele. Chit c\u0103 pentru mine r\u0103spunsul era clar: \u201eNu te mai f*** cu pro\u0219ti\u201d. Dar cum num\u0103rul de nepro\u0219ti este limitat \u0219i num\u0103rul de femei care vor ac\u021biune la a\u0219ternut e mai mare dec\u00e2t cel de nepro\u0219ti, prostul trebuie responsabilizat prin factori externi. \u0218i anume, condamnare la complicitate \u00een cazuri ca acela de ieri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eDar vai, eu nu am vrut copii!\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bitch, ai folosit protec\u021bie? Ai ejaculat pe s\u00e2ni, fese, abdomen, orice zon\u0103 care nu prezint\u0103 poten\u021bial de impregnare? Dac\u0103 da, ok, nu ai vrut copii. Dar, cum spuneam, ejacularea e la tine \u0219i dac\u0103, deliberat, f\u0103r\u0103 prezervativ, ai ejaculat \u00een vagin, PAY. THE F. UP. Toate scuzele sunt nule. Lec\u021bia aia de anatomie din a opta e gratuit\u0103, asigurat\u0103 de stat. Dac\u0103 termini cu coco\u0219elul \u00een p\u0103s\u0103ric\u0103 neprotejat, asta duce la o sarcin\u0103, \u0219i legal, 50% din responsabilitate – DIN TOAT\u0102 RESPONSABILITATEA – ar trebui s\u0103 fie a ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-am cam s\u0103turat ca \u00een toate pove\u0219tile cu mam\u0103 singur\u0103 care nu duce psihic povara s\u0103 se adune lumea \u00een sec\u021biunea de comentarii s\u0103 \u00eenjure numai mama. Corect, aia e o bestie. Dar nu e o bestie dotat\u0103 cu abilitatea de a se autoreproduce. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Acum c\u00e2\u021biva ani, a mai fost o situa\u021bie cu una, foarte s\u0103rac\u0103, care nu avea curent \u00een cas\u0103 pe motiv de neplat\u0103, \u0219i lumina \u00eenc\u0103perea cu lum\u00e2n\u0103ri ca \u00een evul mediu. \u0218i c\u00e2nd a ie\u0219it s\u0103 cumpere p\u00e2ine, a \u00eenceput un incendiu \u0219i copiii au murit sufoca\u021bi. \u0218i acolo, mare circ cu \u201e\u0103vai, proasta iresponsabil\u0103 etc.\u201d Nici proasta aia iresponsabil\u0103 nu f\u0103cuse copiii cu \u0219tiule\u021bi de porumb. \u0218i acolo era undeva un gigel care \u00ee\u0219i continua netulburat traiul de adolescent \u00eent\u00e2rziat f\u0103r\u0103 responsabilit\u0103\u021bi \u00een timp ce o femeie renun\u021ba la orice libertate personal\u0103 \u0219i \u0219ans\u0103 de stabilitate financiar\u0103 pentru a-i cre\u0219te copiii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taman de aceea, ar trebui asprite legile legate de pensia alimentar\u0103. Mul\u021bi nu pl\u0103tesc nici de-al dracu, iar dac\u0103 femeia face pl\u00e2ngere, trec ani lungi p\u00e2n\u0103 se solu\u021bioneaz\u0103. Dar multe nu fac pl\u00e2ngere, pentru c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 au o sl\u0103biciune fa\u021b\u0103 de ei \u0219i sper\u0103 s\u0103 se simt\u0103 ei la un moment dat. Newsflash: dac\u0103 nu le fu*i dumnezeii, nu o vor face niciodat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taman de aceea, serviciile de asisten\u021b\u0103 social\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 se autosesizeze \u00een cazul m\u0103micilor singure cu venituri mici \u0219i s\u0103-l streseze pe cet\u0103\u021bean s\u0103 nu-\u0219i uite obliga\u021biile. Oricum, comparativ cu femeia care \u00ee\u0219i petrece toat\u0103 ziua cu grija copilului, ei vireaz\u0103 o sum\u0103 lunar \u0219i, \u00een rest, \u00eei doare la basc\u0103. G\u00e2ndul c\u0103, dac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 vreun dezastru, fac \u0219i ei pu\u0219c\u0103rie, \u00eei va motiva s\u0103 pun\u0103 osul la treab\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sau, m\u0103car, s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103, dac\u0103 se co\u021b\u0103ie f\u0103r\u0103 implica\u021bii cu femei de care nu sunt interesa\u021bi dec\u00e2t la modul sportiv, nu vor l\u0103sa o sarcin\u0103 \u00een urm\u0103, pentru c\u0103 vine asisten\u021ba social\u0103 s\u0103-i frece la icre. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Din punctul meu de vedere, asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 fii prolfer. Nu s\u0103 stresezi toate am\u0103r\u00e2tele s\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 sarcini de care nu sunt preg\u0103tite nici financiar, nici emo\u021bional, \u0219i s\u0103 le \u00eempingi \u00eentr-un abis al neajunsurilor interminabile, p\u00e2n\u0103 ajung ca \u00eentr-o alt\u0103 poveste, cu m\u0103mica disperat\u0103 care a s\u0103rit de la etaj cu bebelu\u0219ul \u00een bra\u021be, \u00eempov\u0103rat\u0103 de datorii pe care nu izbutea nicicum s\u0103 le acopere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen calitate de prolifer, ar trebui s\u0103 militezi pentru condi\u021biile decente pentru ca acea via\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103 \u0219anse s\u0103 fie una normal\u0103 \u0219i echilibrat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bottomline: orice copil a ap\u0103rut din activitatea reproductiv\u0103 A DOU\u0102 PERSOANE. Except\u00e2ndu-i, desigur, pe cei n\u0103scu\u021bi din insemin\u0103ri artificiale la banca de sperm\u0103, la cererea expres\u0103 a unei m\u0103mici care \u00ee\u0219i asuma responsabilitatea complet\u0103. Avem nevoie de legi care s\u0103 le responsabilizeze \u00een mod egal pe ambele. Te cer\u021bi cu femeia, nu mai vrei s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti cu ea? TREABA TA PERSONAL\u0102. Dar copilul nu \u00eenceteaz\u0103 s\u0103 fie al t\u0103u \u0219i tu nu redevii \u00een mod miraculos adolescent rebel f\u0103r\u0103 obliga\u021bii. PUNE OSUL LA TREAB\u0102. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u0218i ca fun fact: la un moment dat, mi se oplo\u0219ise pe page un ins – de care \u0219tiam din b\u00e2rfe c\u0103 are doi copii \u0219i uit\u0103 pensia alimentar\u0103 cu lunile – s\u0103 m\u0103 frece la icre c\u0103 nu-mi doresc copii. Nu a\u021bi v\u0103zut o b\u0103gare \u00een mor\u021bi de mam\u0103 mai glorioas\u0103 \u00een vie\u021bile voastre. P\u0103cat c\u0103 \u00een 2024 nu se mai poate, c\u0103 mi-ar da Facebook o lun\u0103 de silenzio stampa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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