Scrisorica de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bun\u0103,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena, aici X de pe TikTok. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am 31 de ani, dar uneori \u00eemi pierd capul dup\u0103 c\u00e2te un tip, de\u0219i am multe lucruri mai serioase cu care s\u0103 m\u0103 ocup. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ultima mea “mi s-a pus pata pe tine” este un tip de 23 de ani. Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 vorbim random, pe Instagram, dup\u0103 ce, recunosc, i-am dat follow \u0219i mi-a dat inapoi. Ne \u00een\u021belegem ok, \u00eemi place s\u0103 vorbesc cu el, \u00eens\u0103 m\u0103 tot g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103, pe de o parte, vreau o rela\u021bie serioas\u0103, ceea ce la v\u00e2rsta lui nu cred c\u0103 e cazul, \u0219i o relatie ok ,dar f\u0103r\u0103 prea multe implica\u021bii din partea am\u00e2ndurora, din moment ce e diferen\u021ba de v\u00e2rst\u0103 cam m\u0103ricic\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cenc\u0103 nu am discutat cu el mai serios aspectul v\u00e2rstei \u0219i aspira\u021biilor noastre de viitor, pentru c\u0103 mi-e cam fric\u0103 de ce va urma. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Acum, dilema mea e urm\u0103toarea: cum s\u0103 fac s\u0103 nu m\u0103 mai entuziasmeze a\u0219a orice pu\u0219ti? M\u0103 tot g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 e de la faptul c\u0103, \u00een adolescen\u021b\u0103, nu mi-am consumat etapa asta, doar am stat ca fraiera cu cartea \u00een bra\u021be \u0219i de aia, acum parc\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103 recuperez timpul pierdut. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i 2. tipul \u0103sta de 23 de ani lucreaz\u0103, are un job, este c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t serios \u0219i cu perspective. Consideri varianta \u00een care am\u00e2ndoi construim ceva \u00eempreun\u0103 am\u00e2ndoi cot la cot o variant\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103toare \u0219i de succes, sau crezi c\u0103 e mai bine s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i vad\u0103 fiecare de drumul lui separat? Recunosc c\u0103 mi-ar pl\u0103cea chestia asta, s\u0103 cre\u0219tem \u00eempreun\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 construim ceva mai mult dec\u00e2t o aventur\u0103 pasager\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Mersi frumos,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat concret \u0219i faptic: v-a\u021bi v\u0103zut, v-a\u021bi dat follow reciproc pe Instagram \u0219i sta\u021bi de vorb\u0103. Nu mi-ai povestit nimic de un eventual date. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i din experien\u021b\u0103, nu prea are sens s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi faci nici un fel de proiec\u021bii \u0219i de scenarii p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu \u00eel vezi pe om fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103, dintr-un motiv simplu: CHIMIA DE PE INSTAGRAM NU SE POTRIVE\u0218TE CU CEA DIN T\u00c2RG. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla s\u0103 fii pe aceea\u0219i lungime de und\u0103 \u00een taifas privat cu cineva, apoi s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lni\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 nu existe urm\u0103 de sc\u00e2nteie \u00eentre voi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e2nd eu \u00eemi trec \u00een profilurile online \u201enonbinar\u201d \u0219i \u201ethey \/ them\u201d, m\u0103 refer \u0219i la faptul c\u0103 nu \u00een\u021beleg neam nevoia asta femeiasc\u0103 de a te proiecta pe tine \u00eens\u0103\u021bi cu voal de mireas\u0103 \u0219i cu \u0219apte copii de poale, c\u00e2nd tu nici m\u0103car nu l-ai cunoscut fizic pe om, s\u0103 vezi ce se na\u0219te \u00eentre voi. Compatibilitatea propriu-zis\u0103, pe care o ve\u021bi testa c\u00e2nd v\u0103 ve\u021bi \u00eent\u00e2lni \u00een persoan\u0103, va ar\u0103ta dac\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti la mai mult, \u0219i mai exact, c\u00e2t de mult. Po\u021bi s\u0103 te \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti cu el \u0219i s\u0103 consta\u021bi c\u0103, de fapt, nu te atrage. \u0218i atunci, ai visat ca fraiera la cai verzi pe pere\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Diferen\u021ba de v\u00e2rst\u0103 e irelevant\u0103, dac\u0103 exist\u0103 compatibilitate. \u021ai-o spune o fat\u0103 care a avut \u0219i rela\u021bii cu persoane cu 20 de ani mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103, \u0219i care a \u0219i dezvirginat juni de 18 ani. V\u00e2rsta e un num\u0103r. Dac\u0103 exist\u0103 magia aia \u00eentre suflete \u0219i corpuri, you gonna make it work. Dac\u0103 nu, nu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ca sfat, \u00eentreab\u0103-l verde \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 pe combatant c\u00e2nd ie\u0219i\u021bi la un suc, pentru c\u0103 \u00eel g\u0103se\u0219ti interesant \u0219i \u021bi-ar pl\u0103cea s\u0103-l cuno\u0219ti personal. Nu-i da invita\u021biei conota\u021bie amoroas\u0103, s\u0103 ai loc de \u00eentors dac\u0103 nu te sim\u021bi atras\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00eel vezi. Fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103, vei descoperi \u0219i volumul t\u0103u de atrac\u021bie fa\u021b\u0103 de el, \u0219i volumul lui de atrac\u021bie fa\u021b\u0103 de tine. Dac\u0103 discu\u021bia pare mai degrab\u0103 serioas\u0103, lua\u021bi-o pas cu pas \u0219i construi\u021bi. Dac\u0103 e mai pe atrac\u021bie animalic\u0103, ai 31 de ani; dac\u0103 acum nu te dedai la ni\u0219te heavy milf action, atunci c\u00e2nd? Nimic nu se compar\u0103 cu apetitul s**ual masculin de la 23 de ani, cu trei – patru numere pe noapte. \u0218i \u00een mod cert ai nevoie, dac\u0103 e\u0219ti at\u00e2t de thirsty, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 visezi la construit \u00eempreun\u0103 dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva discu\u021bii pe Instagram. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu e nimic gre\u0219it s\u0103 ai o poveste de amor f\u0103r\u0103 fire ata\u0219ate, a\u0219a cum, dac\u0103 vibe-ul interac\u021biunii e pe seriozitate, nu e nimic gre\u0219it s\u0103 vezi unde duce calea aia. \u015ei nu e nimic gre\u015fit s\u0103 lipseasc\u0103 orice je ne sais quoi \u015fi s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne\u0163i prieteni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar ca s\u0103 vezi ce va fi, \u00eenceteaz\u0103 s\u0103 mai proiectezi filme artistice, c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti cinema Scala. Scoate b\u0103iatul la un suc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 apreciezi acest articol, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103.\u00a0Aici<\/strong><\/a>. Pentru dona\u021bii de 50 de euro sau mai mult, \u00eemi po\u021bi propune tu un subiect. Pentru dona\u021bii de 25 de euro sau mai mult, po\u021bi propune o poezie pentru\u00a0cele 365 de zile de poezie.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimi(te)\u021bi problema voastr\u0103 de suflet...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":20650,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26054","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cuplu.jpg?fit=640%2C426&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26054","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26054"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26054\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26057,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26054\/revisions\/26057"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20650"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26054"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26054"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26054"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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