{"id":26059,"date":"2024-02-08T13:01:38","date_gmt":"2024-02-08T10:01:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26059"},"modified":"2024-02-08T13:01:40","modified_gmt":"2024-02-08T10:01:40","slug":"cautati-relatii-care-sa-va-ridice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cautati-relatii-care-sa-va-ridice\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u0103uta\u0163i rela\u0163ii care s\u0103 v\u0103 ridice"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Nu \u015ftiu de unde \u015fi p\u00e2n\u0103 unde mi s-a dus mie buhul c\u0103 sunt oracolul din Delhi al internetului, dar mi-a scris un b\u0103iat s\u0103-mi povesteasc\u0103 despre situa\u0163ia lui de via\u0163\u0103. \u00cen or\u0103\u015felul lui din Rom\u00e2nia, c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103 minimum pe economie, pentru c\u0103 \u015fomajul e mare \u015fi joburile pu\u0163ine. \u00cen str\u0103in\u0103tate, are oportunit\u0103\u0163i de joburi pl\u0103tite corect \u015fi pe m\u0103sura nevoilor lui. Dar are o gagic\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u0163\u00e2nat\u0103, care refuz\u0103 s\u0103 plece \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate, pe motiv c\u0103, pe de o parte, e foarte ata\u015fat\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u0163i \u015f prieteni, \u015fi, pe de alta, \u201eavem ce m\u00e2nca, ce ne trebuie mai mult\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Low-key: m\u0103 \u00eentreb cum au toate g\u00e2\u0219tele astea proaste cu spume noroc de b\u0103rba\u021bi loiali \u0219i iubitori, care intr\u0103 \u00een criz\u0103 existen\u021bial\u0103 din dorin\u021ba de a le include \u00een planurile lor de viitor, \u0219i multe femei de\u0219tepte \u0219i frumoase \u00eent\u00e2lnesc numai jigodii narcisiste \u0219i exploatatoare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar nu acesta e subiectul post\u0103rii. Evident c\u0103, dac\u0103 tu ai ambi\u021bia s\u0103 faci mai multe cu via\u021ba ta, \u0219i nu po\u021bi acas\u0103, c\u0103 nu ai oportunit\u0103\u021bi, iar proasta vrea doar s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 de pe o zi pe alta, te duci \u0219i-\u021bi faci treaba. Proasta va g\u0103si sigur un mediocru \u0219i vor tr\u0103i \u00eempreun\u0103 din reducerile s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nale de la Carrefour \u0219i Lidl, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd o boal\u0103 mai serioas\u0103, de care nu vor avea bani, \u00eei va desp\u0103r\u021bi, dar asta nu va mai fi problema ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi-aduc aminte de o \u0219tire de acum c\u00e2teva luni, cu o fat\u0103 dintr-o \u021bar\u0103 african\u0103 s\u0103rac\u0103, o fat\u0103 cu rezultate \u0219colare excep\u021bionale, care a aplicat pentru o burs\u0103 la o universitate canadian\u0103, \u0219i a fost admis\u0103, cu toate cheltuielile de cazare \u0219i m\u00e2ncare pl\u0103tite. \u0218i bou-friendul din dotare a \u00eenceput s\u0103 fac\u0103 t\u0103r\u0103boi, c\u0103 dac\u0103 se duce, rela\u021bia e over. Spre deosebire de rom\u00e2nca omului meu, care era doar o proast\u0103 pasiv\u0103, \u0103la era un dobitoc care alesese t\u0103r\u0103boiul \u0219i f\u0103cea circ pe TikTok, cu femeia lui care trebuie s\u0103 fie la ordin, nu s\u0103 v\u00e2neze diplome \u0219i alte prostii. Evident c\u0103 au r\u00e2s femeile de pe TikTok de el \u0219i cu dorsalul, \u0219i i-au zis: \u201eb\u0103i, pu\u021bic\u0103 trist\u0103, ce ai tu de oferit? Arfe \u0219i figuri? Eu, s\u0103 fiu gagic\u0103-ta, te-a\u0219 b\u0103ga \u00een mor\u021bii t\u0103i pentru atitudine, chiar \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 burs\u0103. Du-te, fat\u0103, \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 \u0219i d\u0103-\u021bi o \u0219ans\u0103 la via\u021b\u0103, Canada e plin\u0103 de b\u0103rba\u021bi mai mi\u0219to dec\u00e2t prostul \u0103sta.