{"id":26066,"date":"2024-02-10T14:12:30","date_gmt":"2024-02-10T11:12:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26066"},"modified":"2024-02-10T14:12:33","modified_gmt":"2024-02-10T11:12:33","slug":"teodosie-si-femeile-divortate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/teodosie-si-femeile-divortate\/","title":{"rendered":"Teodosie \u015fi femeile divor\u0163ate"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

La un moment dat, mi se oplo\u015fise pe pagin\u0103 o tip\u0103. M\u0103mic\u0103 singur\u0103, ie\u015fit\u0103 dintr-o rela\u0163ie abuziv\u0103, cu un copil. Cu un job bine pl\u0103tit, \u00ee\u015fi permitea haine scumpe, cosmetice \u015fi parfumuri fine, ocazional o vacan\u0163\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate. \u015etiu, pentru c\u0103 mi se l\u0103uda cu ele de zor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tipa asta ura cu sete progresismul \u015fi \u201ewokismul\u201d \u0219i, de c\u00e2te ori subiectul articolului avea leg\u0103tur\u0103, \u00eencepea s\u0103 le spurce cu sete. P\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi c\u00e2nd m-a prins u\u0219or iritat\u0103. \u0218i atunci i-am zis pe \u0219leau. B\u0103i, gigelo, tu, o femeie divor\u021bat\u0103, \u00eenjuri exact chestiile care \u021bi-au oferit o \u0219ans\u0103 s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i integrat\u0103 \u00een societate \u0219i s\u0103 ai o via\u021b\u0103 superb\u0103? \u0218tii cum erau tratate divor\u021batele \u00een societatea aia tradi\u021bional\u0103 pe care o boce\u0219ti tu cu lacrimi de crocodil? Erau marginalizate, stigmatizate, condamnate, porc\u0103ite cam cum sunt porc\u0103it\u0103 eu c\u00e2nd spun c\u0103 \u201enu ai nevoie de machiaj\u201d nu e un compliment. De aceea, ajungeau s\u0103 \u00eendure abuzuri de neimaginat \u00een c\u0103s\u0103torii, doar ca s\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 specimenul l\u00e2ng\u0103 ele. Tu \u00eentr-o societate tradi\u021bional\u0103 erai \u00een continuare legat\u0103 de boul \u0103la care te-a min\u021bit, te-a jignit \u0219i te-a manipulat, \u0219i nu doar asta, dar n-ai fi avut acel venit din care te r\u0103sfe\u021bi cum vrei tu, ci ai fi slug\u0103rit gratis la crati\u021ba lui \u00een continuare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mai ales astea ca tine, care s-au c\u0103s\u0103torit gre\u0219it \u0219i a\u021bi avut o ie\u0219ire din calvar \u0219i o \u0219ans\u0103 la o via\u021b\u0103 ok, ar trebui s\u0103 \u00een\u0103l\u021ba\u021bi slav\u0103 cerurilor c\u0103 exist\u0103 progresism \u0219i feminism. F\u0103r\u0103 astea, cer\u0219ea\u021bi la marginea drumului s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eentre\u021bine\u021bi copiii, pe care evident c\u0103 boul i-ar fi repudiat dup\u0103 ce a fost p\u0103r\u0103sit de voi \u0219i vi i-ar fi plasat tot vou\u0103 pe cap, pentru c\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 intervin\u0103 statul cu o lege a pensiei alimentare, paternitatea era dup\u0103 cheful boului de a face pe plac mamei sau nu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aia a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se smiorc\u0103ie c\u0103 nu \u00een\u021beleg eu nimic din nimic, iar eu, cum v-am zis, u\u0219or iritat\u0103 \u00een seara aia, i-am aplicat un block scurt, s\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 tirade retardate antiprogresism pe contul propriu, nu pe nervii mei, mai ales din postura de principal\u0103 beneficiar\u0103 a progresismului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi-am amintit de aceast\u0103 interac\u021biune c\u00e2nd am citit declara\u021bia Arhiepiscopului de Tomis, Teodosie, despre femei divor\u021bate. C\u0103 dac\u0103 a vrut b\u0103rbatul s\u0103 le lase, bravo lui, dar dac\u0103 a vrut ea divor\u021bul, atunci evident c\u0103 nu e valid, \u0219i urm\u0103torul so\u021b comite de fapt adulter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103, pe ritul societ\u0103\u021bii tradi\u021bionale pe care o depl\u00e2ngea gigela mea divor\u021bat\u0103, VOIN\u021aA FEMEII AR TREBUI S\u0102 NU \u00ceNSEMNE NIMIC. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Asta e biserica ortodox\u0103, cea care e plin\u0103 duminic\u0103 de duminic\u0103, \u0219i \u00een special de enoria\u0219e femei. Care sunt perfect \u00eemp\u0103cate cu ideea c\u0103 voin\u021ba lor nu ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eensemne nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lumea face mi\u0219touri de Teodosie \u0219i de minunile pe care le emite periodic, dar omul nu spune dec\u00e2t chestii care, acum o sut\u0103 de ani, s-ar fi aplicat 100% neironic \u0219i care, \u00een alte societ\u0103\u021bi bazate pe religie, se \u0219i aplic\u0103 100% neironic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Societ\u0103\u021bi \u00een care femeia nu poate divor\u021ba, indiferent c\u00e2t de abuziv e \u0103la, pentru c\u0103 voin\u021ba ei nu conteaz\u0103. Societ\u0103\u021bi unde so\u021bul p\u0103r\u0103sit care vine s\u0103-\u0219i terorizeze fosta cu amenin\u021b\u0103ri, ba chiar violen\u021b\u0103 fizic\u0103, e chiar \u00eencurajat. Pentru c\u0103 e important ce vrea el, nu ce vrea ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen loc s\u0103 facem mi\u0219touri de Teodosie, sugerez s\u0103-l lu\u0103m \u00een serios \u0219i s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem ceea ce spune ca pe un pericol real \u0219i palpabil. Pentru c\u0103 a\u0219a a fost, \u0219i dac\u0103 nu ne pre\u021buim libertatea, se poate s\u0103 mai fie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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