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen ambele cazuri, o persoan\u0103 ambi\u021bioas\u0103 \u0219i capabil\u0103 de munc\u0103 \u0219i de performan\u021b\u0103 alesese s\u0103 se cupleze cu un loser patentat, \u0219i loserul patentat \u00ee\u0219i g\u0103sea \u00eendeletnicire din a t\u0103ia cu fier\u0103str\u0103ul aripile persoanei ambi\u021bioase, dotate cu poten\u021bial \u0219i cu voin\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fie c\u0103 sunte\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bi, fie c\u0103 sunte\u021bi femei, sau genders alternative: NU accepta\u021bi rela\u021bii cu rata\u021bi. Cine te trage \u00een jos nu e pentru tine. Cine \u00ee\u021bi bag\u0103 be\u021be \u00een roate nu e pentru tine. Cine prefer\u0103 s\u0103 o ard\u0103 pe s\u0103r\u0103cie \u0219i ignoran\u021b\u0103 nu e pentru tine. Cine caut\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi induc\u0103 fric\u0103, nesiguran\u021b\u0103, \u00eendoieli legate de propriile calit\u0103\u021bi, negativitate nu e pentru tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alege\u021bi-v\u0103 rela\u021bii care s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eencurajeze s\u0103 munci\u021bi, s\u0103 cre\u0219te\u021bi, s\u0103 v\u0103 educa\u021bi, s\u0103 accepta\u021bi oportunit\u0103\u021bi, s\u0103 \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219a\u021bi succesul, atunci c\u00e2nd v\u0103 iese \u00een cale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un om poate cre\u0219te incredibil de mult, al\u0103turi de cineva care \u00eei transmite \u00eencredere \u0219i ambi\u021bie, \u0219i poate ajunge o ruin\u0103 al\u0103turi de un invidios sau o invidioas\u0103 care te insult\u0103 \u00een mod repetat, doar pentru c\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 valorezi mai mult dec\u00e2t el \/ ea \u0219i nu poate suporta g\u00e2ndul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Via\u021ba e prea scurt\u0103 pentru toxicitate \u0219i negativitate, \u0219i dac\u0103 alege\u021bi s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bi\u021bi timpul \u0219i resursele cu cineva, alege\u021bi oameni care v\u0103 apreciaz\u0103 poten\u021bialul, ambi\u021bia, inteligen\u021ba, perseveren\u021ba, m\u0103iestria \u00eentr-un anumit domeniu \u0219i v\u0103 sus\u021bin s\u0103 le valorifica\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alege\u021bi mereu bursa din Canada. Iar dac\u0103 iubi nu spune acela\u0219i lucru, e semn c\u0103 nu e iubi potrivit pentru voi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eDatoria ta s\u0103-mi faci mie un sandvi\u0219 e mai important\u0103 dec\u00e2t \u00eemplinirea ta profesional\u0103 \u0219i uman\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mar\u0219, m\u0103. Dac\u0103 o enun\u021b\u0103 pe asta, singura chestie la care trebuie s\u0103 renun\u021bi \u00een via\u021ba ta e datoria de a-i face un sandvi\u0219. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alege\u021bi bursa din Canada \u0219i, pe drum, ve\u021bi \u00eent\u00e2lni pe cineva care v\u0103 va \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219a tocmai pentru voin\u021ba, ambi\u021bia \u0219i perseveren\u021ba cu care a\u021bi ob\u021binut bursa din Canada. Adic\u0103 pentru ceea ce conteaz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Succes! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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